FabSwingers.com forum: MFM - Guys do you feel any competition?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When having a threesome, guys do you feel any kind of competition, like hoping you've got the bigger cock, more toned body, or even jealous or nervous that you might not last as long as the other guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't as I don't attend mfm's lol.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"When having a threesome, guys do you feel any kind of competition, like hoping you've got the bigger cock, more toned body, or even jealous or nervous that you might not last as long as the other guy?

No, not really. When teaming up with the right kind of guy and sharing the right kind of woman its all about jointly pleasuring her for me. As long as I am doing what I normally do (which can incluse an whole array of things

) and am sensing that she is enjoying it then I'm perfectly happy. If the other guy is doing the same then he should be too...and hopefully she will be in heaven

Comparing bodies or cocks doesn't come into it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

) and am sensing that she is enjoying it then I'm perfectly happy. If the other guy is doing the same then he should be too...and hopefully she will be in heaven

Comparing bodies or cocks doesn't come into it for me."

Same here, but I'm not sure what I'd be like if I was finished way before the other guy, and Mrs was being pleasured by him for ages after

lool

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope, not in the slightest. I'm always hugely overjoyed to be included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I get off on seeing her at work and watching her repertoire of skills being used knowing exactly how it feels. Don't really think of competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about another scenario, you can't cum!

Fuck for ages, wank and bj but still not able to get the bastard to cum

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How about another scenario, you can't cum!

Fuck for ages, wank and bj but still not able to get the bastard to cum

I wish!

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

Don't be silly, everyone can enjoy at their own pace. If you are talking about finishing and then off home, it may be a prob for you. Over a period of several hours, a glass of wine and start all over. Now that's what I like!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Nope, not in the slightest. I'm always hugely overjoyed to be included. "

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

"How about another scenario, you can't cum!

Fuck for ages, wank and bj but still not able to get the bastard to cum

Shouldn't be a problem if you remain hard - just keep on going, the ladies will love you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remaining hard can be a problem if I have had a beer or 5 haha

Best to only have one or two for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily for me quite alot of the time I can hold my bell end above high water in the cock straining stakes as apparently it's quite thick and satisfying LOL. However fair do's bigger cocks are waved in front of Mrs N's face and I have seen that dirty smile cross her face when you just know she is looking forward to that bigger, longer, thicker more powerful thing of great beauty between her legs.

She tries to pretend she's not desperate for it but then I ask her the question if she'd like to fuck that new cock that has briefly entered our sex lives and almost invariably she says mmmmmmm yes please. Hey I'm very happy for her to enjoy it. Yes I do envy the guy and wonder what it's like to have a big dick. What must it be like to enjoy those moments when you undrape and show off her new friend LOL.

I do hope we carry on doing it for many years to come but fear the party is nearly over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, if this is the case I would suggest abstaining until you can come to terms with these worries - as being worried about such things is only going to make things worse.

Concentrate on the positives. Enjoyment etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off subject but when on of you is in her mouth and the other taking her from behind. The lady makes a great coffee table and conveniently wipe clean

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not especially - hopefully the other guy is willing to bend to me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly off subject but when on of you is in her mouth and the other taking her from behind. The lady makes a great coffee table and conveniently wipe clean"

Brilliant!

I now have a vision in my head of a woman being spit-roasted with a couple of Mugs and a plate of biscuits on her back

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No competition in the slightest, in fact I hope he does a good job on her, and I can just enhance the experience for her.

That's of course in an mmf with my wife, if with someone else then I'd be busier of course, but no competitive aspect, it's a group experience to be enjoyed by everyone there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say that ive ever felt any pressure, the main thing is everyones happy and having a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 3 mmf and hated the first 2 for just this reason. Stopped them after 5 minutes. The last one however was a dream come true as both guys were friends and there was no one upmanship at all. But then they were Americans and i find them a lot less full of bluff an bluster sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met couples before and we usually meet socially first . Set any boundaries and if you can all laugh joke and get on socially it helps for more intimate fun .

To be honest I dont look at the other guys willy too much or worry about it as I am more than confident in myself and my willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I played at a club was a mfm. I am fairly confident and the other guy was smaller than me in build, but when we got undressed he was built like a horse, think the black porn star mandingo. It completely put me off as I thought I cant compare to that.

