FabSwingers.com forum: We are teachers. This is wrong.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha, just had a message, won't tell you who.

But let's just say this person insulted us, then told us he was going to report us as they had our IP address (without knowing G's background and knowing we know that's BS for a start).

Anyway, we were told that it's awful we do this as teachers and were being reported.

My discussion however isn't about this person, it's about profession. We all do different jobs, and we all have different lives. But it's only when those roles and this lifestyle cross over that it should be an issue. An RAF boy posting pics of him in his uniform, for example.

So, is us both being teachers so wrong? Have you ever had anybody insult you based on what you do? What's "wrong" and "right"? C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cant say ive ever had anything like that, i would be more worried how they got my ip address and knew so much about me.

Obviously got to much time on there hands watching other people instead of getting on with there lives, block and report

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Truth is, he doesn't. A user can get it like that, they won't have access to it. And even then, you can't do anything with it. What, report you to the police for having sex legally, lol... I think some people watch too much CSI and don't know how the world works! C x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean you have a personal life away from your jobs as teachers?

How terrible of you

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"No cant say ive ever had anything like that, i would be more worried how they got my ip address and knew so much about me.

Obviously got to much time on there hands watching other people instead of getting on with there lives, block and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the problem to be honest.

Teachers are allowed sex lives too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Truth is, he doesn't. A user can get it like that, they won't have access to it. And even then, you can't do anything with it. What, report you to the police for having sex legally, lol... I think some people watch too much CSI and don't know how the world works! C x"

It's not the police that teachers worry about ..... they have far more stringent minders of their morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had people react poorly to my job. It's completely absurd when people choose arbitrary reasons to vent their frustrations. For what it's worth, it's an office based job in the private sector dealing only with large companies.

BTW, I've met several teachers from here in the past, and I never thought negatively of them as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all do different jobs, and we all have different lives. But it's only when those roles and this lifestyle cross over that it should be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some serious idiots and weirdos on this site to go round virtually blackmailing.

Block and report the little weasle

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Haha, just had a message, won't tell you who.

But let's just say this person insulted us, then told us he was going to report us as they had our IP address (without knowing G's background and knowing we know that's BS for a start).

Anyway, we were told that it's awful we do this as teachers and were being reported.

So, is us both being teachers so wrong? Have you ever had anybody insult you based on what you do? What's "wrong" and "right"? C x"

Your private life is your private life. Your sexual activities providing they are legal and discrete are nothing to do with your professional life.

I know it's frustrating when you are judged by others and what they have threatened is scary but they are the minority?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you do for work and what you do at home have nothing to do with each other!

I'd just tell the sad person to jog on.

Wish my teachers looked like you guys when i was in school mind!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Working in education myself, I don't understand how you can really be teachers. It is an irrefutable fact that a real teacher doesn't have any time for a personal life. Between teaching, planning & differentiating, marking and obviously attending stupid/pointless meetings most Teachers barely have time to breath.... Unless of course you are on the SLT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers. "

Who said we did...? C x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Working in education myself, I don't understand how you can really be teachers. It is an irrefutable fact that a real teacher doesn't have any time for a personal life. Between teaching, planning & differentiating, marking and obviously attending stupid/pointless meetings most Teachers barely have time to breath.... Unless of course you are on the SLT

We fit it into that 1 hour break between brushing our teeth and sleeping :p But even then, just out of shot is our marking :p C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're photos are quite revealing and very nearly show who you are ..I'm just wondering if any of your children's parents could recognise you and word got around the playground ...how would you feel ?..do you think your reputations as teachers would be affected? ...I'm not saying it's wrong you're here at all I'm just putting another slant on it ..xx

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"You're photos are quite revealing and very nearly show who you are ..I'm just wondering if any of your children's parents could recognise you and word got around the playground ...how would you feel ?..do you think your reputations as teachers would be affected? ...I'm not saying it's wrong you're here at all I'm just putting another slant on it ..xx"

if its seniors or bellow, pics of miss getting spit roasted going around the school will not end well.

and it'll be my tax dollars paying for the court case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately, is it actually anyone's business what you do?

I think not.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x"

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple year back i was at a local dogging site and had sex with someone that i had just seen 3 days beforehand in a professional manner seen her a couple of times after that but nothing else as for them being on here and teachers well private life is just that private...but you cannot stop stupid ignorant people from being what they are can you.. what you do is up to you anyway sounds like this person is only jealous of the pair of you and felt angry enough to threaten you both but you have to ask the Question what is he/she doing on this site if their own standards of sex are suppose to be that high ... ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pics showing faves is an issue, as are real names. Hence none being available, not without editing/masks. C x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?"

Our last update is seven weeks off. For all anybody knows, I could be a receptionist. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

This is the reason why we don't have public face pictures, but ( and it's a BIG BUTT) we are entitled to live our lives in what ever way we see fit. As long as what we do is legal, why would it be anyone else's business...

It seems very very strange that any other swingers would think that it was wrong for a teacher to be a swinger. That would suggest that they feel that being a swinger is somehow immoral or offensive.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?

