Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So i fancy someone and i like to ask her out but i am bit of a chicken to do this If i send Bunch of Roses to her work place will it be weird or a nice surprise ? How would you react ? " Does she know who you are? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So i fancy someone and i like to ask her out but i am bit of a chicken to do this If i send Bunch of Roses to her work place will it be weird or a nice surprise ? How would you react ? " I'd get her chicken in a bucket. She'll be sure to swoon. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So i fancy someone and i like to ask her out but i am bit of a chicken to do this If i send Bunch of Roses to her work place will it be weird or a nice surprise ? How would you react ? I'd get her chicken in a bucket. She'll be sure to swoon. " Oh god, I'd love that | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Why not follow her home and masturbate on her living room floor? That's what I would do " Damn..!!.. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Why not follow her home and masturbate on her living room floor? That's what I would do " I seriously wonder what goes on in that mind of yours | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Cr5, True very true but if she is then good luck to her and no harm done and its only flowers only a few quid as long as she smiles i guess i did my job " As a one off gesture, I don't think there's anything wrong with sending flowers. Just don't get your hopes up | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Pink exactly, just want to a smile on her face and show her that i guess someone out there thinks she is absolutely beautiful " OK, if you must I like tulips & a bottle of prosecco would be great too | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I make paper flowers for girls I fancy." What about the those women you hate intensely? Paper wreaths? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Pure, what do you mean you do not get any ..flowers that is " I prefer longer lasting presents rather than flowers that die Although champagne never lasts that long in my presence | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dom, i will be sending two of each color , i even got them to bring a blood red rose and black rose / rainbow rose which cost me £9 pounds each ( robbing a brother out here legally ) with perhaps a heart balloon and now i bin told to add chocolates LOL this is becoming an expensive crush haha " In my opinion, choose something classy, not rainbow. And no balloon, it'll be a pain to take home and draw attention to her - she may be shy. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dom, i will be sending two of each color , i even got them to bring a blood red rose and black rose / rainbow rose which cost me £9 pounds each ( robbing a brother out here legally ) with perhaps a heart balloon and now i bin told to add chocolates LOL this is becoming an expensive crush haha " Haha less is more and planning is key How will she react? Would she be interested MOST IMPORTANTLY, will declining cause her embarrassment Overloading her with flowers chocolates nextdoors cat in front of all her work colleagues could work against you Keep it low key, try to make it so both yes and no outcomes have limited embarrassment for both of you, Or screw all that, get a white suit, single red rose, full brass band and serenade her from her companies reception, haha, Good luck though | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Cr5, im listening, tell me " A red rose arrangement is enough, no more than a couple dozen (that's huge, anyway). Unless the chocolates are posh like Charbonnel et Walker, Godiva, Leonidas or Hotel Chocolat, leave them too. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"LOL sexybrain , really dude" Yep, I've written them poems too. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nope..i seen her but she dont know off me..and wait till 14 Feb ? So i wait for another man to move in on her while i sit there no chance lol" dud while your fannying around asking complete strangers what to do someone else is probably already scattering rose petals on her pillow.. just a thought.. he who hesitates etc.. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Flowers from a stranger. .weird " I'm curious as to why? It's a show of affection from an as yet unknown admirer, I'm sure if they'd graduated from the Nicolaj Costa-Waldeau institute of handsome you wouldn't be finding their affections 'weird'. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Flowers from a stranger. .weird I'm curious as to why? It's a show of affection from an as yet unknown admirer, I'm sure if they'd graduated from the Nicolaj Costa-Waldeau institute of handsome you wouldn't be finding their affections 'weird'." Weird may be wrong word ... In my opinion though, regardless of how someone looks, its not the 'norm'. I use that phrase loosely. Some of us women , just like some of you men, are a little shy/ conscious. After all, society tells is not to except gifts from strangers and from someone who she's never spoken to , it may just put her off a little. If he spoke to her first, then sent her flowers, this would be different as shed know who they were from. We could be wrong, she could be impressed with the flowers. Think of you're response If a woman sent a gift to your work, a woman you'd not spoken to before ..... Whatever you choose OP I hope it goes well | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"How about chocolate? Is it weirder or better, than to send flowers?.. " Fatty :p | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Flowers from a stranger. .weird I'm curious as to why? It's a show of affection from an as yet unknown admirer, I'm sure if they'd graduated from the Nicolaj Costa-Waldeau institute of handsome you wouldn't be finding their affections 'weird'." For me flowers from a complete stranger are weird no matter what Insitute they are from..and why assume that someone is handsome id want flowers from a stranger? