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I prefer larger guys if i'm honest (tall and chubby) but have met quite a lot of slim guys and a cpl of skinny ones. I'm also not using any of these descriptions to have a go either else i wouldn't meet and fuck them. | |||
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Average size of UK women is a size 16 now so that probably does explain why more women are on the large side on here, just as there are more large women irl. I've been on a few fuck sites and only one of them seems to have not many BBW on it. | |||
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"I think people understand the words are for description but yeah it's well easy to offend people, like don't call people older or milf.
Average size of UK women is a size 16 now so that probably does explain why more women are on the large side on here, just as there are more large women irl. I've been on a few fuck sites and only one of them seems to have not many BBW on it."Average size used to be 12 not that long ago either | |||
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"The average size in the UK is 16, and a lot of women on this site will also tend to be older. Arguably women become more likely to put on weight when they're older so I don't think it's that surprising that the ladies on fab would mirror the population they're drawn from. " 
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"Even fat fuckers need a shag "Pretty much answers the OPs question. Next! | |||
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"Even fat fuckers need a shag "we should fit in my king size bed bring wine  | |||
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"Even fat fuckers need a shag
we should fit in my king size bed
bring wine "Ok find a man and we are sorted | |||
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"Even fat fuckers need a shag
we should fit in my king size bed
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Ok find a man and we are sorted "we have to fit a guy in there too
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"Even fat fuckers need a shag
we should fit in my king size bed
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Ok find a man and we are sorted
we have to fit a guy in there too
now your pushing it "He can stay on the floor | |||
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link." people with mental health are more likely to carry extra weight as many tablets used to control a lot of mental health problems are renowned for weight gain | |||
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link. people with mental health are more likely to carry extra weight as many tablets used to control a lot of mental health problems are renowned for weight gain " | |||
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"It seems to me, and I'm not being critical this is just an observation but the majority or ladies (can't speak for the men) seem to be shall we say full bodied here on fab. Now why is this, is it because people in the UK are on average getting bigger. Or is it a swinging thing, in that bigger girls happen to be more broad minded and adventurous. Might get some flack for this post but I'm genuinely interested in replys " It's because we swallow  | |||
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"Maybe its the same as when you get a load of women who work together their periods get into sync" + have you read 'what are you having for tea' threads.... it's a feast on a mid week day | |||
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"It seems to me, and I'm not being critical this is just an observation but the majority or ladies (can't speak for the men) seem to be shall we say full bodied here on fab. Now why is this, is it because people in the UK are on average getting bigger. Or is it a swinging thing, in that bigger girls happen to be more broad minded and adventurous. Might get some flack for this post but I'm genuinely interested in replys It's because we swallow "Ah but not all of you do | |||
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"Maybe its the same as when you get a load of women who work together their periods get into sync + have you read 'what are you having for tea' threads.... it's a feast on a mid week day "I stay out of the food threads if I can because I know myself | |||
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"Maybe its the same as when you get a load of women who work together their periods get into sync + have you read 'what are you having for tea' threads.... it's a feast on a mid week day
I stay out of the food threads if I can because I know myself " | |||
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"Maybe its the same as when you get a load of women who work together their periods get into sync" When I've worked in an office with more women than men it's resulted in So. Much. Cake. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though." and my reply is the same | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though." | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though." Now is your chance! Start that thread. -Courtney | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though." You are so correct Athletic seems to be anybody who can manage the Fab patented gut suck these days! Sometimes the "Average" male is pushing it at that!!!! Like me | |||
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"I'm a size 18, so I'm larger than average. There are lots of women on the forums who are size 8-16 if that's more average. Not everyone is a BBW. They're most definitely not. Like Anna said, in some cases age makes you gain some weight - menopause etc when you get to that age can do too. Not always, but it can happen. As View said - mental health and self-esteem can have a part to play too. Maybe that's a factor for some. Positive experiences here can help with that. I was a size 22/24 a few years ago so I'm working on it. And have lost more recently. I will be too large for a lot of guys still at a size 18. However, I still think there's something for everyone here , whatever your personal preference is. " Absolutely! | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. You are so correct Athletic seems to be anybody who can manage the Fab patented gut suck these days! Sometimes the "Average" male is pushing it at that!!!! Like me "There is also the "I watch sport on tv/used to play rugby/sumo and darts are both sports" school of athleticism | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. and my reply is the same "Yep, you are usually pretty consistent | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though." As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures | |||