Our last update is seven weeks off. For all anybody knows, I could be a receptionist. C x"

You're a politician. You'll say anything rather than answer the question.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Ah ..........

I just understood. You are saying that you've advertised that you have 7 weeks off and they've assumed.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm so you teach in the private sector......... ooooooof. Even more risky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually did answer the question. This was a. Es sage out of the blue, by a man who is now no longer on the site so we couldn't even message him. He called us out on being teachers as if it's a big deal. My latest update, is that we have seven weeks off. It doesn't specifically say we are teachers anywhere on our profile. It's a logical conclusion is our profession, but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lucky sods are on six week holiday!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish if had a teacher like you lol x

"Haha, just had a message, won't tell you who.

But let's just say this person insulted us, then told us he was going to report us as they had our IP address (without knowing G's background and knowing we know that's BS for a start).

Anyway, we were told that it's awful we do this as teachers and were being reported.

So, is us both being teachers so wrong? Have you ever had anybody insult you based on what you do? What's "wrong" and "right"? C x"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

On the subject of IP addresses. An IP address is not a fixed thing like a phone number or home address. There are considerably more devices in the world than there are IP addresses to service them. If you switch your broadband router off for any period of time, you will almost certainly be assigned a new IP when you next switch it on.

Also, if you connect with a mobile device, you'll have a different IP when ever you use a different wireless (home, work, free hotspot etc..)

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"You lucky sods are on six week holiday!!

Seven...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha, just had a message, won't tell you who.

But let's just say this person insulted us, then told us he was going to report us as they had our IP address (without knowing G's background and knowing we know that's BS for a start).

Anyway, we were told that it's awful we do this as teachers and were being reported.

So, is us both being teachers so wrong? Have you ever had anybody insult you based on what you do? What's "wrong" and "right"? C x

Your private life is your private life. Your sexual activities providing they are legal and discrete are nothing to do with your professional life.

I know it's frustrating when you are judged by others and what they have threatened is scary but they are the minority?"

Unfortunately some professions (and I mean professions not jobs or positions in jobs) will have codes of conduct that mean what you do in your private life may have a bearing on your profession.

The key word that you used is discreet. Discretion is paramount.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, teachers are fine to be swingers.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I actually did answer the question. This was a. Es sage out of the blue, by a man who is now no longer on the site so we couldn't even message him. He called us out on being teachers as if it's a big deal. My latest update, is that we have seven weeks off. It doesn't specifically say we are teachers anywhere on our profile. It's a logical conclusion is our profession, but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They do at ours, in fact some of them have longer

C x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Except during their countless holidays

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

Private lives are that - but from your status it gives away you are in education - if it was were me I wouldn't be putting too many photos in the public domain if it could put my livelihood at risk - just my view though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met so many professions on here...that includes teachers, paramedics, doctors and police too....... Don't let these idiots even think they can blackmail you...report and move on. Leave it for Admin to delete them....and hopefully block THEIR IP address!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"Pics showing faves is an issue, as are real names. Hence none being available, not without editing/masks. C x"

them pics are clear as day

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"On the subject of IP addresses. An IP address is not a fixed thing like a phone number or home address. There are considerably more devices in the world than there are IP addresses to service them ....."

Hence the move to IPv6.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would say to the OP's, that I would probably make a bit more effort to obscure your faces in the photo's. The pixilation that you've used doesn't make you obviously unrecognisable, I would even go as far to say that if you look at the smaller pics, you can hardly tell that they're pixilated at all.

Oh and Anita says "you're well fit"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"They do at ours, in fact some of them have longer

C x"

So we've established you ARE in fact teachers in the private sector.

Do you teach Cookery? P.E. ? or Religion ?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hence the move to IPv6."

Eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately if you work in a profession which has a contractual obligation not to bring the profession into disrepute you can be disciplined for activities which are viewed as not the norm, nothing to do with legalities I'm afraid.

Hopefully this is just a twat who doesn't take it any further

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Private lives are that - but from your status it gives away you are in education - if it was were me I wouldn't be putting too many photos in the public domain if it could put my livelihood at risk - just my view though "

Ahhhh not so nutty john... It's not just your point of view though but a well shared view among many. Including parents, employing bodies and other child safeguarding moralists.

I'm sure any teacher not really bothered about their future employment doesn't mind their sex lives being in the public eye.

Those that do mind don't disclose.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Unfortunately if you work in a profession which has a contractual obligation not to bring the profession into disrepute you can be disciplined for activities which are viewed as not the norm, nothing to do with legalities I'm afraid.

Hopefully this is just a twat who doesn't take it any further"

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

In my opinion as long as you don't do this during school time, what is the problem.

This reminds me of the teacher who put a picture of herself in either underwear or a bikini on social media, she got slated for doing it.

