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Are there any bad manners or lack of civility that particularly annoy or upset you?

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)

This could be things like, not holding a door open, no "please" or "Thank you", talking on a mobile phone in a meeting or on public transport. Opening a door to an establishment and a person enters before allowing you to exit, pushing in line etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the general pushiness of our local neds annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staff who continue to have a conversation between themselves whilst having a half hearted attempt to serve me - that really pisses me off

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By *ingmasterMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"This could be things like, not holding a door open, no "please" or "Thank you", talking on a mobile phone in a meeting or on public transport. Opening a door to an establishment and a person enters before allowing you to exit, pushing in line etc etc"

paying for something in a shop then having your change slapped down on the counter even though your outstretched palm is right there . this really boils my piss !

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

unwashed cocks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the dirty tarts who fart then ask you to lick 'em out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unwashed cocks...."

Never bothered about them- there's always Dettol in my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spitting........

I really really really hate spitting..

I wanna rub their noses in it...dirty feckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not saying thankyou after ive held a door open for them

or leting the door swing shut knowing im behind them and on my way through said door

people who think its ok to que jump at the supermarket because "they only have a few iteams and are in a bit of a rush"

and my biggest bug bear and this happens all the time at work

peope who chat amoungst themselves or on the phone when they are trying to order breakfast I refuse to serve them

beccy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't say thanks when you do something for them, be it let them out at junctions, or holding the door, its just a little thing that keeps the goodwill flowing

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

oh god loads

not saying thank you when i hold back to let you past, hold the door open, let you out at junctions etc

not saying sorry when you bang into me

not registering i am there when i am at your checkout

not saying please and thank you etc

i think working in a cll centre has made me more sensitive to lack of customer service - i am a nightmare when on the phones or in shops/restaurants etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to mention! "

Too true! It seems that manners and civility are a thing of the past these days sadly. It's a shame - manners cost nothing and sometimes it's the little things that can make someone's day and takes such little effort.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Another one for the unthanked door holding.

Someday soon someone will get a proper mouthful.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"unwashed cocks...."
oooooh who have you been with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to be an incredible gent, always opened the car door for me, opened the door for me wherever we went and waited for me to walk in....never let the door slam shut on me. Girl get's used to that and now I get irked if someone doesn't do that for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two big ones. One is swearing hate it and the other is people spitting yuck detest it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unwashed cocks....

Never bothered about them- there's always Dettol in my house"

.... and a wire brush?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I'm mr.Grumpy old man... how long do you bloody well have????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm mr.Grumpy old man... how long do you bloody well have???? "

Gerrout ov it... you're a pussy cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spitting........

I really really really hate spitting..

I wanna rub their noses in it...dirty feckers. "

grrrr fkg yessss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one for the unthanked door holding.

Someday soon someone will get a proper mouthful. "

don't u just hate that and when not just one, but a whold load file through as if you were the doorperson!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who go straight over a roundabout. It's not called a straight-on-about is it! You go ROUND the fucker, not cut me up completely when clipping the apexes! Wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one for the unthanked door holding.

Someday soon someone will get a proper mouthful. "

I usually turn around and say in a loud voice 'You're welcome!' Occasionaly they respond, other times it goes straight over the top of them - too much for their pea brains to comprehend

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Another one for the unthanked door holding.

Someday soon someone will get a proper mouthful.

don't u just hate that and when not just one, but a whold load file through as if you were the doorperson!"

Three of them on Saturday, all of them middle aged people who should KNOW BETTER!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

No please n thank you

Women with children in push chairs who think just because they have off spring it gives them a god given right to run the damn push chair over ya toes

Old ladies with pointy handbags that stab ya with em

people who cough n sneeze without covering their mouths

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

People who "choose" to ignore the statement " we dont meet alone"-very bad manners IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What disappoints me most are the people who find good manners or common courtesy an effort as opposed to a way of life.

Show me courtesy because you want to not because you should.

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No thanks for door opening for me...its a popular one!

