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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes feel with my messages feel like I'm lost amongst the masses either never get read or see that status deleting all messages starting again. Then message app tells you not to message more than once without a reply.

Any advice? Perserve?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Sometimes feel with my messages feel like I'm lost amongst the masses either never get read or see that status deleting all messages starting again. Then message app tells you not to message more than once without a reply.

Any advice? Perserve? "

If what you are doing isn't working? Change what you're doing.

It's the only advice you'll ever need.

A

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

are there any clubs local or social events that you could attend, this is an ideal way to start to build a network.

saves the endless messaging.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say, you're avatar reminds me of Conchita Wurst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes feel with my messages feel like I'm lost amongst the masses either never get read or see that status deleting all messages starting again. Then message app tells you not to message more than once without a reply.

Any advice? Perserve? "

Mate, you're a young, good looking guy.

Fab should be an 'add on' to your social life. get out to swingers socials, or just the pub. If you can talk half as good as you look, women (and couples)will warm to you...just don't be TOO shy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above says, I'd use the site as an add on to whatever social life you've already got, in case you're not already.

But, I'd echo his comments further - get to local clubs, socials etc, and look to be proactive by messaging those with meets advertised etc.

Good luck. If you're getting nowhere after a fair bit of time, then change what you're doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say, you're avatar reminds me of Conchita Wurst "

Wow thanks haha

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You've been to a club already so how successful was that? Build your network from there and don't expect too much from here. The site is a tool and people use it in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes feel with my messages feel like I'm lost amongst the masses either never get read or see that status deleting all messages starting again. Then message app tells you not to message more than once without a reply.

Any advice? Perserve? "

Gawd knows mate.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"I have to say, you're avatar reminds me of Conchita Wurst "

Your avatar reminds me of bratwurst

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