FabSwingers.com forum: iConsent

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just seen a news article regarding a new app where both a man and woman are recorded giving consent to sex and it can be saved and accessed by police etc if an allegation is made.

I think it could be a good idea but may have flaws.

Anyone else seen it or have opinions on it?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

seems a good idea but I would suspect a bit of a faff in the heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"seems a good idea but I would suspect a bit of a faff in the heat of the moment."

True i suppose if you are in a taxi going back to someones place specifically for that it could work and maybe also for people on here too

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

How many women got rapped last night because the man never asked them its stupid i have never been asked once just expect it when a guy as got my nickers off

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"seems a good idea but I would suspect a bit of a faff in the heat of the moment.

True i suppose if you are in a taxi going back to someones place specifically for that it could work and maybe also for people on here too "

true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

complete flawed any one can change their mind at any point in including after they agree on app

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

That girl who got the footballer jailed she was up for it was in the morning when he said good bye left the hotel room twice to get drinks and food. He was a welsh footballer she was welsh and a football fan she thought it was her birthday till the morning and found out it was a one off. She was not a kid and admitted to being sexual active simple if you don,t want it don,t go back to a hotel room

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"complete flawed any one can change their mind at any point in including after they agree on app

Maybe both people should use the app and if at any point the woman says no or stop repeatedly it should revoke consent.. App could run in the background

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"That girl who got the footballer jailed she was up for it was in the morning when he said good bye left the hotel room twice to get drinks and food. He was a welsh footballer she was welsh and a football fan she thought it was her birthday till the morning and found out it was a one off. She was not a kid and admitted to being sexual active simple if you don,t want it don,t go back to a hotel room"

You know for sure because you were there, right?

Anyone can change their or mind at anytime, knickers on or off regardless of where you are (hotel room, car, back alley etc).

It's a sad moment in time when we have to rely on aps for everything. I can see the benefit in this somewhat but as someone says, as soon as you change your mind a recording means nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even after consent, it can still lead to rape - even though both parties have made a video consenting.

I wonder if the idea of an app such as this will lead to more problems than it would intend to solve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"complete flawed any one can change their mind at any point in including after they agree on app

Maybe both people should use the app and if at any point the woman says no or stop repeatedly it should revoke consent.. App could run in the background "

will the app be able to say what point she said stop thou theirs a line when concent cant be withdrawn

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Yes and both could be open to blackmail theres always nasty other side to things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if any burd pulled out a phone and said iv got this app it would be enough to set alarm bells off and id be off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't take into consideration the fact that you can withdraw consent at any time. If someone did something I didn't enjoy and I said 'no, stop' and they then essentially raped it, I wouldn't want them to have a bit of paper that I signed theoretically consenting to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically what you said there is:

1. He potentially abused a position of power to get laid with someone who admired him.

2. She was 'old enough to know better'.

3. Because she was already sexually active prior to the incident then it's ok to assume she wanted to go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"complete flawed any one can change their mind at any point in including after they agree on app

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't take into consideration the fact that you can withdraw consent at any time. If someone did something I didn't enjoy and I said 'no, stop' and they then essentially raped it, I wouldn't want them to have a bit of paper that I signed theoretically consenting to it."

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