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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?"

would settle for clean bits...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?

would settle for clean bits... "

....your supposed to clean them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?

would settle for clean bits...

....your supposed to clean them. "

what? all of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?

would settle for clean bits...

....your supposed to clean them. "

that's what i use the dress for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms."

Thats happed to me too ... really Peed me off!!

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By *y_funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms."

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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But as in all aspects of life it is the women who make the effort.

Nothing wrong with jeans a nice crisp white shirt on a guy, looks soooo sexy.

Not saying we want them in Tuxedo's but come on guys make an effort

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on. "

Is that under or over your jeans

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

Is that under or over your jeans "

over his tights usually

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

Is that under or over your jeans

over his tights usually "

New keyboard required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?"

I aint wearing a basque, suspenders, g-string or high heels for anyone.

I am however prepared to clean under my fingernails.

Gander.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

Is that under or over your jeans

over his tights usually

New keyboard required "

...and two pairs of clean socks as well.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

Is that under or over your jeans

over his tights usually

New keyboard required

...and two pairs of clean socks as well. "

two pairs?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

Is that under or over your jeans

over his tights usually

New keyboard required

...and two pairs of clean socks as well.

two pairs?"

One to wear, the other for down the front of the Spiderman pants...

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Lol too right... I spend ages getting ready for a meet,then you get a guy who turns up on trainers and tracksuit bottoms.

That is a bit sad and shows no real effort.

I'd at least put my Spiderman pants on.

Is that under or over your jeans

over his tights usually

New keyboard required

...and two pairs of clean socks as well.

two pairs?

One to wear, the other for down the front of the Spiderman pants... "

Duhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem for blokes is what to wear - there is only so much that can be done with a pair of trousers and a shirt, other than having them clean and pressed. Women on the other hand have a much greater range of sexy stuff to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahem.....cough-cough,,,,coin-purse-coin-purse,,,, cough-cough.... oop's sorry everyone... don't mind me.... I was just clearing a tickly throat ... muahaha....muahaha.....muahaha

gottcah,,,, with a hit n' run Mach-3.... O'l....Spiderpants !!!....

muahaha...muahaha....muahaha

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Problem for blokes is what to wear - there is only so much that can be done with a pair of trousers and a shirt, other than having them clean and pressed. Women on the other hand have a much greater range of sexy stuff to choose from."

Unless your names Soxy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX"

oooops, hate to mention it, but you did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But as in all aspects of life it is the women who make the effort.

Nothing wrong with jeans a nice crisp white shirt on a guy, looks soooo sexy.

Not saying we want them in Tuxedo's but come on guys make an effort "

yeah i like that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem for blokes is what to wear - there is only so much that can be done with a pair of trousers and a shirt, other than having them clean and pressed. Women on the other hand have a much greater range of sexy stuff to choose from."

rubbish, don't talk wet, that is all we are asking for but it seems some guys can't even make that much effort. oh well their loss ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't talking wet, women have a bigger choice. As for the scruffy blokes, why not get some cards printed with

"If you want a shag, work out how the iron works!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ain't talking wet, women have a bigger choice. As for the scruffy blokes, why not get some cards printed with

"If you want a shag, work out how the iron works!""

tch tch, it always has to come down to size - well I don't know, you blokes r never happy

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Problem for blokes is what to wear - there is only so much that can be done with a pair of trousers and a shirt, other than having them clean and pressed. Women on the other hand have a much greater range of sexy stuff to choose from."
Pah!! Try half decent shoes..clean ones, good haircut, and no novelty pants!!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Exactly - smartness can be achieved in jeans and a casual shirt.

I got married in jeans and looked great (well, up to a point, obviously)

Shoes, as Ms Marcos mentioned, are also important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem for blokes is what to wear - there is only so much that can be done with a pair of trousers and a shirt, other than having them clean and pressed. Women on the other hand have a much greater range of sexy stuff to choose from.Pah!! Try half decent shoes..clean ones, good haircut, and no novelty pants!!!"

novelty pants - lmao

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Problem for blokes is what to wear - there is only so much that can be done with a pair of trousers and a shirt, other than having them clean and pressed. Women on the other hand have a much greater range of sexy stuff to choose from.Pah!! Try half decent shoes..clean ones, good haircut, and no novelty pants!!!

novelty pants - lmao "

huge turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect the gent to make an effort if I have to dress to impress.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX"

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?"

sure why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

"

It's shocking really how many guys dont make the effort or smell nice... Ive stopped play on a few occasions when a guy obviously doesnt know what soap and water is.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I would expect the gent to make an effort if I have to dress to impress. "

i thought it was normal when you go out anywhere to smell nice and look a little tidy.. oh and nice breath.. wouldnt look too good in stockings though i do have nice legs lol x

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?"

Well the consensus i have so far found they do like a guy to dress to please. But the priority is clean, smelling nice with fitted solid colour boxers on. I think if i was asked to dress up i some weird stuff the reply would let's say not be positive.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I don't look particularly good in a dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

It's shocking really how many guys dont make the effort or smell nice... Ive stopped play on a few occasions when a guy obviously doesnt know what soap and water is."

Ew gross!

Mens footwear is a big givaway, I find. If they look after their shoes, they tend to pay attention to detail and therefore their hygiene too!