It is your personal private life, it has nothing to do with work. What is the harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a sad bastard. When I was at uni lots of teachers in training had sex it seems. Why should they stop afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read your post, I just can't believe how pathetic some people are today? Firstly what consenting adults get up to in their private lives is no crime. Secondly being teachers and being swingers is way better than abusing children. I myself have been a foster parent. What I do know to be true is privacy and private lives is a part of life, that can be sorted in a court of law. Finally to sum up. The part that you say about being in military uniform with let's face showing, would be frowned upon by the higher ranks, and would possibly lead to a discharge. But saying that your both teachers would have no bearing on it, might tee off some parents. But that's where common sense would dictate and you'd be fine. We have not so far been insulted, but have received some guys trying to be a couple using vulgar language. That's what the delete but is for lol. The idiot can't dothing, but you both can as saying he'd report you? Is a crime namely BLACKMAIL..!!!

Regards and happy playtimes

North&South.. South wrote.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those."

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I'm the IT guy at our school, there will only be myself and the caretakers at the school over the holidays. 99% of all staff employed in education work "term time only". It means that the government doesn't have to pay their wages for a third of the year. I actually know people who's wages work out effectively below minimum wage once the Pro-rata equation is accounted for.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is I want to go back to school!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Re reading what you said. You actually agreed with me. You and the caretaker are there. My guess is there will be others there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh they were probably a troll getting their kicks!

I get grief if people recognise me for my job but i just block and report!

Tbh id much prefer teachers to be on here fucking adults than shagging students

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to the original post ....

And persons in uniform.

I think would be a serious issue for them to be showing that off.

Is there a case of bringing their career into disrepute ?

If, as, teachers you were filming in the premises - naughty teacher in the classroom - then I would say you would be in trouble.

However a personal life which didn't impinge in the professional is neither here nor there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?"

The status might give it a away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that. "

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays"

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?

The status might give it a away "

Yeah. We discussed that bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x"

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully this is just a twat who doesn't take it any further"

Is having sex disreputable?

This needs a company to try it on and then the individual take it to tribunal. The tribunal/courts would take the employer to the cleaners unless as said, it was done in uniform or on works premises etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?

The status might give it a away

Yeah. We discussed that bit x "

So Iv just seen. Should have read full post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ..."

And hopefully the head will tell them to mind their own business & what they do in their private life has nothing to do with them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

Who said we did...? C x

I hope you did because if you didn't then they have recognised you.

I didn't see it in your profile when I checked.

So...... did you or didn't you tell them ?

The status might give it a away

Yeah. We discussed that bit x

So Iv just seen. Should have read full post

Not really. We keep coming round to the same bits

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that. "

No, most of the schools I've been associated with have worked in the same way. The cleaners will normally come in for a couple of days at the end of the holidays to clean up after tradesmen who have been in. The caretakers will do maintenance and repair work and supervise what ever contractors may be in and the IT guy (me) will be there updating systems and ensuring that everything is prepared for the return in September.

Apart from that, there will be the odd person pop in for half a day here or there, but the schools will be pretty much empty.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

Apart from that, there will be the odd person pop in for half a day here or there, but the schools will be pretty much empty."

So like I said in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

And hopefully the head will tell them to mind their own business & what they do in their private life has nothing to do with them."

Would be nice but then school governors come into play ...parents might contact the press ..endless shit just because you have easily recognised public photos up ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

And hopefully the head will tell them to mind their own business & what they do in their private life has nothing to do with them.

Would be nice but then school governors come into play ...parents might contact the press ..endless shit just because you have easily recognised public photos up ..."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if its seniors or bellow, pics of miss getting spit roasted going around the school will not end well.

and it'll be my tax dollars paying for the court case

Wrobg country fella and as it won't just be your money they use it will be your tax pennies.

Rather than berate someone for doing something perfectly legal in their spare time erhaps we should start teaching kids it's not ok to go round sharing explicit images of people they know without consent.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

Apart from that, there will be the odd person pop in for half a day here or there, but the schools will be pretty much empty.

So like I said in the first place.

Sure

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

if its seniors or bellow, pics of miss getting spit roasted going around the school will not end well.

and it'll be my tax dollars paying for the court case

Wrobg country fella and as it won't just be your money they use it will be your tax pennies.

Correct !

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ..."

So it's OK for a child's parent/s to be on Fab but not their teacher ???????

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ..."

I can just imagine that conversation.... So I just was just perving over some naked photo's on a sex site that I'm a member of and I realised that some of them were you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

So it's OK for a child's parent/s to be on Fab but not their teacher ???????"

I'm not advocating its right or wrong that they are on here, I'm setting up a scenario that could happen!! ...working with children opens up a whole different set of rules; which anyone in education will have knowledge of from year one of their degree !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

And hopefully the head will tell them to mind their own business & what they do in their private life has nothing to do with them."

They will be able to do whatever they want when the parents find out and raise hell. He local paper will run a story. People get sacked for bringing the company into disrepute. Swinging is not a hobby that people should openly discuss in certain circles.

Plenty of time off when the shit hits the fan. People NEVER forget gossip about swingers.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

People should be allowed to do what they want in their private lives as long as it's not hurting anyone. Why do some people think they have this God given right to stick their noses into things that are none of their business. Nosey bastards getting a bee in their bonnets over bugger all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great summer holiday guys . You deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its seniors or bellow, pics of miss getting spit roasted going around the school will not end well.

and it'll be my tax dollars paying for the court case

Wrobg country fella and as it won't just be your money they use it will be your tax pennies.

