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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Have you gained any self awareness whilst being a member here.

Have discovered a lot about self here, a real education.

Never thought I would go outside of my set in stone rules but breaking them has been well worth it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No... I am acutely self aware & I have changed a lot since using the site. Those changes I am very comfortable with.

I like the person I am and that is all that matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know. I guess that means I am not self aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I must admit I have

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By *rifteddevotteMan
over a year ago

western super mare

its a blessing finding that one partner that takes fantasy to high realistic state that grabs you and begs for more, its a magical moment that i shall cherish for the rest of my life

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I've learnt more about what I'm looking for and have a better sense of myself regarding swinging/sex.

I've also learnt I'm capable of turning people down if I don't think we would be suitable.

Also the people you are most interested in are never anywhere near you

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I know i have and long may it continue xxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've learned the type of message a guy will send when he really doesn't wan to meet (and vice versa), and I've learned that club meets are definitely more my thing

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

definately..loving the journey and the processes great question btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im much more confident in myself and comfortable in my own skin more than ever. Being single for 2 years and being on here has been the best thing I have ever done for myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt my idiot tolerance is far lower than I ever imagined

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green


"I've learned the type of message a guy will send when he really doesn't wan to meet (and vice versa), and I've learned that club meets are definitely more my thing "
Yep, club meets for me as well.You get judged on yo as a whole and not just your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt that I enjoy going to a certain club it's socal, with the hint of something a little extra.

Also found I have broken my own rules, well they are there to be broken after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im way more confident than i ever was before - have a great sex life i never had before - made great friends and feel so damn sexy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm more open to other people's _iews and opinions but I've never had the opportunity for so many people to offer their _iews and opinions before anyway.

Im more sexually adventurous than I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive learnt my idiot tolerance is far lower than I ever imagined "

I've learnt that some people don't know how to spell tolarence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realised how lucky I am

Even before the internet I could meet women . I see the posts from guys asking advice who are better looking and younger who can't get a girl and I can do it at twice their age without going on the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have learned that I got patience and that I like to interact on the forum discussions. Which is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed my socks and now wear yellow ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised how lucky I am

Even before the internet I could meet women . I see the posts from guys asking advice who are better looking and younger who can't get a girl and I can do it at twice their age without going on the net "

Didn't you meet your other half on a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised how lucky I am

Even before the internet I could meet women . I see the posts from guys asking advice who are better looking and younger who can't get a girl and I can do it at twice their age without going on the net

Didn't you meet your other half on a dating site? "

No at a gay bar on a blind date

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thank you for your comments peep

S x

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I've realised my sense of humour is a tad harsher than I thought .

I've also learnt that swingers are very very serious people .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learn to embrace the fact that i'm a filthy,dirty fucker,and that it's ok...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you gained any self awareness whilst being a member here.

Have discovered a lot about self here, a real education.

Never thought I would go outside of my set in stone rules but breaking them has been well worth it. "

Certainly we have both found out we are way more open and tolerant than we thought we were .

We've also become more confident sexually and didn't realise how much other people would like us in a sexual way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to bring your A game in comparison to normal vanilla world sexual encounters ..lol

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I've learned I dislike the term vanilla when describe sex.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I've had to add a LOT more things to my bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing myself in others, even ones that annoy me, I think " what a berk", then realise I do the same,lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I think generally it has been a journey of self improvement.

In particular the speed in which I select my victims, abduct, murder and harvest their skin to make lampshades has vastly improved.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I think generally it has been a journey of self improvement.

In particular the speed in which I select my victims, abduct, murder and harvest their skin to make lampshades has vastly improved. "

Skin lampshades are so last century Funky...mason jars of eyeballs are the way forward

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I think generally it has been a journey of self improvement.

In particular the speed in which I select my victims, abduct, murder and harvest their skin to make lampshades has vastly improved.

Skin lampshades are so last century Funky...mason jars of eyeballs are the way forward "

You can have mine for your industrious efforts Blonde Caz, they don't work anyhow

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I think generally it has been a journey of self improvement.

In particular the speed in which I select my victims, abduct, murder and harvest their skin to make lampshades has vastly improved.

Skin lampshades are so last century Funky...mason jars of eyeballs are the way forward "

I'll send you all the eyes in future.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I'll send you all the eyes in future."

You can see into the future? fuck self awareness, what a party trick!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nope, I've mostly discovered that I know myself pretty damn well already!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I'll send you all the eyes in future.

You can see into the future? fuck self awareness, what a party trick!

"

It's not technically seeing into the future when you own a time machine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've realised something about myself that is possibly life changing, but I'm not sure if it's a real desire or just the nature of the site.

I've realised that there are a lot of real submisive women on here.

I've realised that although I respect other people's oppinion, I don't give a shit what anyone thinks about me,

And finally cock pics are boring but tits never get old

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