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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since you started on fab what things did you used to do but have stopped doing now?

For me I used to message women just to tell them the looked nice, ive since found out that they don't give a wet rats ass what I think, if I'm too far away to do anything about it.

So enough of the thought process where I think " I'll just say it, might brighten her day" It won't she has heard it all before, so I'm just going to wait till word has got round properly, and "fancy a fuck" is considered ironic and original enough to be a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum "

It's the best way, afterall it's about speaking your mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum "

I think everyone does that to start with, scared that they are not going to be accepted within the group, but fuckity fuck it, I just don't care anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop believing in my fantasies

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've stopped looking for someone local - 6 years and nada

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I stop believing in my fantasies "

That's very sad...why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stop believing in my fantasies

That's very sad...why?"

It won't happen, as they are very particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped giving a 2nd response to idiot guys that try giving me bullshit excuses why they've lied about their true sexuality on their profiles....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stopped looking for someone local - 6 years and nada "

I'm not local

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've almost stopped dogging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expectations...go more with the flow now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I stop believing in my fantasies

That's very sad...why?

It won't happen, as they are very particular "

Hmmm. Don't give up, there might be a woman (assuming it involves a woman) dreaming of exactly the same thing.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've stopped chasing women on here altogether. I found it totally pointless. Worked that out pretty quickly. Just pissing around the forums and posting pics of my arse for the time being. May start attempting to meet at some point if I think it may actually be possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stop believing in my fantasies

That's very sad...why?

It won't happen, as they are very particular

Hmmm. Don't give up, there might be a woman (assuming it involves a woman) dreaming of exactly the same thing."

Haha yes it does invovle a woman or more with bouncing boobs haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stopped chasing women on here altogether. I found it totally pointless. Worked that out pretty quickly. Just pissing around the forums and posting pics of my arse for the time being. May start attempting to meet at some point if I think it may actually be possible."

You tempted me to buy the same socks ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once stopped in the name of love, but Fleetwood Mac said Don't stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum

I think everyone does that to start with, scared that they are not going to be accepted within the group, but fuckity fuck it, I just don't care anymore lol"

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once stopped in the name of love, but Fleetwood Mac said Don't stop"

No you have to stop! It's hammer time

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I've stopped chasing women on here altogether. I found it totally pointless. Worked that out pretty quickly. Just pissing around the forums and posting pics of my arse for the time being. May start attempting to meet at some point if I think it may actually be possible.

You tempted me to buy the same socks ^_^ "

You'll be the first person I've tempted to do anything since I joined Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stop believing in my fantasies

That's very sad...why?

It won't happen, as they are very particular "

I'm intrigued now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big difference is that I don't put any more efforts in getting meets and hardly email in the searches. I am also just to busy in the gym lol. I think a fantasy is best kept as a fantasy.

I do however use the forum everyday and like post and join in discussions and also post lots of pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum "

I quite like it when people disagree with me tbh. Its good to see other _iew points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stopped trying to be nice and replying to all my messages. A lot just get deleted without being read

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Smoking.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum

I quite like it when people disagree with me tbh. Its good to see other _iew points "

Me too, as long as they are able to disagree politely, too often people see a differing opinion as a personal insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum

I quite like it when people disagree with me tbh. Its good to see other _iew points

Me too, as long as they are able to disagree politely, too often people see a differing opinion as a personal insult."

Yes this, some are pure nasty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't waste energy on fake profiles now, you know the one "ere mate I know this bird, she'll let us do anything we want to her, as long as I can suck your knob first" mesages lol they make me laugh now more than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum

I quite like it when people disagree with me tbh. Its good to see other _iew points "

This.

I often say odd things just to get a reaction. No harm meant by it ever, just I think people are more 'real' if they are riled up a bit.

It's too beige in here otherwise. I like colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't waste energy on fake profiles now, you know the one "ere mate I know this bird, she'll let us do anything we want to her, as long as I can suck your knob first" mesages lol they make me laugh now more than anything "

Sometimes those couples are real though. You're missing out.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Iv stopped trending on egg shells in the forum

I quite like it when people disagree with me tbh. Its good to see other _iew points

This.

I often say odd things just to get a reaction. No harm meant by it ever, just I think people are more 'real' if they are riled up a bit.

It's too beige in here otherwise. I like colour. "

100%

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Talking about drugs

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

D'oh!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm on the cusp of thinking about giving up hope on finding a fwb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stopped using veet and just having a nice trimmed bush x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking about drugs"

Drugs are bad m'kay?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I've stopped chasing women on here altogether. I found it totally pointless. Worked that out pretty quickly. Just pissing around the forums and posting pics of my arse for the time being. May start attempting to meet at some point if I think it may actually be possible."

this pretty much, although we don't post bum pics too often.....it's agg innit, just agg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped talking to anyone because getting meets are as rare as rocking shit and have more fun reading the great forum debates

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm on the cusp of thinking about giving up hope on finding a fwb. "

Well if you just lived a bit bloody closer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't waste energy on fake profiles now, you know the one "ere mate I know this bird, she'll let us do anything we want to her, as long as I can suck your knob first" mesages lol they make me laugh now more than anything

Sometimes those couples are real though. You're missing out. "

Not something I'm into, but I could imagine him saying"oh she's stuck in traffic, but she'll be here in a bit" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stopped talking to anyone because getting meets are as rare as rocking shit and have more fun reading the great forum debates "

FFS ! As rare as rocking horse shit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped my profile being open to the same sex as I've decided to give them up

And to see the difference it makes with after 6 days not one _iew by a member of the opposite sex or couple (that I'm aware of, obviously I know of stealth mode)

Anyone care to break my duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped sending telegrams STOP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stopped my profile being open to the same sex as I've decided to give them up

And to see the difference it makes with after 6 days not one _iew by a member of the opposite sex or couple (that I'm aware of, obviously I know of stealth mode)

Anyone care to break my duck "

I've just looked !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stopped giving a flying fuck when we get slated for having too many meets .

We stopped going to clubs when we started this profile .

We stopped blocking TVs , and have met some lovely ones .

We stopped giving a second chance to anyone who said they would meet and didn't show up .

We stopped giving a shit when the above didn't show .

We stopped caring what other posters thought of our comments on here .

There probably more ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stopped my profile being open to the same sex as I've decided to give them up

And to see the difference it makes with after 6 days not one _iew by a member of the opposite sex or couple (that I'm aware of, obviously I know of stealth mode)

Anyone care to break my duck

I've just looked !!"

Ahhhh darn stealth mode though lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped being a 'nice girl'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped pretending I'm not really a man called Trevor on here.

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pursuing perfection and confection.

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