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By *coutcom89 OP Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

Just seeking some advice for first time BDSM experience with my girlfriend. Let me know how you'd start

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Just seeking some advice for first time BDSM experience with my girlfriend. Let me know how you'd start "

I'd search the net for sympathetic books that enabled people to take the first steps.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Are you really in Abu Dhabi ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd look for BDSM specific sites and search for how-to tutorial videos. I'd perhaps consider networking with people who share similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seeking some advice for first time BDSM experience with my girlfriend. Let me know how you'd start

I'd search the net for sympathetic books that enabled people to take the first steps. "

Rope work is always a good start, look up 'two knotty boys ' on youtube.

Then try 'sensation play' rather than pain, feathers, fur, oils, brushes and combs. Moving onto wax play, paddles and whips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowly and with a light hearted approach,

do a bit of googling, see what you both like, you will have an idea of what you want to do

Write things down though, if you're mid session and draw a blank on ideas having some jotted down to refer to can help keep things moving,

But slowly especially with punishment go easy find and stay within limits, plenty of time to push them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd start with just discussing fantasies then maybe introduce things like restraints .. Silk scarves soft materials and blindfolds. Nothing too scary. Keep it sensual and fun then you can step things up from there.

Sensation play is great fun.

Then maybe think about orgasm control.

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By *coutcom89 OP Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

yeah I'm in Abu Dhabi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seeking some advice for first time BDSM experience with my girlfriend. Let me know how you'd start "

Start with silk scarfs, hand cuffs, (POUNDLAND, they come off easily) blindfolds and sensation play, tickle, nibble, spank, see what gets you going, see what you both like and don't like, you can move forward from there, but the most important piece of advice I can give you, and it's the most important so take note, communication is the most important thing to get right, have a safe word right from the start, even if it's just a little light bondage, oh and safety scissors, very important, trust me lol

Enjoy

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By *coutcom89 OP Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

Thanks guys, I think we will begin slowly like you suggested

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By *coutcom89 OP Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

sound advice! Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just seeking some advice for first time BDSM experience with my girlfriend. Let me know how you'd start "

I think I'd prod her on her nipple and say 'whaddayafink?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seeking some advice for first time BDSM experience with my girlfriend. Let me know how you'd start

I think I'd prod her on her nipple and say 'whaddayafink?' "

NO! That's black belt second Dan kinky rudeness, it takes years to get to the "one finger tit punch"

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