Great idea. It will never happen in our lifetimes though.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh god I'd be in deep shit due to the nature of my Job

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Have a great summer holiday guys . You deserve it

Agreed or

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

" working with children opens up a whole different set of rules; which anyone in education will have knowledge of from year one of their degree !"

There are no rules about who you can have sex with, with the exception of the obvious of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's to say your a teacher?

You could be a dinner lady

In hindsight, maybe a bit more discretion in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" working with children opens up a whole different set of rules; which anyone in education will have knowledge of from year one of their degree !

There are no rules about who you can have sex with, with the exception of the obvious of course

Of course ....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Some people are missing the point.

Do teachers have sex ? YES

Should teachers use sites like these? YES

Should teachers post pictures of their faces that parents or students or colleagues can recognise ? NO NO NO.

Will they face disciplinary procedures ? IF IT IS BELIEVED THAT THEY HAVE BROUGHT THE PROFESSION OR THEIR SCHOOL INTO DISREPUTE YES YES YES.

Are they breaking Safeguarding rules including safeguarding themselves ? YES. Stupid Really.

They could get sex without saying they are teachers.

Maybe it is a look at me thread.

To all those saying teachers have a right to a private life ..... well .. maybe i'll add to that point later.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Who's to say your a teacher?

You could be a dinner lady

In hindsight, maybe a bit more discretion in future

Oh Chubby! Are you saying it's okay for dinner ladies to swing the ladle ?

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

So, what it boils down to is swinging is for the degenerate and jobless?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are missing the point.

Do teachers have sex ? YES

Should teachers use sites like these? YES

Should teachers post pictures of their faces that parents or students or colleagues can recognise ? NO NO NO.

Will they face disciplinary procedures ? IF IT IS BELIEVED THAT THEY HAVE BROUGHT THE PROFESSION OR THEIR SCHOOL INTO DISREPUTE YES YES YES.

Are they breaking Safeguarding rules including safeguarding themselves ? YES. Stupid Really.

They could get sex without saying they are teachers.

Maybe it is a look at me thread.

To all those saying teachers have a right to a private life ..... well .. maybe i'll add to that point later. "

x 50

And a facepalm smiley too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me, I know plenty of teachers that won't go to their local pubs in case they are spotted by a parent;whilst they are slowly getting d*unk, on a night out ,they also prefer not to smoke in the street where they teach because of the fear of being spotted by a pupil...non of these things are illegal to do but it's what teachers are faced with when they choose their career ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the same as any other person wanting to hide / be discreet about their non work activities. If it can influence your life to a severe level, then it's a calculated risk. If being a swinger is a clear clash with codes of conduct in professions or it would cause humiliation / pain to loved ones, it's a little selfish arguably. Anyone's business? Not really.

It's only like being married with kids and having indications of who you are or saying you put them first I guess, which is again a calculated risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's to say your a teacher?

You could be a dinner lady

In hindsight, maybe a bit more discretion in future

Oh Chubby! Are you saying it's okay for dinner ladies to swing the ladle ?"
its ok for any consenting adults to swing!

Just don't publicly show pictures where you would be easily recognisable to someone who may know you.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Your very very naughty and must come straight to my office to be caned...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Who's to say your a teacher?

You could be a dinner lady

In hindsight, maybe a bit more discretion in future

Oh Chubby! Are you saying it's okay for dinner ladies to swing the ladle ?its ok for any consenting adults to swing!

Just don't publicly show pictures where you would be easily recognisable to someone who may know you."

Correct ! Mind you ....... I hope no parents can recognise them from January 7th ....... at least it's spot free

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Your very very naughty and must come straight to my office to be caned...

Innuendo Innuendo... another reason for not saying you're a teacher.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

So it's OK for a child's parent/s to be on Fab but not their teacher ???????"

thats not what was said at all.

hate when people make rubbish up on a forum.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ...

So it's OK for a child's parent/s to be on Fab but not their teacher ???????

thats not what was said at all.

hate when people make rubbish up on a forum. "

Me too ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday"

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel"

Neither but i'm still right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey miss I wish I was in your class

I'd make sure I was naughty so I'd get detention and as for the sex education lessons wow

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Correct; it is BS; nobody but the Admin know the IP address unless one is directed to a spoof website to track or sends an email (not a message through this server)

It is not illegal or immoral for teachers to want sex too. Having said that, openly disclosing ones identity on here alongwith compromising photographs may lead to uncomfortable conversations at work

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Blimey miss I wish I was in your class

I'd make sure I was naughty so I'd get detention and as for the sex education lessons wow

See........... 'she' is now forever to have sex with 'pupils'. All the come ons will be ooooooooooo miss give me some lines... cane me.... tell me off.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Correct; it is BS; nobody but the Admin know the IP address unless one is directed to a spoof website to track or sends an email (not a message through this server)

It is not illegal or immoral for teachers to want sex too. Having said that, openly disclosing ones identity on here alongwith compromising photographs may lead to uncomfortable conversations at work"

Which can go from uncomfortable to dole queue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey miss I wish I was in your class

I'd make sure I was naughty so I'd get detention and as for the sex education lessons wow

See........... 'she' is now forever to have sex with 'pupils'. All the come ons will be ooooooooooo miss give me some lines... cane me.... tell me off. "

She can cane me if she wants

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Blimey miss I wish I was in your class

I'd make sure I was naughty so I'd get detention and as for the sex education lessons wow

See........... 'she' is now forever to have sex with 'pupils'. All the come ons will be ooooooooooo miss give me some lines... cane me.... tell me off.