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"I've noticed there seems to be a preponderance of bbw on this site." Ive noticed that anyone from a size 16 plus gets called a BBW on here. I wouldn't call a size 16 BBW. In my eyes it's more like a size 24 or over, | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures " Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. There's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument... | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. There's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument..." Well my existence certainly doesn't support your theory | |||
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"I've noticed there seems to be a preponderance of bbw on this site." Yes that's right. I seen loads too. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures " My point is that men, who are mostly interested in women, notice this and comment. Often. Women, who are mostly interested in men, notice that a lot of men are delusional about their size/build, but if the man isn't what they're looking for, they move on, without needing to plaster this observation all over the fora. I don't understand the need to make these "observations" particularly when it's known to be a sensitive topic and could upset people. | |||
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"I don't believe the average is size 16. It certainly shouldn't be anyway. " It is. Whether it's a meaningful statistic is open for debate, when I walk down the street I see far fewer large people than that would suggest. Ooh, just realised I'm average, for the first time in a long time. | |||
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"It's a good question. I was happy to admit I was fat at a size 20 but now I am pretty much a size 14 I still feel bigger than the average I see around me everyday. Don't forget that average dress size doesn't take average height into account; there are women on here who I know are bigger dress sizes than me yet look slimmer since I am shorter than average (just) and they are taller. Plus women tend to dress to hide their lumpy bits and accentuate their good bits when you see them out and about but the lingerie and naked shots you see on here reveal a wide range of shapes and sizes. In real life you only tend to see women in that lack of clothes in the media and in adverts, where smaller than the average is the norm." Well said I'm 6ft and I'm not skin and bone although I'm not obese either...yet by many standards I'd be classed as large because I'm a size 16. All too often we do see that perfect image portrayed by the media. What you're seeing are photos of real women, with it all hanging loose so to speak lol. No air brushing or photo shop. Just real, genuine every day bodies. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. There's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument... Well my existence certainly doesn't support your theory "How so? | |||
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"I don't believe the average is size 16. It certainly shouldn't be anyway. " I believe in usa its a lot higher. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures My point is that men, who are mostly interested in women, notice this and comment. Often. Women, who are mostly interested in men, notice that a lot of men are delusional about their size/build, but if the man isn't what they're looking for, they move on, without needing to plaster this observation all over the fora. I don't understand the need to make these "observations" particularly when it's known to be a sensitive topic and could upset people. " actually I'd welcome that kind of observation from ladies. And I don't see why this topic should upset anyone | |||
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"Even fat fuckers need a shag "Please give generously
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. There's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument... Well my existence certainly doesn't support your theory
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"I've noticed there seems to be a preponderance of bbw on this site. Ive noticed that anyone from a size 16 plus gets called a BBW on here. I wouldn't call a size 16 BBW. In my eyes it's more like a size 24 or over,"
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"I'm average but suffer from auto-body-dysfunction-narcissism which means I look in the mirror and see a fit bod "I have the one where in my head I see a perfect slimmish hourglass and then look in the mirror and go "bugger". | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. " Yes we do have that body | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures My point is that men, who are mostly interested in women, notice this and comment. Often. Women, who are mostly interested in men, notice that a lot of men are delusional about their size/build, but if the man isn't what they're looking for, they move on, without needing to plaster this observation all over the fora. I don't understand the need to make these "observations" particularly when it's known to be a sensitive topic and could upset people. actually I'd welcome that kind of observation from ladies. And I don't see why this topic should upset anyone" Perhaps if you were the target of this "observation" and "simple question" as often as women are, you would. