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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A thought fabswingers was for like minded people to chat meet and connect with , since joining a week hasn't gone by without abuse ... is it worth staying ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a thick skin.... don't worry about what others think/say. Works for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"A thought fabswingers was for like minded people to chat meet and connect with , since joining a week hasn't gone by without abuse ... is it worth staying ???"

Yes.....no......actually yes....oh I don't know, is it?

Only you know if it's worth it for you but it would be a shame to leave wouldn't it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think the good outways the bad ... it can be annoying and hurtful if some of the comments happened in a pub the would be drinking from the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't understand what an all encompassing term like likeminded actually means......

Perhaps I'm just not likeminded ,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Internet is always the same innit - people hiding behind keyboards can be rather brave. Just gotta ignore em

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If you're getting abuse then report it

You see to have had lots of fun today on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think the good outways the bad ... it can be annoying and hurtful if some of the comments happened in a pub the would be drinking from the floor"

If you get abusive mail, report it. Admin are great at sorting that kind of thing.

Then remember that the words aren't personal at you. They don't know anything about you. All they know is what text and pics you put up. Only you know the reality. So are their hateful words REALLY about you, or about some person that they think you are? It's the latter. So just delete the mail without a second thought. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good advice

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Oh the good old keyboard warriors! Some of my worst abuse has actually been from people I have never spoke to never mind declined, and all in the middle of the night, so I have their lovely messages to wake up to.

Thick skin, block and report and let them go over your head x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A thought fabswingers was for like minded people to chat meet and connect with , since joining a week hasn't gone by without abuse ... is it worth staying ???"

It is astonishly common. Only the other day, this gentleman said something. I said something and he said "FUCK OFF CUNT!!" In public. To me. In public. Well, in the forum but you know what's I mean. Other people read it and thought "yeah he is" and I'm hoping one or two thought "poor sod, I feel sorry for him. I wonder if a shag will cheer him up' but as I never received any such messages, I'm assuming not

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