She can cane me if she wants

Shhhhhhhhhhhh

Im not supposed to laugh but I did.

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers. "

They were being honest! And I find your attitude rather questionable.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

They were being honest! And I find your attitude rather questionable."

And I find your need to tell me that very hoity toity and comical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel

Neither but i'm still right."

Well thats the biggest load of twaddle ive heard all day!

Unless you work in or with schools and know the running of them all you cannot say you are right!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel

Neither but i'm still right.

Well thats the biggest load of twaddle ive heard all day!

Unless you work in or with schools and know the running of them all you cannot say you are right!

I can. I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel

Neither but i'm still right.

Well thats the biggest load of twaddle ive heard all day!

Unless you work in or with schools and know the running of them all you cannot say you are right!

I can. I have. "

This is why old people shouldnt use the internet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say good on them if they want to swing and it's got feck all to do with anyone else as long as they don't do it on the tables with the head master

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel

Neither but i'm still right.

Well thats the biggest load of twaddle ive heard all day!

Unless you work in or with schools and know the running of them all you cannot say you are right!

I can. I have.

This is why old people shouldnt use the internet!! "

Oh dear. I'm sure I'm fine with the internet. After all - someone older than me invented it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in education ... I'm a tutor. AND I have face pics... You know why? I set filters so that I only get certain people message me , I changed my name , and there are lots of people on here that steal pictures so if ever anyone saw Id use that as an excuse.

I don't care what people think... It's my private life I'll do what I want . OP ... Ignore them, plenty of keyboard warriors on here. If it's something you enjoy , do it. I'm pretty sure there's still people with professional jobs who actually have a life, it's no ones business what people do in their spare time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go Lou xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with teachers being swingers but I know some people liken swingers to being perverted ~ those kind of people would have a field day.

Do you teach primary or senior school children, if it's the latter photo sharing is rife and very difficult to control ~ on a smart phone a pic of miss or sir could go viral very quickly.

Your photos are great & very very clear to anyone who knows you even vaguely, that it's you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Well thought out.

So when you say they stole your naked pictures - where will they have stolen them from ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" but even still, there are a lot of staff at schools. Cleaners, office workers, even cooks. C x"

They don't get the entire holiday tho so you are not one of those.

Sorry Granny, but that's not right.

I think you'll find i'm right.

However, I'll conceed that I don't know what goes on in your school.

Perhaps the school takes care of itself and cleans itself.

A lot of teachers seem to think that.

I applied for several jobs at a school as admin and they all said you would be pro rata as off over the holidays

Could be the case for some but it's certainly not the case for all. Also it doesn't mean you would be off for the entire holiday

Do you work in a school then or is this second hand information you are taking as gospel

Neither but i'm still right.

Well thats the biggest load of twaddle ive heard all day!

Unless you work in or with schools and know the running of them all you cannot say you are right!

I can. I have.

This is why old people shouldnt use the internet!! "

Are you joking?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I work in education ... I'm a tutor. AND I have face pics... You know why? I set filters so that I only get certain people message me , I changed my name , and there are lots of people on here that steal pictures so if ever anyone saw Id use that as an excuse.

Xx"

If only that were true, some people will MAKE it their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see the problem to be honest.

Teachers are allowed sex lives too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a problem with teachers being swingers but I know some people liken swingers to being perverted ~ those kind of people would have a field day.

Do you teach primary or senior school children, if it's the latter photo sharing is rife and very difficult to control ~ on a smart phone a pic of miss or sir could go viral very quickly.

Your photos are great & very very clear to anyone who knows you even vaguely, that it's you!"

There's often stories in the red top newspapers where a young female teacher is outed for having nude pictures online. They're always fired for it too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I don't have a problem with teachers being swingers but I know some people liken swingers to being perverted ~ those kind of people would have a field day.

Do you teach primary or senior school children, if it's the latter photo sharing is rife and very difficult to control ~ on a smart phone a pic of miss or sir could go viral very quickly.

Your photos are great & very very clear to anyone who knows you even vaguely, that it's you!"

Agreed. No reasonable person would think that teachers don't have sex. Very unwise to openly use sex sites even though times are changing. People are fussy who they take seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx"

You could save yourself the hassle of trying to persuade people it was a case of stolen pictures by just taking your privacy more seriously. Anyway, even if they do believe you, it's still going to cause uproar and be a distraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really couldn't give a shiny shite about anybodys profession. When we meet we don't ask any questions about what they do, where they live or anything else for that matter - if they want to tell us, that's fine otherwise we get on with the job in hand.