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures My point is that men, who are mostly interested in women, notice this and comment. Often. Women, who are mostly interested in men, notice that a lot of men are delusional about their size/build, but if the man isn't what they're looking for, they move on, without needing to plaster this observation all over the fora. I don't understand the need to make these "observations" particularly when it's known to be a sensitive topic and could upset people. actually I'd welcome that kind of observation from ladies. And I don't see why this topic should upset anyone" Plus you knew it might upset people because you were clearly aware you might get flak when you posted it. I know this because you said so! | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. As I said in my original post I mention women because that's what I am interested in, i don't look at men's profiles often enough to comment. So as you have commented perhaps you can tell me, is it the same for men are 80% of them big boned. I'm not talking about what they describe them selves as. I'm talking about what you perceive them as when you see their pictures My point is that men, who are mostly interested in women, notice this and comment. Often. Women, who are mostly interested in men, notice that a lot of men are delusional about their size/build, but if the man isn't what they're looking for, they move on, without needing to plaster this observation all over the fora. I don't understand the need to make these "observations" particularly when it's known to be a sensitive topic and could upset people. actually I'd welcome that kind of observation from ladies. And I don't see why this topic should upset anyone Plus you knew it might upset people because you were clearly aware you might get flak when you posted it. I know this because you said so!" Yes I knew that no matter how nicely I asked a perfectly reasonable question some one would get upset. | |||
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" Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. There's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument... Well my existence certainly doesn't support your theory
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"There's a lot of above average size women and there's a lot of men below average willy size hahaha swings and roundabouts I say " | |||
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"I am trying to word things in a delicate manner as I'm not actively looking to insult anyone. I'd say that probably 80% of the ladies I see active on fab are at the very least on the curvey side" It's actually 81%, which by coincidence is exactly the percentage of 'athletic' men on Fab. So impressive is this that Team GB is known to be scouting on Fab for talent to bolster our Olympic 2016 chances in Rio. | |||
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" Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. There's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument... Well my existence certainly doesn't support your theory
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"There's a lot of above average size women and there's a lot of men below average willy size hahaha swings and roundabouts I say " Not in this area there isn't...  | |||
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" Actually I think with men there tend to be more slimmer or 'gym fit' men than what I see in the outside world. But again, that's possibly an age thing as there are an awful lot of young men on here, who are the age most likely to have that body type. ere's of course also the fact that once you've got a theory you tend to see what you want to see and only remember those that support your argument... Well my existence certainly doesn't support your theory
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Cos I'm not skinny, and I'm certainly not a gymbody
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Cos I'm not skinny, and I'm certainly not a gymbody
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Far be it from me to throw random statistics into a thread but 50% of posts quoting statistics are made up 33% of the time and factually incorrect 56.3% of the time.
With thousands of members - many of whom you're as likely to see a full body shot of as you are a newbie single guy getting a reverse gangbang with the women from the first seven pages of hot pics - I struggle to see how anyone could quote an accurate figure!
Of course for the forum population it's probably down to all the cake, what's for breakfast/lunch/tea and booze related threads.
And Shags haribos of course!
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Really?
Far be it from me to throw random statistics into a thread but 50% of posts quoting statistics are made up 33% of the time and factually incorrect 56.3% of the time.
With thousands of members - many of whom you're as likely to see a full body shot of as you are a newbie single guy getting a reverse gangbang with the women from the first seven pages of hot pics - I struggle to see how anyone could quote an accurate figure!
Of course for the forum population it's probably down to all the cake, what's for breakfast/lunch/tea and booze related threads.
And Shags haribos of course!
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course! "It's not a subtle dig at all, it's just an observation. An I've been rejected by plenty a heffalump in my time also been rejected by some fitties too am I having a go at them as well? | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course! "And it's always "just a question" based on "an observation" and is "perfectly reasonable". And anyone getting upset by it clearly has issues. It can't be that actually there is something wrong with these types of posts, (or the frequency of these posts), oh no, no, no.
And yet, to say to begin with that one knows it will upset some, and to post it anyway...
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course!
Dunno, it comes across as an ok question to ask and he hasn't made any hint of slagging them off. Plus has veris from someone large too.
He's probably just bored or genuinely interested.
Just because some guys don't want to get with large women doesn't mean all topics about them are to have a go at them.