Although I did get told off for doing that by a woman I was walking alongside once-we were involved in the same case, & had to go to the same place but she took exception to me holding the doors open for her...go figure!

Also spitting, old ladies blocking the pavement, people blocking the aisles at Tesco, & idiots on the road who cant/wont indicate, or wait their turn!

I should be on that Grumpy Old Men programme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word C U N T .....I can't bear it. Young men who wear their trousers so low you can see their pants. Spitting in the street, turns my stomach.

Oh and pretty much everyone that shops in the Pound Shop annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate lazy bastards who can work that don’t want work claiming dla and mobility driving around with mobility cars showing off to there fiends who are working I know at least 6 people who has the cars and dla and don’t need them as a tax payer this pisses me off big time Cameron government should look into the dla and mobility and only give it to the Genuine people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with John and Louise, but the thing that gets my temper rising is queue podging, sarcastic answers and downright impertinence in general

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

People who stand in a queue for 5 minutes, then, once served decide to search for their fecking purse / wallet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that dont take others in to consideration as often as they might xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Oh dear... prepare yourselves...

Spitting... that grunting and swirling before they expel the contents *vomits*

People who sniff... blow your nose bozo!

People who listen to their music full blast and you can still hear it... they have headphones for a reason you muppet... I don't want to listen to how big is your telly boom boom boom!

Driving manners... thank you when you let someone in/out

People who continue their phone conversation while being served in shops

Shopkeepers who are on the phone/chatting amongst themselves while serving you

Rude neighbours who clear their snow onto your driveway... yeah cause I didn't want to park there!

People who seem to think you're invisible whilst walking along the street then run you over with their pram/bike/scooter/handbag!

People who steal your food from the fridge at work... how rude?!

I think there are probably more but I'm putting my Victor Meldrew personality away for today!

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Have been known to say 'You're Welcome' when people have gone through a door I have held opened and they have not said 'Thank you" or even smiled.

As to my other bug bears ........ I'd best retire quietly into the Grumpy Women room and eat some chocolate.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Spitting........

I really really really hate spitting..

I wanna rub their noses in it...dirty feckers.

grrrr fkg yessss "

I'd make them lick it back up if I had my way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spitting........

I really really really hate spitting..

I wanna rub their noses in it...dirty feckers.

grrrr fkg yessss

I'd make them lick it back up if I had my way! "

Ugg xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the people not saying thank you when your on a narrow walkway and you step off into road for them or wait for them to go along the path

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

People who dont say please and thankyou. People that walk in front of you talking to you so you cant hear them (my sister and callum)

people who say aint it

people who say telly instead of television

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Annoying..... when people try and tell you to "get over" your preferences because they don't match them.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"people who say telly instead of television"

Hahahahaha!

Sorry!

Also men who say "you're jealous of my body aren't you" after you've turned them down. I mean wtf?! How is that even possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don’t reply to messages

Sorry, someone had to

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Shop counter staff chatting with a friend as they serve you.

Spitting. Make em lick it up!

People who walk into you because they aren't looking/are walking backwards etc then scowl at you!

Entire families who take up the whole pavement and walk reeeaallly slowly.

The holding door open thing simply gets a loud sarcastic 'your welcome!'

Dog owners who laugh or ignore you when their filthy muddy dog jumps up you! (Funnily enough they don't ignore you for long if you kick their precious pooch away!!)

Unsolicited telephone sales calls from people, all of whom seem to have chosen their 'name' from a list - speak to my mate, Tone...click, duuuuuuuurrrrrrrr!

Pre-recorded unsolicited telephone sales calls from machines that happen twice a day without fail: 'hello, do not hang up this is an import.....'