Looking at teachers and swinging specifically, I don't see it as being any different to being a Doctor, Nurse, Social worker, PC Plod, fireman, paramedic ... the list could go on. So far as we're concerned what people do after the working day has ended is entirely their business and it's nobodys place to criticise.

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

They were being honest! And I find your attitude rather questionable.

And I find your need to tell me that very hoity toity and comical. "

Glad you had a laugh.

Why are YOU on here?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I really couldn't give a shiny shite about anybodys profession. When we meet we don't ask any questions about what they do, where they live or anything else for that matter - if they want to tell us, that's fine otherwise we get on with the job in hand.

I agree with all of that. I don't ask either. We don't employ them though. Police are another profession who would find it difficult to explain away if pictures of them went public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it rather funny that some of you are so judgemental. So if we worked in McDonalds or a factory it would be okay to use this site ?

Bollox! (Excuse the french)

It makes no difference what you do, who you are, who you pretend to be, where you're from, whether you work or not.

There will ALWAYS be the chance you could see someone you know. So let's think logically , if you're a full time parent, another parent may see you on here and show your picture around the playground.

If you're a doctor, you might work with people who live close to you, you may treat people who you've seen on here, If you work in McDonalds, all it takes is someone to see you on here and declare it next time they come into your work.

It's not about the profession... It's about the lifestyle. It will always be frowned upon , who gives a crap??

I don't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it rather funny that some of you are so judgemental. So if we worked in McDonalds or a factory it would be okay to use this site ?

Bollox! (Excuse the french)

It makes no difference what you do, who you are, who you pretend to be, where you're from, whether you work or not.

It's not about the profession... It's about the lifestyle. It will always be frowned upon , who gives a crap??

I don't !

Good luck with that........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gulp I think I'll pull up a chair and watch from afar

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I haven't seen one judgemental post.

I have seen people trying to point out that some professions run the risk of having their suitability for post questioned. It's written. It's statute. Not an opinion.

I can't recall one post saying the professions shouldn't be here.

Some are saying its unwise to publicly display your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear!

Just checked your profile, nothing on it and here you are flaming others."

Who are you talking about? If you use the reply and quote button people will know which post you are replying to.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Oh dear!

Just checked your profile, nothing on it and here you are flaming others."

Im responding to you just this once.

1. You questioned my attitude.

2. You questioned my reasons for being here.

3. You have brought my profile into this discussion when it's nothing to do with it.

4. You have accused me of flaming others when I haven't flamed anyone.

Don't speak to me again. Thank you.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers.

They were being honest! And I find your attitude rather questionable.

And I find your need to tell me that very hoity toity and comical.

Glad you had a laugh.

Why are YOU on here?"

she specifically put the word and in capitals so thickos like me could get her point. how has it not sunk in?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Oh dear!

Just checked your profile, nothing on it and here you are flaming others.

Who are you talking about? If you use the reply and quote button people will know which post you are replying to. "

I assumed it was me.

I'm not responding further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a problem with teachers being swingers but I know some people liken swingers to being perverted ~ those kind of people would have a field day.

Do you teach primary or senior school children, if it's the latter photo sharing is rife and very difficult to control ~ on a smart phone a pic of miss or sir could go viral very quickly.

Your photos are great & very very clear to anyone who knows you even vaguely, that it's you!

There's often stories in the red top newspapers where a young female teacher is outed for having nude pictures online. They're always fired for it too. "

Yes I think you've got a valid point.

I've attended courses which allows me to work with the under 18's (on a voluntary basis) has included safeguarding amongst other practices & it's made me realise you have to be so so careful these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't seen one judgemental post.

I have seen people trying to point out that some professions run the risk of having their suitability for post questioned. It's written. It's statute. Not an opinion.

I can't recall one post saying the professions shouldn't be here.

Some are saying its unwise to publicly display your face.

I'm just saying regardless of who you are or what you do there will always be people who judge the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll hold your coat granny

come and chill in our hot tub with another granny and grandad

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I haven't seen one judgemental post.

I have seen people trying to point out that some professions run the risk of having their suitability for post questioned. It's written. It's statute. Not an opinion.

I can't recall one post saying the professions shouldn't be here.

Some are saying its unwise to publicly display your face.

I'm just saying regardless of who you are or what you do there will always be people who judge the lifestyle. "

Very very true. Even more reason to not go public. It's going to take time for people not to frown on sexual freedom.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'll hold your coat granny

come and chill in our hot tub with another granny and grandad

If I had a coat you could hold it but I only fight if there's sommat worth fighting for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't seen one judgemental post.

I have seen people trying to point out that some professions run the risk of having their suitability for post questioned. It's written. It's statute. Not an opinion.

I can't recall one post saying the professions shouldn't be here.

Some are saying its unwise to publicly display your face.