Womens bodies have always been subjects of vanity, it's the way society is. i even made a topic about this weeks ago asking if men ever feel neglected by society because everything is always about women and not men."I agree, I think its a subject just like any other one in the forums. The OP has kept posting, interacting & had banter directed at him too, all in good humour as far as I can tell. | |||
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"For me it's about honesty. And I gotta say many woman on here are not very honest when it comes to photographs and descriptions ing themselves etc. I don't mind at all meeting a larger woman. It's just the lies I cannot stand and on here and other online hook up places woman are lying through their teeth constantly with strange angle shots and close ups etc. Over time you get used to this but you get caught out no matter how good you try just the same. This has much more to do with woman and there confidence and self image than it does with whenever men want to fuck em. Over time you get much better at spotting the fakers and once angry about it you start to feel sorry that so manyoman are scared to show themselves as they are. Here's to the big sexy ladies, just be honest cause there is nothing worse than turning up at a meet and finding a random person that looks nothing at all like there photos. " Lying with how they are describing themselves?? Or editing photos? My photos aren't lies theyre me but I obviously only put them up if they look good. I always get told I don't look big in them but I always tell them I am. This worries me that you get an impression from a few pics and then think someone's deceiving you. Can you explain? | |||
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"For me it's about honesty. And I gotta say many woman on here are not very honest when it comes to photographs and descriptions ing themselves etc. I don't mind at all meeting a larger woman. It's just the lies I cannot stand and on here and other online hook up places woman are lying through their teeth constantly with strange angle shots and close ups etc. Over time you get used to this but you get caught out no matter how good you try just the same. This has much more to do with woman and there confidence and self image than it does with whenever men want to fuck em. Over time you get much better at spotting the fakers and once angry about it you start to feel sorry that so manyoman are scared to show themselves as they are. Here's to the big sexy ladies, just be honest cause there is nothing worse than turning up at a meet and finding a random person that looks nothing at all like there photos. " 'cos men never, ever tell porkies or mislead anyone like that. This sort of angry, hateful post isn't much of a surprise from a man who has admitted outright in the past that he can't stand most women. | |||
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"For me it's about honesty. And I gotta say many woman on here are not very honest when it comes to photographs and descriptions ing themselves etc. I don't mind at all meeting a larger woman. It's just the lies I cannot stand and on here and other online hook up places woman are lying through their teeth constantly with strange angle shots and close ups etc. Over time you get used to this but you get caught out no matter how good you try just the same. This has much more to do with woman and there confidence and self image than it does with whenever men want to fuck em. Over time you get much better at spotting the fakers and once angry about it you start to feel sorry that so manyoman are scared to show themselves as they are. Here's to the big sexy ladies, just be honest cause there is nothing worse than turning up at a meet and finding a random person that looks nothing at all like there photos. " You think? I used to have "large" as the body type on my profile, because I am, and I'd get at least two messages a day telling me I was wrong and should change it (I did, to shut people up). If you've been repeatedly "deceived" by all those clever angles I would have thought you'd have worked out what they are by now... | |||
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How so?
Cos I'm not skinny, and I'm certainly not a gymbody
Not young, either
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"For me it's about honesty. And I gotta say many woman on here are not very honest when it comes to photographs and descriptions ing themselves etc. I don't mind at all meeting a larger woman. It's just the lies I cannot stand and on here and other online hook up places woman are lying through their teeth constantly with strange angle shots and close ups etc. Over time you get used to this but you get caught out no matter how good you try just the same. This has much more to do with woman and there confidence and self image than it does with whenever men want to fuck em. Over time you get much better at spotting the fakers and once angry about it you start to feel sorry that so manyoman are scared to show themselves as they are. Here's to the big sexy ladies, just be honest cause there is nothing worse than turning up at a meet and finding a random person that looks nothing at all like there photos. " I agree. | |||
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-Courtney"I've been looking at and buying clothes online. Right now US sizes are 2 sizes smaller than the UK, not sure what's going on but a size 10 here is a size 6 there. It's actually hard work finding the right size clothes online tbh and i go off the re_iews if there's no size guide. | |||
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"For me it's about honesty. And I gotta say many woman on here are not very honest when it comes to photographs and descriptions ing themselves etc. I don't mind at all meeting a larger woman. It's just the lies I cannot stand and on here and other online hook up places woman are lying through their teeth constantly with strange angle shots and close ups etc. Over time you get used to this but you get caught out no matter how good you try just the same. This has much more to do with woman and there confidence and self image than it does with whenever men want to fuck em. Over time you get much better at spotting the fakers and once angry about it you start to feel sorry that so manyoman are scared to show themselves as they are. Here's to the big sexy ladies, just be honest cause there is nothing worse than turning up at a meet and finding a random person that looks nothing at all like there photos. You think? I used to have "large" as the body type on my profile, because I am, and I'd get at least two messages a day telling me I was wrong and should change it (I did, to shut people up). If you've been repeatedly "deceived" by all those clever angles I would have thought you'd have worked out what they are by now... Jeez your very angry and taking things personally. And also weirdly seem to be stalking me. As I've made about 3 forum posts in the past 4 months that's odd you should remember one if them. I can't speak for what men doon here and lie about only the 100s of woman's profiles I've looked at and the about 100 online woman I have net from various sites. I'm entitled to my opinion and I'm insulting no-one unless you see yourself as one of those fakers Since he admitted in here that his standard procedure is "pump and dump" and he can often barely stand to be with a woman long enough to fuck her, I doubt he's being entirely honest with anyone he chats to either. Him misleading women is probably different though." | |||
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I've been looking at and buying clothes online. Right now US sizes are 2 sizes smaller than the UK, not sure what's going on but a size 10 here is a size 6 there.
