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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you send a face pic first and then are ignored or blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to chat a bit first before sending pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see who I'm chatting to so send and ask for a pic. No point chatting to some one you don't fancy or who could possibly be related ha ha you never know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A chat first too .. see if we match ,but lots have no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was blocked once after sending a face pic. Don't believe I look THAT bad, still if I wasn't for them, then it saves time. You shouldn't let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was blocked once after sending a face pic. Don't believe I look THAT bad, still if I wasn't for them, then it saves time. You shouldn't let it bother you. "
always nice to receive a message saying no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I'd rather not waste time chatting for too long before swapping pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was blocked once after sending a face pic. Don't believe I look THAT bad, still if I wasn't for them, then it saves time. You shouldn't let it bother you. always nice to receive a message saying no thanks. "

I totally agree, politeness should never be overlooked just because we are all after sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do so many demand you send a face pic first ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was blocked once after sending a face pic. Don't believe I look THAT bad, still if I wasn't for them, then it saves time. You shouldn't let it bother you. always nice to receive a message saying no thanks. "

Sure it's nice, but it doesn't really matter either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many demand you send a face pic first ??"

Cos for some there's no point even talking if there's no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many demand you send a face pic first ??"

People need to see who there chatting to, to see if there is an attraction first. Some to see if your genuine etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've realised those that you find out have no face pic and demand yours are timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics public so I think it very rude if someone sends me a message & they don't include a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was blocked once after sending a face pic. Don't believe I look THAT bad, still if I wasn't for them, then it saves time. You shouldn't let it bother you. always nice to receive a message saying no thanks.

Sure it's nice, but it doesn't really matter either way. "
not really but stops the pestering from not replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A keep my face pics in private and are happy to send, but its annoying when they got none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many demand you send a face pic first ??"

I don't demand it but i tend to not bother chatting to anyone who doesn't.

I used to talk to a great guy on here when i first joined, didn't even realise i'd never seen a pic of him, and this went on for weeks. One day he said i'd best send a face pic then, with a joke about "and this is where you stop talking to me". He knew he wasn't good looking and had probably had this reaction before tbh and i didn't fancy him at all, which was a shame.

It's not just people without pics though. People too far away tend to get ignored, people well out of my age range especially when they say 'i know i'm not'....just better to ignore people that piss you off than to get mad about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A found it easier that the more genuine people tend to live some distance, as if they travel 100 miles to meet, they no being false won't work

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"A keep my face pics in private and are happy to send, but its annoying when they got none "

Do they tell you they have none?

Usual etiquette is that if you approach someone you should send the face pics first

Obviously not everyone goes by that,but it seems a fair way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send a face pic first and then are ignored or blocked "

I wouldn't block a not so nice face.

Ignore... Maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A sent pics to a guy as we chatted he then sent message sorry got no pics.. yet he earlier said he had .. its annoying untruth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sent pics to a guy as we chatted he then sent message sorry got no pics.. yet he earlier said he had .. its annoying untruth "

Does he want to meet you still?

If not I'd say he didn't like what he saw.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"A sent pics to a guy as we chatted he then sent message sorry got no pics.. yet he earlier said he had .. its annoying untruth "

He's telling you in a round about way that he doesn't want to take thing further

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He still wanted a meet but I replied villa ain't on fab sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually always send a face pic with first message.Most couples/females profiles I read absolutely insist on it!

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