I'm just saying regardless of who you are or what you do there will always be people who judge the lifestyle. "

I'm not sure anyone is saying you can't be a swinger, just that maybe you should take precautions to safeguard your career. Your income is more important than having a face picture in your public gallery

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why anyone would openly need to discuss their job/profession on this site, unless they believed it gave them a USP.

I actually think it's pretty much irrelevant, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their is ways anyone can get your ip address and it only takes seconds to pin point your address on google maps so be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''"

Don't cucumbers grow sideways ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't seen one judgemental post.

I have seen people trying to point out that some professions run the risk of having their suitability for post questioned. It's written. It's statute. Not an opinion.

I can't recall one post saying the professions shouldn't be here.

Some are saying its unwise to publicly display your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you tell them you were teachers ?

And for the record - Yes I think it's wrong that you are on here AND saying you are teachers. "

So if you're a cleaner or dock worker it's ok to be on here but if you're a Dr, teacher or someone who works with children then it isn't ok because clearly anyone who is a swinger is a sexual deviant and can't be trusted with children??

Or are you just trying to imply that they shouldn't have told someone they were teachers?

What people do in their private life is entirely down to themselves and not an overly judgemental society.

What consenting adults choose to do in the privacy of their homes is entirely their choice so long as it doesn't break the law.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"I don't understand why anyone would openly need to discuss their job/profession on this site, unless they believed it gave them a USP.

I actually think it's pretty much irrelevant, surely? "

your right professor

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fuck me Mable! It's all gone very Harper Valley P.T.A.

(old country song joke. understood by old internet users only

)

I made me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed"

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''

Don't cucumbers grow sideways ?"

hahaha very true. but alas the mental image made me chuckle. Thought i'd lighten up the thread a bit.

People are multifaceted, have many many different 'faces' of which to be played in different situations. Jumping to assumptions like ''oh they are swingers...they must be doing it in schools because they are teachers'' is illogical and quite humorous. +1 to the guy for making me laugh lol.

To be offended is a choice however, and if you know in yourselves that you are good teachers, then why would you care what this person thinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their is ways anyone can get your ip address and it only takes seconds to pin point your address on google maps so be wary

Go on then, what's my ip address? And what area of Newcastle do I live in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter. "

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their is ways anyone can get your ip address and it only takes seconds to pin point your address on google maps so be wary

Go on then, what's my ip address? And what area of Newcastle do I live in?

its not as easy as that but theirs very simple ways that it can be done simple things you do everyday am not wanting to break any rules on here am just saying its easily done

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door "

Only way he could get your IP is A having access to the administration tools. Or B using a netstat cmd prompt which requires a live chat session. i wouldnt be too concerned if you are concerned go find a proxy

''hide.me'' is a browser based one... or you can get others that you download to your computer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want in private xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door "

So what happens when you're not at home? I can check out my emails on my phone. Anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't worry - swinging isn't illegal - no -one in education should be ashamed of swinging - consensual sex with over 18's - whats the problem? m x

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By *P2903Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

I seem to remember reading a study which showed certain professions were represented in far higher numbers than would be statistically expected within the swinger community. I'll have to look it up again but essentially teachers, firemen, NHS workers (but not doctors) were all involved in greater than expected numbers but the real surprise were the police officers who were *massively* over-represented.

We've had a couple of bobbies message us (they self-identified as such within their messages) - has anyone else had their collar felt?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''

Don't cucumbers grow sideways ?

hahaha very true. but alas the mental image made me chuckle. Thought i'd lighten up the thread a bit.

To be offended is a choice however, and if you know in yourselves that you are good teachers, then why would you care what this person thinks?"

Quite.

I'll try one more time. You seem reasonable

No one has said that swingers are kiddy fiddlers.

No one has said if you take it up the arse you can't teach.

People HAVE said things along the line of Society being judgemental and calling your morals into questions. Now...... as teachers are bastions .... they cannot be fuckers too and be held in high regard by parents etc.... e.g WHO Is going to vote the gimp in latex with his cock squeezed into a morice lock as the head of a large successful academy ?

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door

So what happens when you're not at home? I can check out my emails on my phone. Anywhere."

IP is different on cellular networks your phone acts as the router, unless of course you are using Wifi to your router.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think who ever said they are going to report you

NEED TO GET OFF THE MORAL HIGH GROUND...!!

How in the name of god can they pass judgement when they themselves are on fab !!!

Block the numpty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door

''hide.me'' is a browser based one... or you can get others that you download to your computer."

not true am not winding people up or nor do i want to break rules on fab but you send me an email and ill tell you your address am not saying it can be done throu fab or have ever tried it

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By *eckandcarlCouple
over a year ago

leicester

So what if your teachers ! Just carry on enjoying your fun we do

x becky and carl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IP is different on cellular networks your phone acts as the router, unless of course you are using Wifi to your router."

Onion router app.

Have fun going all the way to Laos to try to find me!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door

So what happens when you're not at home? I can check out my emails on my phone. Anywhere.

IP is different on cellular networks your phone acts as the router, unless of course you are using Wifi to your router."