It's actually hard work finding the right size clothes online tbh and i go off the re_iews if there's no size guide."We (Americans) do it because we eat too much and we still like to feel good about ourselves. The easiest thing to do is to tell everyone they are two sizes smaller than they are. And we are all OK with that Apparently sizes are smaller here in the UK than on the continent too (like in France), so we are all guilty.
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I've been looking at and buying clothes online. Right now US sizes are 2 sizes smaller than the UK, not sure what's going on but a size 10 here is a size 6 there.
It's actually hard work finding the right size clothes online tbh and i go off the re_iews if there's no size guide.
We (Americans) do it because we eat too much and we still like to feel good about ourselves. The easiest thing to do is to tell everyone they are two sizes smaller than they are. And we are all OK with that Apparently sizes are smaller here in the UK than on the continent too (like in France), so we are all guilty.
No worries here though! I still like my ice cream. If I start feeling fat I'll go back to the US and buy my clothes there.
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-CourtneyAh yes I never know u was from the states, is it just u or ur partner or both?
Maybe one day, I'll meet you behind that bush and you can find out for yourself But yes, its both of us..
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I've been looking at and buying clothes online. Right now US sizes are 2 sizes smaller than the UK, not sure what's going on but a size 10 here is a size 6 there.
It's actually hard work finding the right size clothes online tbh and i go off the re_iews if there's no size guide.
We (Americans) do it because we eat too much and we still like to feel good about ourselves. The easiest thing to do is to tell everyone they are two sizes smaller than they are. And we are all OK with that Apparently sizes are smaller here in the UK than on the continent too (like in France), so we are all guilty.
No worries here though! I still like my ice cream. If I start feeling fat I'll go back to the US and buy my clothes there.
-Courtney"I suppose us in the UK must be bigger than the rest of europe then? I'm a UK 14 and plus size now i shop online, not that bothered coz i know i'm not slim, and i cut the labels out of everything anyway coz they annoy my skin. | |||
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-CourtneyAh yes I never know u was from the states, is it just u or ur partner or both?
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link. people with mental health are more likely to carry extra weight as many tablets used to control a lot of mental health problems are renowned for weight gain How come there are so many tablets which make people gain weight but none which make people loose weight" There are but we know what you mean | |||
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link. people with mental health are more likely to carry extra weight as many tablets used to control a lot of mental health problems are renowned for weight gain How come there are so many tablets which make people gain weight but none which make people loose weight" Because your body combats toxins using your fat cells. Plus getting ill usually puts you off eating, or you might not be moving about as much because you don't have mania any more, all kinds of stuff really. | |||
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"I don't believe the average is size 16. It certainly shouldn't be anyway. I believe in usa its a lot higher. As an American, I am hurt that you dragged us into this Shag! Besides, we have perfected the art of changing the relative meaning of dress sizes. For example, in the UK, I am about a size 8/10. In the US, I was a solid 6. Beat that for false advertizing!
-Courtney Its all those big mac,s from ronald mac donald and french fries..
I've been looking at and buying clothes online. Right now US sizes are 2 sizes smaller than the UK, not sure what's going on but a size 10 here is a size 6 there.
It's actually hard work finding the right size clothes online tbh and i go off the re_iews if there's no size guide.
We (Americans) do it because we eat too much and we still like to feel good about ourselves. The easiest thing to do is to tell everyone they are two sizes smaller than they are. And we are all OK with that Apparently sizes are smaller here in the UK than on the continent too (like in France), so we are all guilty.