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Flowers from a stranger. .weird I'm curious as to why? It's a show of affection from an as yet unknown admirer, I'm sure if they'd graduated from the Nicolaj Costa-Waldeau institute of handsome you wouldn't be finding their affections 'weird'. For me flowers from a complete stranger are weird no matter what Insitute they are from..and why assume that someone is handsome id want flowers from a stranger? " Alright, perhaps a full bouquet of roses is a bit much, but I still think a paper flower left on someones desk would be seen as a rather sweet and gentle way to let them know of your affections. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So i fancy someone and i like to ask her out but i am bit of a chicken to do this If i send Bunch of Roses to her work place will it be weird or a nice surprise ? How would you react ? " Don't send her anything , do you want a woman that thinks of you as a provider of flowers or money And don't take any notic of what the women have said on this thread , women are mental and have no idea what they want. Just a simple " I am going bowling thirsday evening want to tag along " If she said yes ( which you have a greater chance off than sending her flowers or chocolates at work and having her public humiliation in front of everyone ) say see you at time place , and then walk away . Your obviously not very good with women , don't try and chat to her, go bowling , have a game of pool and then leave saying you have to work . At this point ask for her email address, she will gladly give that you, as its a safe bet , then just say scribble your number down . If she says can I have your number because I don't know mine say " no way you look the type to ring me 300 times a day , The les you say the better it will be for you . | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So have you sent the flowers yet OP? If it was me I'd probably want to gauge how she'd feel about publicly getting flowers first. If she'd feel uncomfortable or awkward having that happen in front of her colleagues it might backfire. But I guess if she'd be ok with it, it is quite an unusual and chivalrous way to let her know she is admired. I'm not sure I'd do it without striking up a conversation first but it might work and charm the pants off her. Good luck in whatever you do OP, I hope it works out for you! " Men take flowers to their mum and their nans , or to funerals. Chocolates to kids Any time a man gives a woman flowers or chocolates except mum or nan he has done something wrong | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I would be delighted if someone did that for me. It's not creepy. It's romantic " . I grow my own roses | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So i fancy someone and i like to ask her out but i am bit of a chicken to do this If i send Bunch of Roses to her work place will it be weird or a nice surprise ? How would you react ? Don't send her anything , do you want a woman that thinks of you as a provider of flowers or money And don't take any notic of what the women have said on this thread , women are mental and have no idea what they want. Just a simple " I am going bowling thirsday evening want to tag along " If she said yes ( which you have a greater chance off than sending her flowers or chocolates at work and having her public humiliation in front of everyone ) say see you at time place , and then walk away . Your obviously not very good with women , don't try and chat to her, go bowling , have a game of pool and then leave saying you have to work . At this point ask for her email address, she will gladly give that you, as its a safe bet , then just say scribble your number down . If she says can I have your number because I don't know mine say " no way you look the type to ring me 300 times a day , The les you say the better it will be for you ." Jesus. Sometimes it's just nice to give someone a gift. Don't be so miserable (or so fucking misogynistic). | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Update.. I did send her the flowers, Two Colors Each, and she loved it. My mate delivered them to her @ her work place, i was on phone to him & i heard a lot of Aww`s and omg those are very pretty . I left a little note there saying how i thought she is the Most Beautiful Woman i have ever seen and how i wanted to give the flowers to her my self but i was bit shy anyways left my number, and we bin to dinner already and plan to go again Who says romance is dead ! Ps, not about me not being confident etc @ times you will come across someone that you do actually like and you wish not to mess it up so i took this route and hey ho paid off ! " Thank goodness for that! I'm glad it didn't backfire on you and I hope it goes from strength to strength | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Update.. I did send her the flowers, Two Colors Each, and she loved it. My mate delivered them to her @ her work place, i was on phone to him & i heard a lot of Aww`s and omg those are very pretty . I left a little note there saying how i thought she is the Most Beautiful Woman i have ever seen and how i wanted to give the flowers to her my self but i was bit shy anyways left my number, and we bin to dinner already and plan to go again Who says romance is dead ! Ps, not about me not being confident etc @ times you will come across someone that you do actually like and you wish not to mess it up so i took this route and hey ho paid off ! " Woohoo!