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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has another lad or lass on here been led on by anyone on here

Arranging things being let down,

Agreeing times dates, being let down

Happened to me twice and I'm a wise old egg now, but I don't see point tbh, if u say u gonna meet

JUST MEET

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One time a guy 70 miles away asked for a meet, i pointed out he was too far away but he said he's travel so i agreed to meet him. According to GPS on here he actually travelled all the way up here then i messaged him asking how long he'd be and he blocked me. Was weird but whatever, he didn't have to meet me if he didn't want, i just thought it was weird he'd travel all that way for nothing so presumed he was on his way up here anyway and messing me about for fun.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not really, I have a finely tuned bullshit detector.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"One time a guy 70 miles away asked for a meet, i pointed out he was too far away but he said he's travel so i agreed to meet him. According to GPS on here he actually travelled all the way up here then i messaged him asking how long he'd be and he blocked me. Was weird but whatever, he didn't have to meet me if he didn't want, i just thought it was weird he'd travel all that way for nothing so presumed he was on his way up here anyway and messing me about for fun."

I'd wager he got so excited for the upcoming meet he cracked one off hoping to last longer but then lost his libido.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One time a guy 70 miles away asked for a meet, i pointed out he was too far away but he said he's travel so i agreed to meet him. According to GPS on here he actually travelled all the way up here then i messaged him asking how long he'd be and he blocked me. Was weird but whatever, he didn't have to meet me if he didn't want, i just thought it was weird he'd travel all that way for nothing so presumed he was on his way up here anyway and messing me about for fun.

I'd wager he got so excited for the upcoming meet he cracked one off hoping to last longer but then lost his libido. "

That made me laugh. Maybe he did?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


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I'd wager he got so excited for the upcoming meet he cracked one off hoping to last longer but then lost his libido.

That made me laugh. Maybe he did?

"

That's the only thing I can think of for a lot of the no shows, they fully intend to meet but get too excited at the upcoming nsa shag they end up not being able to keep their hands to themselves.

Same reason for the two pump chumps, by the time they get there they're ready to burst so can't last.

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Woman a few months ago messaged me and we chatted,she was new on the site so had no veris yet,said we would arrange a meet on saturday and she would get back to me on the day to arrange where & what time but she went offline on friday and did not come back online till monday evening!.

Have noticed the profile seems to come back on as a newby every month,no veris,offline every friday till monday evening or tuesday,is it a woman?,or a guy using a womans photos on a profile?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'd wager he got so excited for the upcoming meet he cracked one off hoping to last longer but then lost his libido.

That made me laugh. Maybe he did?

That's the only thing I can think of for a lot of the no shows, they fully intend to meet but get too excited at the upcoming nsa shag they end up not being able to keep their hands to themselves.

Same reason for the two pump chumps, by the time they get there they're ready to burst so can't last. "

Yes i get a lot of one minute wonders.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Woman a few months ago messaged me and we chatted,she was new on the site so had no veris yet,said we would arrange a meet on saturday and she would get back to me on the day to arrange where & what time but she went offline on friday and did not come back online till monday evening!.

Have noticed the profile seems to come back on as a newby every month,no veris,offline every friday till monday evening or tuesday,is it a woman?,or a guy using a womans photos on a profile?."

I'd suspect a TV/TS/CD using a woman's profile to be honest, liking the attention from being talked to as a woman but bottling the meets because it's still just fantasy for them.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


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Yes i get a lot of one minute wonders. "

You look like you have a pair of handcuffs somewhere so just chain em up till they're ready for round two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes i get a lot of one minute wonders.

You look like you have a pair of handcuffs somewhere so just chain em up till they're ready for round two "

Got an under the bed bondage kit lol, am sure some guys will let me use it.

It's not that bad really, most guys try again or do stuff to me. Dunno why i'm complaining for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One time a guy 70 miles away asked for a meet, i pointed out he was too far away but he said he's travel so i agreed to meet him. According to GPS on here he actually travelled all the way up here then i messaged him asking how long he'd be and he blocked me. Was weird but whatever, he didn't have to meet me if he didn't want, i just thought it was weird he'd travel all that way for nothing so presumed he was on his way up here anyway and messing me about for fun."

His loss totally

Sounds weird indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really, I have a finely tuned bullshit detector. "

Me too now, just needed resetting

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"One time a guy 70 miles away asked for a meet, i pointed out he was too far away but he said he's travel so i agreed to meet him. According to GPS on here he actually travelled all the way up here then i messaged him asking how long he'd be and he blocked me. Was weird but whatever, he didn't have to meet me if he didn't want, i just thought it was weird he'd travel all that way for nothing so presumed he was on his way up here anyway and messing me about for fun."

He may have had a few lined up, thinking he could take you all on, or assuming none would follow through. Then became a 2 shakes quake and limped away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One time a guy 70 miles away asked for a meet, i pointed out he was too far away but he said he's travel so i agreed to meet him. According to GPS on here he actually travelled all the way up here then i messaged him asking how long he'd be and he blocked me. Was weird but whatever, he didn't have to meet me if he didn't want, i just thought it was weird he'd travel all that way for nothing so presumed he was on his way up here anyway and messing me about for fun.

He may have had a few lined up, thinking he could take you all on, or assuming none would follow through. Then became a 2 shakes quake and limped away."

I'm not bothered about it now, i can laugh about tbh. Did weird me out at the time coz i'd never had that happen before so thought i'd done something wrong.

2 shakes quake lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it happens. Not much you can do about it. People change their minds.

Some are more reliable than others.

You need to be pretty thick skinned here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from a single mans perspective I met a woman once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social once where the guy changed his mind the day after cause he didnt agree with me cheating. Id been honest about it all along though.

No regrets though a lovely guy and glad i met him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a social once where the guy changed his mind the day after cause he didnt agree with me cheating. Id been honest about it all along though.

No regrets though a lovely guy and glad i met him "
What would your response be if you found hubby on here with a string of verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I should hide my verifications now! She may come on and see them haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a social once where the guy changed his mind the day after cause he didnt agree with me cheating. Id been honest about it all along though.

No regrets though a lovely guy and glad i met him What would your response be if you found hubby on here with a string of verifications?"

I would be pleased as hell im being completely honest. As long as he plays safe and comes home to me i dont care. I love him enough to care more that he is happy. He knows i came close to cheating and his reaponse was i wouldnt want to know but next time do it if it makes you happy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been let down for meets, it happens sometimes I get that.

But worst thing is most definitely when you meet socially and they don't want to see you again. Twice in a row that's happened now. The thing is I'm not bad looking (well I thought I wasn't) and I'm not stupid. I can string full sentences together and everything....

I think what I'm saying is if people know they don't want to meet for actually naughty fun, if it's a game to them or whatever then don't waste my time.

If they think I'm a mutt well that's fair enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I thought meeting socially was to gauge if you want to become sexual.

I would suggest just meeting for sex and skip the social meeting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Has another lad or lass on here been led on by anyone on here

Arranging things being let down,

Agreeing times dates, being let down

Happened to me twice and I'm a wise old egg now, but I don't see point tbh, if u say u gonna meet

JUST MEET "

What of they change their minds? Are they still obligated to meet just because it was arranged?

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I got stood up last weekend the guy was proper chasing me the week before but went offline and hid his profile the day we were gonna meet.then he came back on and unhid his profile

I stood outside the hotel for an hour and he said he was coming down told me what he was wearing swapped kik and whatsap details he kept telling me to call but I dnt do calls. Then he sent me a pic of him,I told him I was outside then I saw him go into the building with someone else....he made out she was someone else staying there and that her bf was inside...he kept messaging me so wasn't sure...then he said to go to the room and gave me the room number but my gutt told me he wouldn't be there.

I told him to meet me outfront but he never came down....its a dodgy area to be alone at 11pm at night for a woman so I left and message that I was leaving and why he read my message but didn't reply

Later on I askd if he was really gonna come down or if he was messing me about he read that but did not reply.he hid his profile again after that and its still hidden

But I wont be bothering with him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my thoughts exactly! Always worries me to skip the social and go straight to the sex incase they are a potential maniac though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got stood up last weekend the guy was proper chasing me the week before but went offline and hid his profile the day we were gonna meet.then he came back on and unhid his profile

I stood outside the hotel for an hour and he said he was coming down told me what he was wearing swapped kik and whatsap details he kept telling me to call but I dnt do calls. Then he sent me a pic of him,I told him I was outside then I saw him go into the building with someone else....he made out she was someone else staying there and that her bf was inside...he kept messaging me so wasn't sure...then he said to go to the room and gave me the room number but my gutt told me he wouldn't be there.

I told him to meet me outfront but he never came down....its a dodgy area to be alone at 11pm at night for a woman so I left and message that I was leaving and why he read my message but didn't reply

Later on I askd if he was really gonna come down or if he was messing me about he read that but did not reply.he hid his profile again after that and its still hidden

But I wont be bothering with him again

"

Jesus he sounds like a right odd ball lol perhaps best you left it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my thoughts exactly! Always worries me to skip the social and go straight to the sex incase they are a potential maniac though "

Just carry mace

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *onia1969Woman
over a year ago

Bridgwater

So far not yet....

But if people are not going to turn up then they should be honest and just say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has another lad or lass on here been led on by anyone on here

Arranging things being let down,

Agreeing times dates, being let down

Happened to me twice and I'm a wise old egg now, but I don't see point tbh, if u say u gonna meet

JUST MEET "

We have a minor one at the moment where the female is contacting us, and 'bumping' into Mrs at her place of work, but we think the male isn't into us because when we meet nothing ever materialises.

Not a problem for us, but we wish they would agree with themselves what they want. Lol.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Had our time wasted over the years what we do say were we are going and if they don,t show up we have not wasted our time can normally spot them when its ping pong messages and when they know it,s me on line not Paul they start to talk dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman a few months ago messaged me and we chatted,she was new on the site so had no veris yet,said we would arrange a meet on saturday and she would get back to me on the day to arrange where & what time but she went offline on friday and did not come back online till monday evening!.

Have noticed the profile seems to come back on as a newby every month,no veris,offline every friday till monday evening or tuesday,is it a woman?,or a guy using a womans photos on a profile?.

I'd suspect a TV/TS/CD using a woman's profile to be honest, liking the attention from being talked to as a woman but bottling the meets because it's still just fantasy for them. "

Or a single male, pissed up from the pub, sets up profile just to perve and wank over pictures as that is all he is going to ever get

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ive had that too, some guy promiseing to meet then let me down, let me know in the morn though saying he cant make it but he has done this twice. My time

Is so previous at mo due to me being on a computer course full time an hardly have any free time any more to call my own an also im tired so my down time an social life has gone out the window at the mo. An with a guy letting me down like that i give him the benefit of the doubt the first time but then he let me down a 2nd time. Why arrange to meet if you are going to let someone down twice i dont get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a young lady talk to us for hours - lots of insecurities about meeting people - we werent trying to arrange a play meet and jus genuinely trying to help - lots of advice and offered a coffee in a public place just to chat as she wanted to actually meet people off here but was wary - after a few days off and on the chat was going round in circles so we stopped and then she put up the verification table and she had already met several people -

oh well its nice to be nice

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