No worries here though! I still like my ice cream. If I start feeling fat I'll go back to the US and buy my clothes there.
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course!
And it's always "just a question" based on "an observation" and is "perfectly reasonable". And anyone getting upset by it clearly has issues. It can't be that actually there is something wrong with these types of posts, (or the frequency of these posts), oh no, no, no.
And yet, to say to begin with that one knows it will upset some, and to post it anyway...
I don't think I need to elaborate. I'll just say there are far worse things to be than a fat woman."I never said being a big girl was bad, I just said that a lot of fab women are on the big side. I just wondered if it was cos people, men as well as women are getting bigger or is there some correlation between larger ladies and swinging. If you chose to take that as a personal affront. It's entirely your right to be offended. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course!
Dunno, it comes across as an ok question to ask and he hasn't made any hint of slagging them off. Plus has veris from someone large too.
He's probably just bored or genuinely interested.
Just because some guys don't want to get with large women doesn't mean all topics about them are to have a go at them.
Womens bodies have always been subjects of vanity, it's the way society is. i even made a topic about this weeks ago asking if men ever feel neglected by society because everything is always about women and not men.
I agree, I think its a subject just like any other one in the forums.
The OP has kept posting, interacting & had banter directed at him too, all in good humour as far as I can tell.
"I try to post genuinely with out malice, I haven't set out to offend with this thread tho I'm perfectly aware that there is the possibility that some might be. I'm I shortarsed chubby old baldy, I dont get upset when ever these attributes are openly disgussed. And to say that men don't feel pressure over the way they appear is untrue I take a lot of time and effort to try and look trim and presentable. | |||
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Please PM me; I need truckloads of 'em sliming type mental illness tablets "Clenbuterol. DNP (You'll likely die or develop cataracts) Ephedrine, caffeine, asprin mix. (Eca) Various thyroid hormones that I can't remember the names off. There's quote a lot of effective weight loss medications but they tend to have a lot of risks based on how the work. DNP for instance is a brilliant sheds er of weight as it ruins your bodies ability to produce ATP efficiently but the excess energy is wasted as heat and there's no feedback loop to control it so take too much and you overheat and die. When it was legal there were a fair few deaths as people went "wow I'm losing so much weight if I double the dose I'll lose even more!!" | |||
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"I think people seem reflective of our population at large, with some incredible people and physiques all around. If I could change one thing, it would be for everyone to be confident as they are." | |||
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Dunno, it comes across as an ok question to ask and he hasn't made any hint of slagging them off. Plus has veris from someone large too.
He's probably just bored or genuinely interested.
Just because some guys don't want to get with large women doesn't mean all topics about them are to have a go at them.
Womens bodies have always been subjects of vanity, it's the way society is. i even made a topic about this weeks ago asking if men ever feel neglected by society because everything is always about women and not men.
I agree, I think its a subject just like any other one in the forums.
The OP has kept posting, interacting & had banter directed at him too, all in good humour as far as I can tell.
I try to post genuinely with out malice, I haven't set out to offend with this thread tho I'm perfectly aware that there is the possibility that some might be.
I'm I shortarsed chubby old baldy, I dont get upset when ever these attributes are openly disgussed.
And to say that men don't feel pressure over the way they appear is untrue I take a lot of time and effort to try and look trim and presentable. "Great point. People often forget that we are all human. Men feel pressure over the way they look too. They just rarely voice it because they get shouted down by females.... | |||
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"It seems to me, and I'm not being critical this is just an observation but the majority or ladies (can't speak for the men) seem to be shall we say full bodied here on fab. Now why is this, is it because people in the UK are on average getting bigger. Or is it a swinging thing, in that bigger girls happen to be more broad minded and adventurous. Might get some flack for this post but I'm genuinely interested in replys " I can speak from experience being someone who was 27 stone and on the swinging scene. I would never even think of going to a pub and trying to chat up a bloke in order to get sex. But we all have needs coming on to a site like this you pretty much have control over what happens. There are so many men on here looking for sex I don't think most are fussy. Yes you do get bbw admirers.. I met close to the 200 men and all were fit worked out in the gym. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course!
And it's always "just a question" based on "an observation" and is "perfectly reasonable". And anyone getting upset by it clearly has issues. It can't be that actually there is something wrong with these types of posts, (or the frequency of these posts), oh no, no, no.