I know that, but saying to the guy who can apparently find out where I live from my emails, how would he do that when I am checking my emails in Italy next week? Sure, he'll know where I am, but not where I live.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"don't worry - swinging isn't illegal - no -one in education should be ashamed of swinging - consensual sex with over 18's - whats the problem? m x"

the problem is pics of sirs cock getting sent around the school playground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''

Don't cucumbers grow sideways ?

hahaha very true. but alas the mental image made me chuckle. Thought i'd lighten up the thread a bit.

To be offended is a choice however, and if you know in yourselves that you are good teachers, then why would you care what this person thinks?

Quite.

I'll try one more time. You seem reasonable

No one has said that swingers are kiddy fiddlers.

No one has said if you take it up the arse you can't teach.

Omg I've now got the most hideous image of my sons headmaster in my head!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway i dont see being a teacher any different from anyone else but its one the media would be over like a rash

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I seem to remember reading a study which showed certain professions were represented in far higher numbers than would be statistically expected within the swinger community. I'll have to look it up again but essentially teachers, firemen, NHS workers (but not doctors) were all involved in greater than expected numbers but the real surprise were the police officers who were *massively* over-represented.

We've had a couple of bobbies message us (they self-identified as such within their messages) - has anyone else had their collar felt?"

I've met people from every walk of life here. Mostly those with professions as it happens. I read that philosophy departments are sexual hotbeds. Must be all those grey cardies and jesus sandals.

The point keeps getting missed. It's not the taking part ......... it's the getting caught when it transgresses Codes of Conduct that matters.

A certain amount of discretion is called for which some seem very oblivious to. If they don't mind being disciplined , sacked or blocked fine.

Maybe they are ignorant of what they are expected to uphold. I can't say.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''

Don't cucumbers grow sideways ?

hahaha very true. but alas the mental image made me chuckle. Thought i'd lighten up the thread a bit.

To be offended is a choice however, and if you know in yourselves that you are good teachers, then why would you care what this person thinks?

Quite.

I'll try one more time. You seem reasonable

No one has said that swingers are kiddy fiddlers.

No one has said if you take it up the arse you can't teach.

I would... at least i know they are open and honest about everything. haha

Morals and ethics are a touchy subject but i see them as society's defense mechanism.

Think you'll find the the guy with the issue is insecure in himself about his work/ play dynamic, and is basically venting that at said teachers to compensate for the vulnerable nature he feels he's in.

Like being bullied for example... bullies are generally insecure about themselves and take it out on others because it makes them feel better.

At the end of the day all is subjective, its just remaining detatched and aware of the games being played around you and buying into the concepts that suit you

Whether that be Morals and Ethics... Swinging, celibacy, karma or any multitude of things. haha

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Wait...teachers are people too :O?? lol

Wonder how many nuns are on this site

''Definition of suspicious: Seeing a group of nuns doing their daily squats in a cucumber field.''

Don't cucumbers grow sideways ?

hahaha very true. but alas the mental image made me chuckle. Thought i'd lighten up the thread a bit.

To be offended is a choice however, and if you know in yourselves that you are good teachers, then why would you care what this person thinks?

Quite.

I'll try one more time. You seem reasonable

No one has said that swingers are kiddy fiddlers.

No one has said if you take it up the arse you can't teach.

Omg I've now got the most hideous image of my sons headmaster in my head!!

Good Luck at the next parent's evening ...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What happened to freedom! Should teachers not have sex? Its not like theres any junior school children on here? ?? x

But their parents might be !!! ..they might recognise their children's teacher and go into school and cause a right scene with the head ..."

the conversation could well be an interesting one though..

'excuse me Head we were on our swingers site looking for other consenting adults to have sex with / at an adult club to have sex with other consenting adults / out dogging to have sex etc etc and we saw so and so..

we think that its wrong that they also do the the same..'

really..?

suppose in some bizarre logic someone might now suggest that the parents are reported to the authorities for such activities..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a parent and I have no problem at all if any of the teachers teaching my offspring swing - they are not going to advertise it at school or take it to the school yard so crack on!

Does anyone remember John Cleese doing the sex education sketch......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report on here, surely the admin can keep tabs on the ip addresses then if they start a new account they can be banned again

Ip addresses can be changed

Also IP addresses are re-set with ease and don't lead to a property but to an area. They're easy to alter.

ip adreeses lead to your router thats why your emails arrive and can lead straight to your door

''hide.me'' is a browser based one... or you can get others that you download to your computer.

not true am not winding people up or nor do i want to break rules on fab but you send me an email and ill tell you your address am not saying it can be done throu fab or have ever tried it "

Nobody was talking about sending emails- so no need to scare people about ip addresses.

Using this site will not reveal an ip.

Also, regarding emails;

1) not all of them do. Google for example only shows their server address.

2) when you do trace an ip-it shows an area, as someone further up told you. No leading to the front door.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"don't worry - swinging isn't illegal - no -one in education should be ashamed of swinging - consensual sex with over 18's - whats the problem? m x

the problem is pics of sirs cock getting sent around the school playground

Not a problem if it is of the average FabS proportions

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By *arshy334Man
over a year ago

st helens

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