But it puts me off if they are scruffy, or don't bother to shave.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

guys might not have as many options,as far as looking sexy goes.but it doesnt take to much effort,to be smart,and clean.we have met couples,where the female has really made the effort,and the guy looks like he's just finished picking the spuds.needless to say we made our excuses,and left.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

It's shocking really how many guys dont make the effort or smell nice... Ive stopped play on a few occasions when a guy obviously doesnt know what soap and water is.

Ew gross!

Mens footwear is a big givaway, I find. If they look after their shoes, they tend to pay attention to detail and therefore their hygiene too!

But it puts me off if they are scruffy, or don't bother to shave."

u should see the shoes i wear... canvas things i got in spain.. i got loads of them .. do wash em and the dont smell but they dont look that good.. dut i do like to b clean smell good have clean teeth and nails so not so sure on ur shoe theory lol x

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

It's shocking really how many guys dont make the effort or smell nice... Ive stopped play on a few occasions when a guy obviously doesnt know what soap and water is.

Ew gross!

Mens footwear is a big givaway, I find. If they look after their shoes, they tend to pay attention to detail and therefore their hygiene too!

But it puts me off if they are scruffy, or don't bother to shave."

I sometimes wear Cowboy boots, it makes me that bit taller, not that I'm exactly

a Dwarf!

Over the years my dad who I work with, teases me in the mornings, have you got scent on boy!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Poorly manicured finger nails on a guy is also a no no pour moi

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Poorly manicured finger nails on a guy is also a no no pour moi "

Yes, nothing worse!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Poorly manicured finger nails on a guy is also a no no pour moi

Yes, nothing worse! "

well there are things worse such as knob cheese n stinky armpits but I dislike poorly manicured nails on a guy

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Poorly manicured finger nails on a guy is also a no no pour moi

Yes, nothing worse! well there are things worse such as knob cheese n stinky armpits but I dislike poorly manicured nails on a guy "

Cheesy Knob, thats awful!

There is a joke here lurking, but I'm buggered if I can remember it!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Poorly manicured finger nails on a guy is also a no no pour moi

Yes, nothing worse! well there are things worse such as knob cheese n stinky armpits but I dislike poorly manicured nails on a guy

Cheesy Knob, thats awful!

There is a joke here lurking, but I'm buggered if I can remember it! "

wasnt a cracker then?

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By *y_funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

oooops, hate to mention it, but you did?"

Did what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

oooops, hate to mention it, but you did?

Did what?"

went to a club like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

It's shocking really how many guys dont make the effort or smell nice... Ive stopped play on a few occasions when a guy obviously doesnt know what soap and water is.

Ew gross!

Mens footwear is a big givaway, I find. If they look after their shoes, they tend to pay attention to detail and therefore their hygiene too!

But it puts me off if they are scruffy, or don't bother to shave.

u should see the shoes i wear... canvas things i got in spain.. i got loads of them .. do wash em and the dont smell but they dont look that good.. dut i do like to b clean smell good have clean teeth and nails so not so sure on ur shoe theory lol x"

a well turned out guy is a delight to the eye and a swish pair of shoes .... mmmm does it fer me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

I always make the effort when I am out and about, smell nice as well!

You never know who you will bump into.

"

exactly, like your thinking.

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By *y_funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

oooops, hate to mention it, but you did?

Did what?

went to a club like that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were at a club Sat nite, and I actually mentioned this to my hubby!! all women dressed sexily hair and make up and all ladies had made an effort, looking round (as you do) and most men(not all n def not hubby) had a plain round neck tee shirt (not even a polo shirt) with old comfy jeans! looking like just got off settee that they had been sat on all day! Might be doing men a diservice here but that was what I noticed Sat nite at a club. Would any woman go to a club like that?? Doubt it!

Mrs Fun XX

oooops, hate to mention it, but you did?

Did what?

went to a club like that

"

ooooh cat bag? hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?"

yeah, I think so.

A man should be ready to wear whatever turns the lady on, and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember arranging a meet with this one man. He has asked me to wear something short stockings and heels which I did. So imagine my annoyance when he turned up in a tatty football t-shirt, shorts and flip flops and a couple of days worth of stubble!!!!!! I was not impressed. Needless to say we did not play.

Men may not have as many options. But how hard can it be to have a shower shave and put a clean pair of jeans and a nice shirt or t-shirt.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"I remember arranging a meet with this one man. He has asked me to wear something short stockings and heels which I did. So imagine my annoyance when he turned up in a tatty football t-shirt, shorts and flip flops and a couple of days worth of stubble!!!!!! I was not impressed. Needless to say we did not play.

Men may not have as many options. But how hard can it be to have a shower shave and put a clean pair of jeans and a nice shirt or t-shirt."

Grrr! Shorts and flip flops, there is loads of those plonkers living down here!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

New avatar Mr Licker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy wants the woman to dress to please, shouldnt he dress to please also?

yeah, I think so.

A man should be ready to wear whatever turns the lady on, and vice versa."

sounds like a fun swap!

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"New avatar Mr Licker?

"

Yes, well you cannot have all your eggs in one basket!

unusual me in a suit, as I work on a boat! Lol

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