And yet, to say to begin with that one knows it will upset some, and to post it anyway...
I don't think I need to elaborate. I'll just say there are far worse things to be than a fat woman."Just because something upsets someone doesn't mean it shouldn't get posted. I'm getting rather bored of this generation of offended people expecting others to walk on egg shells in case they offend someone. Being offended is not terminal, people wont die of it. | |||
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"I've noticed there are quite a few posts made by men who've "noticed" this. There are far fewer posts on the fairly significant number of "athletic" men who are definitely not, and "average" men who seem a bit confused about what "average" build means. Fab has its fair share of men who ain't exactly slim too. Funny how the comments are nearly always about the women though. These types of threads always a "subtle" dig: usually after the op has been rejected by a heffalump. I'm sure the op is the exception to that rule of course!
And it's always "just a question" based on "an observation" and is "perfectly reasonable". And anyone getting upset by it clearly has issues. It can't be that actually there is something wrong with these types of posts, (or the frequency of these posts), oh no, no, no.
And yet, to say to begin with that one knows it will upset some, and to post it anyway...
I don't think I need to elaborate. I'll just say there are far worse things to be than a fat woman.
Just because something upsets someone doesn't mean it shouldn't get posted.
I'm getting rather bored of this generation of offended people expecting others to walk on egg shells in case they offend someone. Being offended is not terminal, people wont die of it. " | |||
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Please PM me; I need truckloads of 'em sliming type mental illness tablets
Clenbuterol.
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Ephedrine, caffeine, asprin mix. (Eca)
Various thyroid hormones that I can't remember the names off.
There's quote a lot of effective weight loss medications but they tend to have a lot of risks based on how the work.
DNP for instance is a brilliant sheds er of weight as it ruins your bodies ability to produce ATP efficiently but the excess energy is wasted as heat and there's no feedback loop to control it so take too much and you overheat and die.
When it was legal there were a fair few deaths as people went "wow I'm losing so much weight if I double the dose I'll lose even more!!"
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"I love this thread for many reasons. Firstly the assumption that larger ladies have low self esteem. Body confidence is within and not helped by threads like this. If you don't like what you see move on. You may find the ladies on here larger than you expected. I'm finding the majority of men (not all) shallower that I ever though possible. Delusional to the point of offensive and ride. I just hope I raise my two sons to see others for what they are inside (rant over)! " I never mentioned self esteem in my original post, I'm not saying being full bodied is either good or bad, I'm also not suggesting that if you are on the larger side you should feel bad. I was simply pointing out that from my observations the female population of fab is some what curvy. Then I was asking for discussion as to why this was. Whether it was representative of the country as a whole or if there was a correlation between being curvy and extra open minded. This thread is not intended to be a dig, I'm not feeling resentful because I'm struggling to meet people, I'm not being judgemental and the last thing I am is delusional, shallow and I hope rude | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. " Most professional body builders are short too. A tall guy requires hugely more mass to get the same size look which is very hard to get/maintain. | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. Most professional body builders are short too. A tall guy requires hugely more mass to get the same size look which is very hard to get/maintain. " Yep, well look at Jay Cutler, phil Heath, Kai green, all under 5'9! | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. " It's almost like they are trying to make the best of themselves, this post illustrates perfectly what I was saying about pressure on appearance isn't just limited to women. Fair enough you have your preference and I'm not criticising you for that. But think about the amount of time and effort these guys have gone through to get in shape. Hours and hours of gym work along with strictly controlled diets. | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. Most professional body builders are short too. A tall guy requires hugely more mass to get the same size look which is very hard to get/maintain. Yep, well look at Jay Cutler, phil Heath, Kai green, all under 5'9 !" Kai looked so much better in his predator days before he became just another mass monster | |||
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"What ever happened to a bit of connection with the person. You ll either like the person or u won't - through a bit of chatting and pics shown. Be it big - small / fat or skinny If your comfortable with the shape then to hell what everyone else things. " There's enough people On here that you can be picky and select those who you both have a connection with and like the look of. I wouldn't settle for someone I found attractive physical but unattractive personally, and vis versa | |||
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"I think people understand the words are for description but yeah it's well easy to offend people, like don't call people older or milf.