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Update.. I did send her the flowers, Two Colors Each, and she loved it. My mate delivered them to her @ her work place, i was on phone to him & i heard a lot of Aww`s and omg those are very pretty . I left a little note there saying how i thought she is the Most Beautiful Woman i have ever seen and how i wanted to give the flowers to her my self but i was bit shy anyways left my number, and we bin to dinner already and plan to go again Who says romance is dead ! Ps, not about me not being confident etc @ times you will come across someone that you do actually like and you wish not to mess it up so i took this route and hey ho paid off ! " Well done... The offer of rohypnol still stands... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Update.. I did send her the flowers, Two Colors Each, and she loved it. My mate delivered them to her @ her work place, i was on phone to him & i heard a lot of Aww`s and omg those are very pretty . I left a little note there saying how i thought she is the Most Beautiful Woman i have ever seen and how i wanted to give the flowers to her my self but i was bit shy anyways left my number, and we bin to dinner already and plan to go again Who says romance is dead ! Ps, not about me not being confident etc @ times you will come across someone that you do actually like and you wish not to mess it up so i took this route and hey ho paid off ! " Well pleased for you mate, you took a risk where many others (myself included) wouldn't and it paid off for you Good on you, | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Imagine if you are @ a hair salon and you see someone delivering flowers to someone who works there, initial thoughts are Aww or How Cute/Sweet etc NOT omg that is weird / creepy or if someone sent them to me i would bin them blah blah, that shows you are no where near romantic or you have not come across any gentleman who would show you any sign of romance Just saying " I detest being given cut flowers, it's a waste of money and resources. Your other assumptions are just that, assumptions. Anyone who wanted to give me a romantic gesture would know exactly what that was which would make it VERY romantic and original. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"So i fancy someone and i like to ask her out but i am bit of a chicken to do this If i send Bunch of Roses to her work place will it be weird or a nice surprise ? How would you react ? Don't send her anything , do you want a woman that thinks of you as a provider of flowers or money And don't take any notic of what the women have said on this thread , women are mental and have no idea what they want. Just a simple " I am going bowling thirsday evening want to tag along " If she said yes ( which you have a greater chance off than sending her flowers or chocolates at work and having her public humiliation in front of everyone ) say see you at time place , and then walk away . Your obviously not very good with women , don't try and chat to her, go bowling , have a game of pool and then leave saying you have to work . At this point ask for her email address, she will gladly give that you, as its a safe bet , then just say scribble your number down . If she says can I have your number because I don't know mine say " no way you look the type to ring me 300 times a day , The les you say the better it will be for you . Jesus. Sometimes it's just nice to give someone a gift. Don't be so miserable (or so fucking misogynistic). " So you like it when a man who buys your attention | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Leave the gifts. I couldnt think of anything worse. Just ask her if she would like to go for a drink or something. Do this then if you get along maybe send her some nice flowers to say you had a good time and would she like to do it again." I disagree us blokes if we talk to women just mess it up Surely you would rather go bowling or darts or pool It always reminds me of a job interviews siting at the table asking each other questions I feel like I should have taken my cv and bank statement with me perhaps I am the only one that feels that way | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Leave the gifts. I couldnt think of anything worse. Just ask her if she would like to go for a drink or something. Do this then if you get along maybe send her some nice flowers to say you had a good time and would she like to do it again. I disagree us blokes if we talk to women just mess it up Surely you would rather go bowling or darts or pool It always reminds me of a job interviews siting at the table asking each other questions I feel like I should have taken my cv and bank statement with me perhaps I am the only one that feels that way " Not a good sign if you can't talk to a woman | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Leave the gifts. I couldnt think of anything worse. Just ask her if she would like to go for a drink or something. Do this then if you get along maybe send her some nice flowers to say you had a good time and would she like to do it again. I disagree us blokes if we talk to women just mess it up Surely you would rather go bowling or darts or pool It always reminds me of a job interviews siting at the table asking each other questions I feel like I should have taken my cv and bank statement with me perhaps I am the only one that feels that way " As i said... A drink or something. Bowling is fine I just find gifts from someone you didnt even know existed a bit creepy lol... Only my opinion tho | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |