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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it applies to all men. Some men would.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?"

For some men, certainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not.

Some will, some won't.

Some women will, some won't.

Too much generalisation on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to believe they wouldn't just fuck anybody but it all depends on the guy I suppose. Some guys are opportunistic shaggers, some guys have high sex drives, some guys can take it or leave it. Some guys will only sleep with people they find attractive.

When I rejoined and didn't have any pictures I still had messages off guys asking to meet and they had no idea what I looked like. Those are the guys I'd avoid.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't think it's just men women do it also

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Imo it's relative to success, we have an inbuilt need to breed but some have a better hold on it than others.

If you're not that bothered about getting some you won't feel the need to fuck anything which is generally how I am.

If you want lots and get it, no danger there.

But... If you want lots but get none I can see how you would drop your typical standards for the sake of a shag, I'll admit if I got just the right combination of horny/d*unk enough I'd probably fuck anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course not.

Some will, some won't.

Some women will, some won't.

Too much generalisation on here!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we won't! Well, I won't... very choosy (you can imagine how hard I find it on here!!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem."
Even Hitler?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.Even Hitler?"

That would be necrophilia which is disgusting

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

I like to think i have standards and not as low..

However i also believe that us guys are just wired through evolution to be oppotunists if the circumstances present themselfs...

Primal motives will envelope a more balanced approach....

I often feel the most obvious example is perceived straight guys in custodial institutions.... who often seccumb to ones basic needs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?"

Food blenders can be tricky though brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's just men women do it also "

..thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.

Even Hitler?"

If his necrophiliac penis was the only one available for the rest of time then possibly.

That's how bad sex addiction is, any cock will do if you want one badly enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"I'd like to believe they wouldn't just fuck anybody but it all depends on the guy I suppose. Some guys are opportunistic shaggers, some guys have high sex drives, some guys can take it or leave it. Some guys will only sleep with people they find attractive.

When I rejoined and didn't have any pictures I still had messages off guys asking to meet and they had no idea what I looked like. Those are the guys I'd avoid. "

I find your _iews very valid.

Personally I haven't got a physical type, I like to believe the type that interest me are the ones that I find that can stimulate the mind, with wit, and who are flirtatious. Who don't need to say look at me, aren't I appealing

How many times I see a profile with all akimbo, basically saying, shag me, fick me, and leave me.

Yes I have flirted with a blank canvas (profiles) and unearthed a little masterpiece

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to be a connection physical and emotional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imo it's relative to success, we have an inbuilt need to breed but some have a better hold on it than others.

If you're not that bothered about getting some you won't feel the need to fuck anything which is generally how I am.

If you want lots and get it, no danger there.

But... If you want lots but get none I can see how you would drop your typical standards for the sake of a shag, I'll admit if I got just the right combination of horny/d*unk enough I'd probably fuck anyone "

Tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.

Even Hitler?

If his necrophiliac penis was the only one available for the rest of time then possibly.

That's how bad sex addiction is, any cock will do if you want one badly enough."
O my I didn't know it could get you that bad?

Have you sort help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I wold shag anyone, but I do have a broad spectrum of what I find atractive, could be a smile, a nice ass, or even the way they carry themselves, I do have limits, I won't do bare backers, or women who are imature, pretty much anything else goes though

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Attraction can take many forms not just physical. The majority of people tend to see only the physical, however everyone has beauty, it might be their character, personality or attitude to life which attracts others.

None of us is perfect, look for that inner beauty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.

Even Hitler?

If his necrophiliac penis was the only one available for the rest of time then possibly.

That's how bad sex addiction is, any cock will do if you want one badly enough.O my I didn't know it could get you that bad?

Have you sort help?"

I don't need to fuck hitlers dead cock yet so it's all good.

I don't do stuff that's risky either. Am on top of it and sites like this help. Sometimes just talking about sex is enough too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.

Even Hitler?

If his necrophiliac penis was the only one available for the rest of time then possibly.

That's how bad sex addiction is, any cock will do if you want one badly enough.O my I didn't know it could get you that bad?

Have you sort help?

I don't need to fuck hitlers dead cock yet so it's all good.

I don't do stuff that's risky either. Am on top of it and sites like this help. Sometimes just talking about sex is enough too. "
Hitlers dead cock..................sounds like a punk band!

As long as you have it sorted!

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

When you see some of the holes reasonably fit guys on here have fucked, then I'd agree it defo applies to some. Some have standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In guy mode I'm stupendously fussy. It's not about looks. I have to connect with the lady.

In girl mode I'm not quite as fussy and once I'm getting it my standards collapse and I'll suck anything offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In guy mode I'm stupendously fussy. It's not about looks. I have to connect with the lady.

In girl mode I'm not quite as fussy and once I'm getting it my standards collapse and I'll suck anything offered "

Just spat tea down my nose reading that lol

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By *ave1977Man
over a year ago

Mid Cheshire


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?"

I wouldn't go as far as saying 'Fuck Anything' but its fair to say that Mens standards are slightly lower yeah, ie Men are less likely to say NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is probably more of a perception on here as there are so many men, and some who have admitted their standards on here are far lower than in their offline lives etc.

Personally, I just wouldn't be anything but fussy really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

Sometimes i've been that horny though that i would fuck just about anyone. But this is a sex addiction problem.

Even Hitler?

If his necrophiliac penis was the only one available for the rest of time then possibly.

That's how bad sex addiction is, any cock will do if you want one badly enough.O my I didn't know it could get you that bad?

Have you sort help?

I don't need to fuck hitlers dead cock yet so it's all good.

I don't do stuff that's risky either. Am on top of it and sites like this help. Sometimes just talking about sex is enough too. Hitlers dead cock..................sounds like a punk band!

As long as you have it sorted!"

I have. And when i feel like i'm not on top of it i just change how i am to counter that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a high percentage that would but for me there's a few things that come into it before you play and that works the same as most females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly yes. I have the messages to back this up. But then you're programmed that way and we're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with fab is the ratio of male to female...

It's like walking into a bar with 100 blokes and 3 women, unless your exactly what they're looking for you've got no chance!!

I get a fair amount of attention from females on the outside but they all want relationships and don't like nsa fun!! Hence why I'm on fab!! Despite being able to walk into a bar chat a bit and 8 times outta 10 leave with the women it's a totally different story online!!

Some blokes are brilliant behind a keyboard with the chat but when it gets to meeting face to face, or approaching a female in the flesh, they totally change character!!

I can see why so many males get pissed off with this site, sending out hundreds of emails and getting very few replies yet women sit there and receive countless emails a day, how many status have we read along the lines of " I can't keep up, bare with me guys" !! That's when standards start to fall and before you know it, you end up sleeping with someone you wouldn't look twice at in real life!!

Catch 22 isn't it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us. R is more choosy than I am. He definitely will not consider "anything". Only a select few catch his attention.

I'm just a tart though

Rach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would fuck anything. Its all about fucking by the numbers

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The problem with fab is the ratio of male to female...

It's like walking into a bar with 100 blokes and 3 women, unless your exactly what they're looking for you've got no chance!!

I get a fair amount of attention from females on the outside but they all want relationships and don't like nsa fun!! Hence why I'm on fab!! Despite being able to walk into a bar chat a bit and 8 times outta 10 leave with the women it's a totally different story online!!

Some blokes are brilliant behind a keyboard with the chat but when it gets to meeting face to face, or approaching a female in the flesh, they totally change character!!

I can see why so many males get pissed off with this site, sending out hundreds of emails and getting very few replies yet women sit there and receive countless emails a day, how many status have we read along the lines of " I can't keep up, bare with me guys" !! That's when standards start to fall and before you know it, you end up sleeping with someone you wouldn't look twice at in real life!!

Catch 22 isn't it!!

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would fuck anything. Its all about fucking by the numbers "
Shag spoken like a true Viking!

De vkings var en udda gäng verkar du fortfarande vill personifiera myten ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When I'm on the pull, I rather bank on this..

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Imo it's relative to success, we have an inbuilt need to breed but some have a better hold on it than others.

If you're not that bothered about getting some you won't feel the need to fuck anything which is generally how I am.

If you want lots and get it, no danger there.

But... If you want lots but get none I can see how you would drop your typical standards for the sake of a shag, I'll admit if I got just the right combination of horny/d*unk enough I'd probably fuck anyone

Tart "

I never denied it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In guy mode I'm stupendously fussy. It's not about looks. I have to connect with the lady.

In girl mode I'm not quite as fussy and once I'm getting it my standards collapse and I'll suck anything offered

Just spat tea down my nose reading that lol"

Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"we have an inbuilt need to breed but some have a better hold on it than others.

"

Do we now?

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide "
Is this just emotionless physical release?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide "

I shafted a watermelon in my desperate teen years, turned it in when the ants moved in though, not into S & M, lol,

I`m more picky these days. I only use cantaloupes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide

Is this just emotionless physical release?"

I'm sure it is but let's be honest a shag from somebody who's a member of the any holes a goal brigade and only after emotionless pysical release isn't going to be a forfilling experience for the woman is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide

Is this just emotionless physical release?

I'm sure it is but let's be honest a shag from somebody who's a member of the any holes a goal brigade and only after emotionless pysical release isn't going to be a forfilling experience for the woman is it"
That is my point. What good is the I came I cum and I went experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would fuck anything. Its all about fucking by the numbers Shag spoken like a true Viking!

De vkings var en udda gäng verkar du fortfarande vill personifiera myten ?"
Yes like a true viking there.

I wouldnt say an odd gang but a good one you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide

Is this just emotionless physical release?

I'm sure it is but let's be honest a shag from somebody who's a member of the any holes a goal brigade and only after emotionless pysical release isn't going to be a forfilling experience for the woman is it

That is my point. What good is the I came I cum and I went experience?"

I've enjoyed fuck and go type meets, do like quickies and used to have several a day so could fit sex in around my life.

Sometimes i even find longer meets boring, but not that often, just i'm impatient and got stuff to do so want them to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide

Is this just emotionless physical release?

I'm sure it is but let's be honest a shag from somebody who's a member of the any holes a goal brigade and only after emotionless pysical release isn't going to be a forfilling experience for the woman is it

That is my point. What good is the I came I cum and I went experience?

I've enjoyed fuck and go type meets, do like quickies and used to have several a day so could fit sex in around my life.

Sometimes i even find longer meets boring, but not that often, just i'm impatient and got stuff to do so want them to leave."
You old romantic you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys willing to meet me without seeing a face pic that suggests to me they will fuck anything

not all guys though some want to see every inch of you and talk for months before they decide

Is this just emotionless physical release?

I'm sure it is but let's be honest a shag from somebody who's a member of the any holes a goal brigade and only after emotionless pysical release isn't going to be a forfilling experience for the woman is it

That is my point. What good is the I came I cum and I went experience?

I've enjoyed fuck and go type meets, do like quickies and used to have several a day so could fit sex in around my life.

Sometimes i even find longer meets boring, but not that often, just i'm impatient and got stuff to do so want them to leave.

You old romantic you!"

Er yes i am, haha.

I am just using people for sex but don't mind chatting to them as well, suppose people have different agendas on here though. I get other needs fulfilled in different ways, like connection with other people (on here and irl) is never with sex. It's one thing my ex was romantic but i wasn't so it never really worked out, shame coz he was really nice but the way we showed out affection was too different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a quick meet would you orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it, if we haven't had any for months then I suppose qe would shag anything!

I can't deny I have done the same, my usual standards dropping considerably just so I can get my cock wet.

On the other hand, and staying sober I may not have made some od my choices, theresta few people I know that I would love to have some fun with, just waiting for the right time to see if they want to play too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse spelling mistakes! Damn phone on overdrive today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a quick meet would you orgasm?"

Yeah can do. Depends on his technique and if it's what i like, but i also use my own fingers too if i want to. Tbh i tend to prefer about 30 mins, but quicker than that can do it for me. Not many guys can make me want to cum more than once either but i've had a meet where one guy made me cum 4 times in a short time, i didn't even feel horny after the 1st cum so don't know how he managed it.

Depends on the guy really. If i find a guy i enjoy getting with i'll meet him again.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"The problem with fab is the ratio of male to female...

It's like walking into a bar with 100 blokes and 3 women, unless your exactly what they're looking for you've got no chance!!

I get a fair amount of attention from females on the outside but they all want relationships and don't like nsa fun!! Hence why I'm on fab!! Despite being able to walk into a bar chat a bit and 8 times outta 10 leave with the women it's a totally different story online!!

Some blokes are brilliant behind a keyboard with the chat but when it gets to meeting face to face, or approaching a female in the flesh, they totally change character!!

I can see why so many males get pissed off with this site, sending out hundreds of emails and getting very few replies yet women sit there and receive countless emails a day, how many status have we read along the lines of " I can't keep up, bare with me guys" !! That's when standards start to fall and before you know it, you end up sleeping with someone you wouldn't look twice at in real life!!

Catch 22 isn't it!!

"

Are there really guys sending out "hundreds of emails"?

Couldn't be bothered with all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose some men are like dogs ! There isn't a lamp post in my street that has not been pissed on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, would have chipped in earlier, but I was busy giving the sofa a damn good seeing-to.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some women are the same lol not all men do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that some men on here would sleep with anything makes some of the females think they are God's gift to men and turns them into nasty pieces of work.

I have a rule, if I wouldn't walk into my local with you and be seen sharing a drink then I won't sleep with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men do. I know some men I've met have only fucked me because they know I would because they're hot. Not because they find me particularly attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that some men on here would sleep with anything makes some of the females think they are God's gift to men and turns them into nasty pieces of work.

I have a rule, if I wouldn't walk into my local with you and be seen sharing a drink then I won't sleep with you."

That's ok I didn't want a shag anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men do. I know some men I've met have only fucked me because they know I would because they're hot. Not because they find me particularly attractive. "

No ive just had a squint at your pics, you are atractive, especially that lip biting pic, you have a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funny but is there aren't that many really good looking females on here, however a few pictures of boobs and pussys an blokes can't help them selves...

How many women on here that men have screwed would you actually introduce to your friends....

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Of course not.

Some will, some won't.

Some women will, some won't.

Too much generalisation on here!!"

Definitely some men AND some women will shag anything. It's something I can't personally get my head around. I've realised since being on fab that I'm way more fussy. I need a connection with a woman and a genuine attraction. I can't just do it with anyone just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny but is there aren't that many really good looking females on here, however a few pictures of boobs and pussys an blokes can't help them selves...

How many women on here that men have screwed would you actually introduce to your friends....

"

Is this why Marc never takes me out to the pub with his friends? I thought they were just all hideous and he didn't want me to see THEM.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny but is there aren't that many really good looking females on here, however a few pictures of boobs and pussys an blokes can't help them selves...

How many women on here that men have screwed would you actually introduce to your friends....

"

Call it cruel, but I love funny suicide notes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy ive met from here has met some of my friends. But then i dont have one off meets. My standards are the same on here as anywhere else.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Meeting me instead of some of the hottest women on here, is rock bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting me instead of some of the hottest women on here, is rock bottom "

I'd rock your bottom... Sorry, will get my coat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting me instead of some of the hottest women on here, is rock bottom "

Don't be reduculous. You are one of those hotties.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm a desperate man.I fix my feelings with sex..

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?"

I wouldn't, there has to be SOME chemistry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I start looking for guys to meet I'll look for ones that have been here ages but not yet met anyone. Hopefully they will be the ones that won't just shag anything and it's just a case of not yet found anyone they're willing to sleep with.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I believe they are similar, I just don't believe a lot of what is said as to the selection criteria of many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I start looking for guys to meet I'll look for ones that have been here ages but not yet met anyone. Hopefully they will be the ones that won't just shag anything and it's just a case of not yet found anyone they're willing to sleep with. "

Blimey, someone not fixated on veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some guys would absolutely fuck anything...just spend 5 mins in the chatroom and watch the hounds circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I start looking for guys to meet I'll look for ones that have been here ages but not yet met anyone. Hopefully they will be the ones that won't just shag anything and it's just a case of not yet found anyone they're willing to sleep with.

Blimey, someone not fixated on veri's "

This is like my 9th profile since 2011 and I've only ever met non verified guys, I know that people have sex off fab but I find 90% of the time a verification will put me off meeting someone, usually because they've met someone that looks a bit ropey.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes some guys would absolutely fuck anything...just spend 5 mins in the chatroom and watch the hounds circle."

Truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course not.

Some will, some won't.

Some women will, some won't.

Too much generalisation on here!!"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people say that they're sometimes slagging off who men have fucked.

I think people don't realise that many men and women have varied tastes and don't stick to one particular type, or their type might not be your stereotypical hunk.

..."

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"When I start looking for guys to meet I'll look for ones that have been here ages but not yet met anyone. Hopefully they will be the ones that won't just shag anything and it's just a case of not yet found anyone they're willing to sleep with.

Blimey, someone not fixated on veri's

This is like my 9th profile since 2011 and I've only ever met non verified guys, I know that people have sex off fab but I find 90% of the time a verification will put me off meeting someone, usually because they've met someone that looks a bit ropey. "

Lol. Excellent. I thought I was the only one

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

General answer: yes but is it not guys will fuck any thing women can be persuasive in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny but is there aren't that many really good looking females on here, however a few pictures of boobs and pussys an blokes can't help them selves...

How many women on here that men have screwed would you actually introduce to your friends....

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Different people are attracted to different qualities in a person, so your " good looking", may not appeal to another man, and visa versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone here would like to be classed as low standard. I'm not everyone's taste but I'm not 'low standard' define what 'fuck anything' means? Why do people have to be so rude about other people?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone here would like to be classed as low standard. I'm not everyone's taste but I'm not 'low standard' define what 'fuck anything' means? Why do people have to be so rude about other people?! "

I know you ring a lot of bells on here, mine included, everyone has a preference, it doesn`t mean anyone should be seen as less or more. To many people let the media dictate what is sexy and what is not. media can P-off!

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

When I was looking for a single man I was put off by the veri's if they met women or couples that appear to not be 'our type', meaning those we wouldn't socialise with (I know this sounds shallow but you can tell by how people live by photographs or how they carry themselves by how they talk on their profile). I don't care what anyone says there are some real ropey individuals on here (taking 'sexy' photos in a room littered with mess/children's toys/dirty carpets??)

I was also more attracted to the men who weren't pushy or those that came across as picky as me

Long live picky people with high standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was looking for a single man I was put off by the veri's if they met women or couples that appear to not be 'our type', meaning those we wouldn't socialise with (I know this sounds shallow but you can tell by how people live by photographs or how they carry themselves by how they talk on their profile). I don't care what anyone says there are some real ropey individuals on here (taking 'sexy' photos in a room littered with mess/children's toys/dirty carpets??)

I was also more attracted to the men who weren't pushy or those that came across as picky as me

Long live picky people with high standards!"
Quite agree! If we are categorising people we have not met then tattoos are just a big turn off for me?

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"When I was looking for a single man I was put off by the veri's if they met women or couples that appear to not be 'our type', meaning those we wouldn't socialise with (I know this sounds shallow but you can tell by how people live by photographs or how they carry themselves by how they talk on their profile). I don't care what anyone says there are some real ropey individuals on here (taking 'sexy' photos in a room littered with mess/children's toys/dirty carpets??)

I was also more attracted to the men who weren't pushy or those that came across as picky as me

Long live picky people with high standards!Quite agree! If we are categorising people we have not met then tattoos are just a big turn off for me?"

Exactly.......if that was meant as a dig I honestly agree with you ) everyone's different, we have tattoos and I would say most if not all of our friends have them, I suppose that's the 'type' we are

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Would just like to point out.......it's not about looks at all, it's more how someone presents themselves and what they're into.

For example I wouldn't meet someone who is into meeting in lay-bys or car parks.......even if they were a stunner!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Of course not.

Some will, some won't.

Some women will, some won't.

Too much generalisation on here!!"

This ^^^^^^

Plus what/who I find attractive someone will disagree. Doesn't mean my standards are better or lower just that they don't match someone else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all just a bunch of judgemental bastards at the end of the day. Be more open minded, judge less. Someone's sexual preference, where they like to have sex, or how many peope they've slept with has feck all to do with them as as person. As long as they're having safe sex. Leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would just like to point out.......it's not about looks at all, it's more how someone presents themselves and what they're into.

For example I wouldn't meet someone who is into meeting in lay-bys or car parks.......even if they were a stunner!"
That counts me out then as I haunt the lay bys of the A1..............!

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"We're all just a bunch of judgemental bastards at the end of the day. Be more open minded, judge less. Someone's sexual preference, where they like to have sex, or how many peope they've slept with has feck all to do with them as as person. As long as they're having safe sex. Leave them to it. "

That's exactly it, leave them to it......choosing who you want to play with isn't being judgemental, all life choices require making judgements about others and setting your own standards. It becomes wrong when you start slagging people off or telling them they're wrong for their preferences.......

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"The problem with fab is the ratio of male to female...

It's like walking into a bar with 100 blokes and 3 women, unless your exactly what they're looking for you've got no chance!!

I get a fair amount of attention from females on the outside but they all want relationships and don't like nsa fun!! Hence why I'm on fab!! Despite being able to walk into a bar chat a bit and 8 times outta 10 leave with the women it's a totally different story online!!

Some blokes are brilliant behind a keyboard with the chat but when it gets to meeting face to face, or approaching a female in the flesh, they totally change character!!

I can see why so many males get pissed off with this site, sending out hundreds of emails and getting very few replies yet women sit there and receive countless emails a day, how many status have we read along the lines of " I can't keep up, bare with me guys" !! That's when standards start to fall and before you know it, you end up sleeping with someone you wouldn't look twice at in real life!!

Catch 22 isn't it!!

This "

For some maybe.

Others are happy to be patient. Others simply wait for the messages to come in. Not every guy sends 100's of messages out.

What the fuck would you do if they all replied and said yes?

The 'scattergun' approach is never a good one.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all just a bunch of judgemental bastards at the end of the day. Be more open minded, judge less. Someone's sexual preference, where they like to have sex, or how many peope they've slept with has feck all to do with them as as person. As long as they're having safe sex. Leave them to it. "

Be more open minded, judge less.

As long as they're having safe sex.

Contradictory much....

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Would just like to point out.......it's not about looks at all, it's more how someone presents themselves and what they're into.

For example I wouldn't meet someone who is into meeting in lay-bys or car parks.......even if they were a stunner!That counts me out then as I haunt the lay bys of the A1..............!"

Yep, not for me ) don't take offence tho, we've already established I'm not for you with my tattoos)

We are socialisers, we like to party & have fun......those that meet for sex in lay-bys etc wouldn't be for us and no doubt we wouldn't be for them! Point is, whatever your standards are, you're free to stick to them without being made to feel bad for it, and finding others with similar standards who stick to them too is one of my standards

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"The problem with fab is the ratio of male to female...

It's like walking into a bar with 100 blokes and 3 women, unless your exactly what they're looking for you've got no chance!!

I get a fair amount of attention from females on the outside but they all want relationships and don't like nsa fun!! Hence why I'm on fab!! Despite being able to walk into a bar chat a bit and 8 times outta 10 leave with the women it's a totally different story online!!

Some blokes are brilliant behind a keyboard with the chat but when it gets to meeting face to face, or approaching a female in the flesh, they totally change character!!

I can see why so many males get pissed off with this site, sending out hundreds of emails and getting very few replies yet women sit there and receive countless emails a day, how many status have we read along the lines of " I can't keep up, bare with me guys" !! That's when standards start to fall and before you know it, you end up sleeping with someone you wouldn't look twice at in real life!!

Catch 22 isn't it!!

This

For some maybe.

Others are happy to be patient. Others simply wait for the messages to come in. Not every guy sends 100's of messages out.

What the fuck would you do if they all replied and said yes?

The 'scattergun' approach is never a good one.

A

"

Invest in a truck load of Viagra and have some ice on standby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all just a bunch of judgemental bastards at the end of the day. Be more open minded, judge less. Someone's sexual preference, where they like to have sex, or how many peope they've slept with has feck all to do with them as as person. As long as they're having safe sex. Leave them to it.

Be more open minded, judge less.

As long as they're having safe sex.

Contradictory much.... "

Yeah that's my only judgement lol which is small compared to others. I don't think anyone is interested in having unsafe sex. But then again...I'm sure some do. I didn't say I don't judge, I just said we should judge less.

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Oh and meeting people old enough to be my parents or young enough to be my child is another no no for me......my standards and I probably wouldn't meet with someone who had veri's from those age ranges, might be judgemental but it's up to me #soznotsoz (said with tongue firmly in cheek)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all just a bunch of judgemental bastards at the end of the day. Be more open minded, judge less. Someone's sexual preference, where they like to have sex, or how many peope they've slept with has feck all to do with them as as person. As long as they're having safe sex. Leave them to it.

Be more open minded, judge less.

As long as they're having safe sex.

Contradictory much....

Yeah that's my only judgement lol which is small compared to others. I don't think anyone is interested in having unsafe sex. But then again...I'm sure some do. I didn't say I don't judge, I just said we should judge less. "

Everyone judges.

Lots of people bareback. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all just a bunch of judgemental bastards at the end of the day. Be more open minded, judge less. Someone's sexual preference, where they like to have sex, or how many peope they've slept with has feck all to do with them as as person. As long as they're having safe sex. Leave them to it.

Be more open minded, judge less.

As long as they're having safe sex.

Contradictory much....

Yeah that's my only judgement lol which is small compared to others. I don't think anyone is interested in having unsafe sex. But then again...I'm sure some do. I didn't say I don't judge, I just said we should judge less.

Everyone judges.

Lots of people bareback. x"

I'd def leave them to it haha

I still wouldn't be rude about it or make someone feel bad for their choices. Only god can judge us, already secured my ticket to the fiery pits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The funny but is there aren't that many really good looking females on here, however a few pictures of boobs and pussys an blokes can't help them selves...

How many women on here that men have screwed would you actually introduce to your friends....

Lol

Call it cruel, but I love funny suicide notes... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?"

its normally a statement made from people who think they have some superiority over another.

Currently a friend is receiving mail, exclaiming that she's met me...me FFS!(as to why shouldnt she meet him)..

guess I'm below his expectations eh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?

its normally a statement made from people who think they have some superiority over another.

Currently a friend is receiving mail, exclaiming that she's met me...me FFS!(as to why shouldnt she meet him)..

guess I'm below his expectations eh... "

I had this exact same thing a few hours ago. A guy id met received a mail saying she wouldnt meet him as hed met me and blocked him. Apparently I meet too much..though alot are socially.

Strange as Id only been displaying one veri for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would just like to point out.......it's not about looks at all, it's more how someone presents themselves and what they're into.

For example I wouldn't meet someone who is into meeting in lay-bys or car parks.......even if they were a stunner!That counts me out then as I haunt the lay bys of the A1..............!

Yep, not for me ) don't take offence tho, we've already established I'm not for you with my tattoos)

We are socialisers, we like to party & have fun......those that meet for sex in lay-bys etc wouldn't be for us and no doubt we wouldn't be for them! Point is, whatever your standards are, you're free to stick to them without being made to feel bad for it, and finding others with similar standards who stick to them too is one of my standards "

I was being ironic about haunting the highways and byways of the A1

It is the A6!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?."

It's not how many you've fucked it's who you've fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?.

It's not how many you've fucked it's who you've fucked. "
That sounds like a JFK ism!

Ask not what you want to fuck but what the fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get around but if it is std free and makes me horny why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?.

It's not how many you've fucked it's who you've fucked. "

It's a swinging site FFS. Anyone that has sex with someone on this site is less than six degrees of separation from someone they don't like!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a statement I've read on here a few times, sometimes directly, often more implied - I'm curious as to whether or not people actually believe that male standards are as rock bottom as so many suggest?

its normally a statement made from people who think they have some superiority over another.

Currently a friend is receiving mail, exclaiming that she's met me...me FFS!(as to why shouldnt she meet him)..

guess I'm below his expectations eh... "

Probably jealous of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?.

It's not how many you've fucked it's who you've fucked. "

Agreed!

If I'm considering meeting someone I always look at their verifications to see who they've been with! If I'm unimpressed I don't meet them! X

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By *unseeker34Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?.

It's not how many you've fucked it's who you've fucked.

Agreed!

If I'm considering meeting someone I always look at their verifications to see who they've been with! If I'm unimpressed I don't meet them!

X"

Exactly this.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would it concern others if we fuck loads or not?.

It's not how many you've fucked it's who you've fucked.

Agreed!

If I'm considering meeting someone I always look at their verifications to see who they've been with! If I'm unimpressed I don't meet them! X"

hides veris...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it applies to all men. Some men would. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see some of the holes reasonably fit guys on here have fucked, then I'd agree it defo applies to some. Some have standards "

Omg. Lmao but omg

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive never been turned down..... go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive never been turned down..... go figure "

Not for me. Sorry

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"When you see some of the holes reasonably fit guys on here have fucked, then I'd agree it defo applies to some. Some have standards

Omg. Lmao but omg"

It was the, 'some of the holes' ...

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