Average size of UK women is a size 16 now so that probably does explain why more women are on the large side on here, just as there are more large women irl. I've been on a few fuck sites and only one of them seems to have not many BBW on it.
Average size used to be 12 not that long ago either"It did - about 20 years ago! Sadly it seems to be going up by one dress size per decade - hence the nhs's concerns! I'm a size 10 - have been most of my life (other than a 3year blip with an abusive ex when I put on 3 stone) - and hope to stay that way! Some larger ladies do look genuinely beautiful - but it really doesn't suit me! X | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. It's almost like they are trying to make the best of themselves, this post illustrates perfectly what I was saying about pressure on appearance isn't just limited to women. Fair enough you have your preference and I'm not criticising you for that. But think about the amount of time and effort these guys have gone through to get in shape. Hours and hours of gym work along with strictly controlled diets. "
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. It's almost like they are trying to make the best of themselves, this post illustrates perfectly what I was saying about pressure on appearance isn't just limited to women. Fair enough you have your preference and I'm not criticising you for that. But think about the amount of time and effort these guys have gone through to get in shape. Hours and hours of gym work along with strictly controlled diets.
I bet there won't be a deluge of angry women berating a post about men's appearance. Weird that.... "Don't worry scarlet we're men we can take criticism without losing our minds :p *funking runs for the bunker door* | |||
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I bet there won't be a deluge of angry women berating a post about men's appearance. Weird that.... "So what is the average body size of men on fab | |||
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I bet there won't be a deluge of angry women berating a post about men's appearance. Weird that....
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I bet there won't be a deluge of angry women berating a post about men's appearance. Weird that....
So what is the average body size of men on fab"To hairy :p *says the man with the nickname "fluffy" * | |||
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link. people with mental health are more likely to carry extra weight as many tablets used to control a lot of mental health problems are renowned for weight gain Are you implying that swingers are more likely to have mental health issues?" Mental health does come up here more often than normal however that may simply be because swingers tend to be more open in their communication than the average member of the population. But with 30% of people having a MH problem at some point with the majority being depression it will affect a significant amount of people. But then again it is control able it just takes will power and a good support network. I've got stretch marks all over from when I stared medication years ago going from 9 stone to 13 in just a few months but fortunately I got good help through the care workers and got it in check started to the gym and now despite being on the two highest risk medication for weight gain maintain a reasonably healthy weight (although my cholesterol keeps up at times) Support and someone being honest with you about weight not just bullshitting you that your not fat can do the world of good. | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. " Yeah i prefer a nice face so if they don't have one it's disappointing. I'm actually not fussy about body type though (apart from prefer tall) so long as their face is nice and no amount of improvement to their body will make someone facially unappealing more attractive to me. | |||
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"I find a lot of guys on here have absolutely banging bodies, have torso pics on their profile, then they send you a face picture and it's like oh right, never mind. It also seems like 70% of body builders are under 5'9 in height, it's like they can't physically do anything to be taller so they make themselves as bulked up and wide as they can. Also with guys that aren't that facially attractive, they'll overcompensate with their body to take attention away from their face. I like a guy that's over 5'10, with a beautiful little face, dark hair and big bushy eyebrows, doesn't have to be hugely muscly just not jiggly fat. Yeah i prefer a nice face so if they don't have one it's disappointing. I'm actually not fussy about body type though (apart from prefer tall) so long as their face is nice and no amount of improvement to their body will make someone facially unappealing more attractive to me." That's fair enough, we all like what we like | |||
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link. So basically all those who are overweight have mental health issues ???!! "did I say ALL.. | |||
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" Unless of course said chunkier male has the personality or intellect to pull it off a la Barry White, in which case he can actually do quite well. Barry White is on here? "I'm off to search for the Love Walrus | |||
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"I think mental health issues seem to be spoken about a lot and that in itself may lean more towards carrying extra weight, in turn lowers self esteem, may lead to lack of exercise. I think there is a correlation no data to back it up but my gut feel says there is a link. people with mental health are more likely to carry extra weight as many tablets used to control a lot of mental health problems are renowned for weight gain Are you implying that swingers are more likely to have mental health issues?" If your asking about my input then no, I never even mentioned swinging I'm just saying many medication used to control mental health issues are known to cause weight gain so a lot of people on these medications will carry extra weight again nothing to do with swinging but there is also a link between some mental health issues and promiscuity | |||
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