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By *acing pony OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Do women on here find it offensive if other members male r female add them to there hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women on here find it offensive if other members male r female add them to there hotlist "

er..they dont know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't add any of Putins women to my hotlist, he's a potentially dangerous man.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I'm not sure how it could be offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol no one would know if you got them on the hotlist

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

There's no way of knowing unless they specifically tell you.

Most people on my hotlist wouidnt want to know though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know if someone added me unless they tell me

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By *acing pony OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

He can be as dangerous as he wants along as he don't enter my and lol ,,, putting , Putn same thing

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By *acing pony OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I definitely would tell them before I did it , it's like if you see some women on here and you say to your self God she one fine looking women it's nice to look at them again

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I definitely would tell them before I did it , it's like if you see some women on here and you say to your self God she one fine looking women it's nice to look at them again"

I wouldn't be offended that you added me but messaging me to tell me would be daft. If you were interested then send a regular message see if you can get chatting. No point sending someone a message saying 'I'm adding you to my hotlist' (just my opinion mind)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist. "

Me too..

I might even push the boat out and go for Diamond next time. The things you can do and see with that...

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By *acing pony OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Can you tell me why you find it offensive is it that people looking over your pics

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I definitely would tell them before I did it , it's like if you see some women on here and you say to your self God she one fine looking women it's nice to look at them again

I wouldn't be offended that you added me but messaging me to tell me would be daft. If you were interested then send a regular message see if you can get chatting. No point sending someone a message saying 'I'm adding you to my hotlist' (just my opinion mind) "

Please ignore my message then HB

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Can you tell me why you find it offensive is it that people looking over your pics "

No one said it was offensive did they? Not seriously snyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist.

Me too..

I might even push the boat out and go for Diamond next time. The things you can do and see with that..."

Only Diamond members can see my pics and profile text.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I definitely would tell them before I did it , it's like if you see some women on here and you say to your self God she one fine looking women it's nice to look at them again

I wouldn't be offended that you added me but messaging me to tell me would be daft. If you were interested then send a regular message see if you can get chatting. No point sending someone a message saying 'I'm adding you to my hotlist' (just my opinion mind)

Please ignore my message then HB "

ah still can't believe we haven't managed to meet after all these years! Must rectify that at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I don't know how anyone could be offended by someone liking them enough to put them on their hotlist,although it wouldn't surprise me if some on here did take offence at knowing

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I don't know how anyone could be offended by someone liking them enough to put them on their hotlist,although it wouldn't surprise me if some on here did take offence at knowing

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People on here have gotten offended at a lot less ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone could be offended by someone liking them enough to put them on their hotlist,although it wouldn't surprise me if some on here did take offence at knowing

"

I'm offended that you're not surprised that some people are offended.

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By *acing pony OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

It's a big hormonal train sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone could be offended by someone liking them enough to put them on their hotlist,although it wouldn't surprise me if some on here did take offence at knowing

I'm offended that you're not surprised that some people are offended. "

I'm offended.....just cos

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist.

Me too..

I might even push the boat out and go for Diamond next time. The things you can do and see with that...

Only Diamond members can see my pics and profile text. "

That's swung it, definitely getting diamond next time. Always wondered what you look like and have heard you have good taste in boots.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I definitely would tell them before I did it , it's like if you see some women on here and you say to your self God she one fine looking women it's nice to look at them again

I wouldn't be offended that you added me but messaging me to tell me would be daft. If you were interested then send a regular message see if you can get chatting. No point sending someone a message saying 'I'm adding you to my hotlist' (just my opinion mind)

Please ignore my message then HB

ah still can't believe we haven't managed to meet after all these years! Must rectify that at some point "

* Nods * We certainly should. X

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Can you tell me why you find it offensive is it that people looking over your pics "

It was said with tongue firmly in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist.

Me too..

I might even push the boat out and go for Diamond next time. The things you can do and see with that...

Only Diamond members can see my pics and profile text.

That's swung it, definitely getting diamond next time. Always wondered what you look like and have heard you have good taste in boots. "

People are always mistaking me for Robbie Coltrane. My wellies are legendary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist. "
Are you sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this is the one thing on here no one could possibly be offended by?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being the dumb newbie what is the hot list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this is the one thing on here no one could possibly be offended by? "

I'm offended you think that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone could be offended by someone liking them enough to put them on their hotlist,although it wouldn't surprise me if some on here did take offence at knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone could be offended by someone liking them enough to put them on their hotlist,although it wouldn't surprise me if some on here did take offence at knowing

"

I don`t see a problem, if you like someones pics, surely it`s compliment,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this is the one thing on here no one could possibly be offended by?

I'm offended you think that."

I'm offended you would dare tell me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this is the one thing on here no one could possibly be offended by? "

Hmmmm...well I add some people I think are twats..its a great way of keeping track of people..

I dont think they'd like WHY they are on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the humour on this thread made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't add any of Putins women to my hotlist, he's a potentially dangerous man."
lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't add any of Putins women to my hotlist, he's a potentially dangerous man. lmao "

Quality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this is the one thing on here no one could possibly be offended by?

Hmmmm...well I add some people I think are twats..its a great way of keeping track of people..

I dont think they'd like WHY they are on my hotlist"

Am I on your hotlist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being the dumb newbie what is the hot list?"

There's an option on people's profiles where you can add their profile to your hotlist. They don't know you added them to it.

Some people add profiles to their hotlist because they like their pics.. or because they want to meet them one day... or because the profile seems dodgy... many reasons.

You click on your hotlist and you can see all the people you added to it.

I realise I am utter shit at describing things and I apologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really offensive. So I paid for the Platinum upgrade so now people can't put me on their hotlist. Are you sure about that? "

You clicked on Friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this is the one thing on here no one could possibly be offended by?

Hmmmm...well I add some people I think are twats..its a great way of keeping track of people..

I dont think they'd like WHY they are on my hotlist

Am I on your hotlist? "

hahahah..depends...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks scarlet that made sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't offend me. If people message me about it i don't really care to know and ignore them, so they probably take me off it haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I definitely would tell them before I did it , it's like if you see some women on here and you say to your self God she one fine looking women it's nice to look at them again

I wouldn't be offended that you added me but messaging me to tell me would be daft. If you were interested then send a regular message see if you can get chatting. No point sending someone a message saying 'I'm adding you to my hotlist' (just my opinion mind) "

I've told a couple simply because the distance makes it unlikely that we'd ever meet. Just nice to tell them I suppose. Your right in that it's useless though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can generally tell if you are on somebody's hotlist as they are usually the first to fab any new pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use that feature as a short list of women I want to message, I'll go through profiles, and when I see someone I like, I put them on the hot list, then one by one I'll messge them, simple, it has little to do with pictures

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"There's no way of knowing unless they specifically tell you.

Most people on my hotlist wouidnt want to know though "

I would love to know, all that talent I'm missing out on

C...

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