But I have since learnt different women want different things from a threesome and size is one factor. If a threesome was an olympic event it is not sprint one event one man against another. In my _iew properly done it is a team event made up of different disciplines with a personality thrown in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I actually hope he's bigger than me, better body, etc cos I want him too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I'm concerned it's not a competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as long as everybody is having fun what does it matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I more or less wishing the guy wasn't ever there, but I don't care either way

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Not especially - hopefully the other guy is willing to bend to me as well.

Pretty much same here. Doesn't even bother me if any of us DO flag a little. Take a break, or sit back & enjoy watching (even if it is the gal, & the lads are willing) so everyone gets a turn at enjoying fun & new experiences. It's not a competition or a performance... it's fun between friends who feel comfortable together. Just enjoy.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Nah, I more or less wishing the guy wasn't ever there, but I don't care either way"

Out of curiousity...If your wishing the other male wasn't there. Why be involved in a MMF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

(Would quite like a bigger one now and again though)

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

Not a bit. Far to busy enjoying the occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Majority of the time I'm the 3rd meeting with a couple, and in my mind the other guy is bound to be great to his wife/girlfriend and knows how her body and mind work, there really is no comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not especially - hopefully the other guy is willing to bend to me as well.

Bi MMF is much more fun.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Not especially - hopefully the other guy is willing to bend to me as well.

Bi MMF is much more fun. "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

interesting thread...

so if i was to ask for one, would you prefer to meet as three singles or,

be invited to play with a couple who know each other first,

or know the lady yourself

or something else?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"interesting thread...

so if i was to ask for one, would you prefer to meet as three singles or,

be invited to play with a couple who know each other first,

or know the lady yourself

or something else?

Nice twist. Mine have all been 3 singles.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"interesting thread...

so if i was to ask for one, would you prefer to meet as three singles or,

be invited to play with a couple who know each other first,

or know the lady yourself

or something else?

Nice twist. Mine have all been 3 singles. "

like on a spontaneous night out, or planned?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Almost had a mmf in a club once. Wasnt my other halfs idea of fun so he went off halfway thru... Not impressed. Am going to have to find 2 willing males next time i want to have another go at fulfilling this fantasy...

Note to self, when next in a ffm with the other half get up & walk out halfway thru

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Almost had a mmf in a club once. Wasnt my other halfs idea of fun so he went off halfway thru... Not impressed. Am going to have to find 2 willing males next time i want to have another go at fulfilling this fantasy...

Note to self, when next in a ffm with the other half get up & walk out halfway thru

may i ask, what you think he did that for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's a race.

I always win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it's a race.

I always win."

*snigger*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, think any guy who says he isn't self conscious in any way is telling fibs. It's natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it's a race.

I always win.

*snigger*"
na I'm more last man standing kind off guy lol ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one up to now, I enjoyed it but as it was my first one I watched them more then joining in, I would/will be more involved the next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'm the one with the big cock and toned body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really just see it as a team building exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do this with a lady I knew well. It would be about her, not me, and I'm comfortable enough in myself to think that I would be absolutely fine.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I never feel any envy or anything, as long as we are all enjoying it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd do this with a lady I knew well. It would be about her, not me, and I'm comfortable enough in myself to think that I would be absolutely fine. "

Oh and lady in question, you know who you are, so there's an offer for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im addicted to mfm

comparing has never crossed my mind, if a bloke is bigger is nice to see her struggle

I think if i was worried about how others compare to me i wouldnt enjoy mfm

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Note to self, when next in a ffm with the other half get up & walk out halfway thru

may i ask, what you think he did that for?"

He much prefers 1-2-1 action. I think he was bored... In my honest opinion.

If i had expressed a desire for it i am sure he would have stayed but it wasnt really his thing

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind doing some Mfm not really done it for a while .

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Note to self, when next in a ffm with the other half get up & walk out halfway thru

may i ask, what you think he did that for?

He much prefers 1-2-1 action. I think he was bored... In my honest opinion.

If i had expressed a desire for it i am sure he would have stayed but it wasnt really his thing

Mrs _d40"

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