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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London

What's the best way to get verified?

Because I'd like to think that I'm a decent looking guy who's funny and cheeky and great at other things when given the chance lol.

But it seems easier, getting a sleeping baby's attention more than women here.

And I prefer one on one meets or intimate groups, so the big group parties arnt for me.

Help me! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a lady mate but I do like your haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile that starts off saying "I'm a very good looking..." would put me off straight away.

I prefer modest men who let others say whether they are good looking or not.

But that's just my opinion. Others will be happy with what you've written.

Good luck.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Maybe put some more heart into your profile, i like it as it is but others may not

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Sorry your not what I'm looking for but your hair does look great .

Jo x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's the best way to get verified?

Because I'd like to think that I'm a decent looking guy who's funny and cheeky and great at other things when given the chance lol.

But it seems easier, getting a sleeping baby's attention more than women here.

And I prefer one on one meets or intimate groups, so the big group parties arnt for me.

Help me! x "

Big group parties? When a large group of swingers get together, it's rare they all shag together. Usually, small groups/couples/two people do their thing.

The best way to get verified is to go to a social or a club and expect nothing more that a good natter over a drink.

Oh, and as my old dad used to say, 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe now you're starting to realise that looks aren't the only thing ladies are looking for....? What else is there on offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to be verified is by meeting someone. To get women's attention you do that by sending a message, women then decide if they want to give you the attention over the other 50 or so messages they've received and that all depends on your profile. They look at your profile and they see someone who has described themself as good looking, yet you have one picture of hair and a phone in the middle of your face. Fuck it delete message, look at all the other profiles of the men that have messaged you, ones that have clear pictures and better profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even having a meet doesn't mean you'll get verified, I've met 3 people from here and not been verified once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great hair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great hair! "

Haha everyone agreed on that one? So jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great hair!

Haha everyone agreed on that one? So jealous "

My hair is great too.I may upload a pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the pointers

Can barely see your face the photos taken in a very hipster manner to

Your profile reads basically like your do all the work and i may be interested

Not many people will exchange numbers on here try using kik

Probably good to get some more photos

Also write what you can offer a woman in terms of pleasure

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I clicked on your profile and was thinking of reading it and adding something positive until i read your status update of 'suck my cock while i lie in bed'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great hair!

Haha everyone agreed on that one? So jealous "

Me too.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

He's a legend - just look at his hair!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I clicked on your profile and was thinking of reading it and adding something positive until i read your status update of 'suck my cock while i lie in bed'"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The status does you no favours

Nice hair though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's a legend - just look at his hair!"

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London

Can't tag everyone, but thanks for all the hair comments lol.

I've never felt so loved by ladies on here as much as I have from this post ??

Once again thanks Gents

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London

If your ever in London and fancy a drink, you've got a bottle of red on me

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London

Thanks for the advice guys the reason why I cover my face is because of discretion, it's not that I don't want to show you myself (have plenty of private photos) but I'd like to think you've taken some interest, it's very easy to add me as a friend to be able to see more photos.

I'm not too great on the 'booty call' way of things, I like getting to know someone if somewhat briefly.

Thanks again though also any ladies that fancy helping me out in getting verified, il be looking forward to your message x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can't tag everyone, but thanks for all the hair comments lol.

I've never felt so loved by ladies on here as much as I have from this post ??

Once again thanks Gents

"

You can't tag anyone on Fab, that particular thing doesn't exist here bit if you hit 'quote' we will be able to see to whom you are replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys the reason why I cover my face is because of discretion, it's not that I don't want to show you myself (have plenty of private photos) but I'd like to think you've taken some interest, it's very easy to add me as a friend to be able to see more photos.

I'm not too great on the 'booty call' way of things, I like getting to know someone if somewhat briefly.

Thanks again though also any ladies that fancy helping me out in getting verified, il be looking forward to your message x "

However you've a face picture on public display so either you don't want people to see you or you do. If you don't, set it as private that way no-one can just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easiest is by cam, try the chat rooms here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not a lady mate but I do like your haircut "

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London


"I am not a lady mate but I do like your haircut

"

You can always add me and see what those hands are covering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you're straight but you want to meet men.

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London


"You say you're straight but you want to meet men."

Could always use a buddy to double up. if your interested :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not a lady mate but I do like your haircut

You can always add me and see what those hands are covering "

I only add you if you look like Marion Cotillard... do you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say you're straight but you want to meet men.

Could always use a buddy to double up. if your interested :p "

I'm all good thanks.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's the best way to get verified?

Because I'd like to think that I'm a decent looking guy who's funny and cheeky and great at other things when given the chance lol.

But it seems easier, getting a sleeping baby's attention more than women here.

And I prefer one on one meets or intimate groups, so the big group parties arnt for me.

Help me! x "

An instant turn off for me is a straight man looking for tvs. I prefer playmates comfortable with their sexuality.

There's an, for want of a better word, arrogance about your profile that could be putting people off. That said, clear face pic showing you're a handsome man, so good luck!

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London


"I am not a lady mate but I do like your haircut

You can always add me and see what those hands are covering

I only add you if you look like Marion Cotillard... do you ? "

If you squint.. Possibly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it's just me that thinks his hair is shit

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By *r Jelabi OP   Man
over a year ago

North London


"So it's just me that thinks his hair is shit "

I do other styles too lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There's loads of threads asking for advice I. The forums archives, socials clubs .. simples.,

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