My mum saying 'he won't get there any faster' as some prat does 120mph past us - yes he will mum!! lol

Oooooo, I could go on for hours....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Tourists!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone been spoken to rudely on here by another user? And I dont mean rude in a good way, I meant discourteously, (no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could write a long list but dont have long enough to mention everything. Manners and politeness are a big thing for me. I have both and expect the same in return. However, a lot on FAB have neither.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Has anyone been spoken to rudely on here by another user? And I dont mean rude in a good way, I meant discourteously, (no pun intended)"

Yes. By a very judgemental 'lady' who was actually completely wrong and failed to allow any explanation or clarification. The _iew from her Ivory Tower must be exquisite in the summer!

Other than that, no - unless you count a deleted unread messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"paying for something in a shop then having your change slapped down on the counter even though your outstretched palm is right there . this really boils my piss !"

Hahaha I have OCD so I prefer that!

Nothing really pisses me of apart from if my plate of food isn't big enough

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone been spoken to rudely on here by another user? And I dont mean rude in a good way, I meant discourteously, (no pun intended)

Yes. By a very judgemental 'lady' who was actually completely wrong and failed to allow any explanation or clarification. The _iew from her Ivory Tower must be exquisite in the summer!

Other than that, no - unless you count a deleted unread messages! "

I agree but sometimes fems have so much mail it is impossible to reply to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the thing that annoys me on here when it comes to manners and civility is when someone posts a thread discussing a bad meet or experience with another user of fab in the hope that everyone else will join in the virtual hanging of this individual.

even without naming, a person can read that thread, know it relates to them and read all the venom that seems to follow such threads.

we shouldn't assume that folk don't have feelings just because we're not talking to them directly. Nor should we assume that we're hearing all the facts from the op.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Has anyone been spoken to rudely on here by another user? And I dont mean rude in a good way, I meant discourteously, (no pun intended)

Yes. By a very judgemental 'lady' who was actually completely wrong and failed to allow any explanation or clarification. The _iew from her Ivory Tower must be exquisite in the summer!

Other than that, no - unless you count a deleted unread messages!

I agree but sometimes fems have so much mail it is impossible to reply to everyone"

Personally I don't take it to heart, I know how you ladies get swamped. Some guys do seem to take it as a personal insult though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate being in a shop or take away and they cut dead to answere the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

peeps who keep changing the music at parties.

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By *evnsueCouple
over a year ago

hull

yes,well i,m abus driver and i see all this every day come rain or shine i have an a to z of hates,top of my list is mobility passes,really winds me up that one seeing people running like hell for bus,sprinting across roads jumping massive puddles like an olympic athlete then pull out pass and don,t even say kiss my arse mate but one day ,one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who get irate about the smallest daily occurrences; failing to see their cup is half full and not half empty.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

With Granny on this....people who go on and on about the most trivial things that people have said to them on Fab messages.....

Get the feck over it

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Litter dropping ruining the countryside

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Bad manners, that really annoys me the most!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is never any excuse for bad manners. It's the people who let doors slam or who don't say thankyou who are the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be a few rude people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene...........worst ever and being called hun lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad hygiene...........worst ever and being called hun lol xx"

A popular name during WWII.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys who assume it's ok to come in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guys who assume it's ok to come in my mouth. "

But...is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it bldy isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners are the oil that lubricates civilised society.

All overcrowded nations have a strict code of conduct or at least did have.

It basically allows us to live on top of one another without "going postal" all the time.

I keep saying this but "manners really do make a man or woman" and "they cost nothing"

Manners are common sense for most part and even in strange lands its easy to see what could or could not be good manners.

Rude ignorant and selfish people should be forced onto a small island (think South Gorgia)and allowed to piss each other off and hopefully wipe each other out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MY pet hate is when you meet someone and they are costantly on there mobiles either texting or speaking . find it very rude , FRANKIE X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that dont thank me when i stop to let them pass in my car

People who cant manage excuse me please when i am in the local supermarket and blocking their way, i usually long it out knowing they are getting annoyed

Idiots that dont like it when i walk on the road as the pavements are too icey, may they crash and write their cars off

Loads more but i think good manners is the biggest is my worst, think very few have heard of them especially at my local supermarket

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