FabSwingers.com forum: Is physical beauty to a woman what money is to a man?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The thought crossed my mind based on a post someone posted on my young, beautiful and full of hate thread, about guys with money conducting themselves with a similar level of entitlement and arrogance as 'gorgeous and I know it' women.

Think the of professional footballer, with their bursting bank accounts, I can't think of a single big name one who isn't either dating or married to a particularly beautiful woman...

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

My mums ex was loaded... She's not beautiful (sorry mum)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think that's true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women can't earn their own money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought crossed my mind based on a post someone posted on my young, beautiful and full of hate thread, about guys with money conducting themselves with a similar level of entitlement and arrogance as 'gorgeous and I know it' women.

Think the of professional footballer, with their bursting bank accounts, I can't think of a single big name one who isn't either dating or married to a particularly beautiful woman...

Discuss."

Money Money Money ( I have none ) am I fuk'd ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because them women don't want a real job so hang out with footballers to live an easy life. They wont get an pension tho in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that speaks volumes for the ladies who seek these men. Its true that power and popularity do attract.

I know of clubs in Manchester where the footballers go that are crammed with beautiful girls hoping to meet a footballer with money.

I know most women are like this at all.

But it must also show the insecurity of these rich men who just want a trophy girlfriend. One day they must realise its not their sparking wit and repartee that attracts ladies to them. So it can only be a circle of insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because them women don't want a real job so hang out with footballers to live an easy life. They wont get an pension tho in the long run."

Pensions are important, maybe they'll have been wise and invested with the Pru?

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Where's my rich man then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because them women don't want a real job so hang out with footballers to live an easy life. They wont get an pension tho in the long run.

Pensions are important, maybe they'll have been wise and invested with the Pru?

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YEs or that or invest all the moneys on clothes at ann summers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's my rich man then?!

Where's my rich women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peter Crouch,when asked what he would be if he wasn't a footballer, replied "A virgin!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch,when asked what he would be if he wasn't a footballer, replied "A virgin!!""

Did he actually say that? I'd be very impressed by his character if he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch,when asked what he would be if he wasn't a footballer, replied "A virgin!!"

Did he actually say that? I'd be very impressed by his character if he did

Yes, he did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch,when asked what he would be if he wasn't a footballer, replied "A virgin!!"

Did he actually say that? I'd be very impressed by his character if he did

Yes, he did. "

I think I seen this , was he not on a question of sport or some other sport related game show ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt.

At my local Tesco's they are forever throwing free food and provisions at the beautiful women whilst some poor mingers have to resort to stealing.

Other retail stoes are of course available but no free food is offered at ASDA (ex Netto store).

For those who are curious, my ex would've bough me own label beans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps Asda, some of whom would even starve, which in the short term wouldn't be a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peter Crouch,when asked what he would be if he wasn't a footballer, replied "A virgin!!"

Did he actually say that? I'd be very impressed by his character if he did

Yes, he did.

I think I seen this , was he not on a question of sport or some other sport related game show ?"

No idea where he said it, but it topped a poll of funniest sporting quips. George Best came second.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Because them women don't want a real job so hang out with footballers to live an easy life. They wont get an pension tho in the long run.

Pensions are important, maybe they'll have been wise and invested with the Pru?

YEs or that or invest all the moneys on clothes at ann summers

Have you seen the quality of Ann Summers undercrackers?

Might as well go to Primaark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rich men and beautiful women are always going to be seen in the same place, it's no coincidence is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because them women don't want a real job so hang out with footballers to live an easy life. They wont get an pension tho in the long run.

Pensions are important, maybe they'll have been wise and invested with the Pru?

YEs or that or invest all the moneys on clothes at ann summers

Have you seen the quality of Ann Summers undercrackers?

Might as well go to Primaark"
lol no I haven't. I have never been n that shop, thought it was the high end market for women?.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I think that success and talent are attractive traits in a man. And yes I'm about to generalise here (don't shoot!) but men are visually stimulated more so than women, so the wealthy man/attractive woman thing is bound to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend said her ''ex'' in Dubai used to chuck a credit card at her every time he had acted like a cock she used to splash out on it first of all but then got bored and now he is single......money can't buy you everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us poor ordinary guys, it may be helpful to remember that not all "glammed up" WAGS and such like are actually beautiful under all the make up and glam.

Though many are, i wouldn't say no to Mrs G.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Bernie Ecclestone......that is all

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I guess people (note people - not men or women!) will use whatever they have in their tool box to increase what they think will attract others.

Some use their looks.

Some use their money.

Some use a position of power or influence.

Some use their sense of humour.

Some use their huge cock or mahoosive boobs.

It's human nature. Is it right or wrong? Who knows and who cares. Some will be attracted to some of the above attributed whilst others won't give a monkeys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife's earns shed loads.

Does this make me a hunk

Even I'm shocked

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

They are both shallow characters and so deserve each other I think Brian.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I forgot to ask.

Are these men with money good looking or munters?

Because some of those footballers are what plenty of women would find attractive.

So are they using their looks or their wads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife's earns shed loads.

Does this make me a hunk

Even I'm shocked

Impossible - it's only men that can make money.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've always earned more than my long term partners. Does that make me the munter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bernie Ecclestone......that is all"

Ah you beat me to it...!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

As the parent of a professional footballer I have to be careful on this one, but we are very careful who we let him near and where we let him go ... he is young, but he has a contract .... bringing money in and full time, football and travelling. Money management is vital and he works very, very hard. He has had no teenage life apart from football and school, which I made him complete. I have the career and the higher pay and Mr is still searching for his new vocation after being laid off some years ago. He is the homebody, I am the career woman, but it suits us fine. These stereotypes are meant to be broken or at least challenged, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two premiership that broke the mold that spring to mind. Probably best I don't name them for fear of being sued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bernie Ecclestone......that is all

Ah you beat me to it...!"

I raise you

Lloyd Webber and anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rodger federer must be an oddball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His Daughter's husband was pictured in the paper today, she obviously went after a man just like her dad....

"Bernie Ecclestone......that is all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not beautiful or have money......so no hope here at all.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always earned more than my long term partners. Does that make me the munter?"

And mine has fluctuated over time, so I don't know if I'm attractive or not

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've always earned more than my long term partners. Does that make me the munter?

And mine has fluctuated over time, so I don't know if I'm attractive or not

Shit. I always thought I was OK looking and just had a touch of work ethic in my make-up. What I should have done instead of working hard was make myself look attractive so I could get a rich man. Damn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someones financial wealth or what is generally accepted as attractive doesnt usually attract me. Money certainly doesnt and although i can occasionally admire the looks of someone commonly accepted as attractive, its very rare i find them sexually attractive

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Bernie Ecclestone......that is all

Ah you beat me to it...!

I raise you

Lloyd Webber and anyone?"

Peter Beardsley?

Ian Dowie?

And there's many an actor that wasn't 'blessed' with good looks too.

Mind you. There's many an actress/singer/sports woman that are what many would describe as stereotypically 'unattractive' and married. We're the guys after their pennies?

Like many such subjects looking at things in a two dimensional way it gives no room for balance, personal taste as to attraction and any weight to the 'personality over looks' argument. Why can't attractive, rich and successful people not be nice, interesting and attractive for any other reason than their looks or bank balance?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Bernie Ecclestone......that is all

Ah you beat me to it...!"

You could beat me to him too

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

The thing here is people fail to see the commitment the said footballers have put in from an earlier stage. imagine 10,000 + hours before 18

beauty is very subjective although I want and need a stunner lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"The thing here is people fail to see the commitment the said footballers have put in from an earlier stage. imagine 10,000 + hours before 18

beauty is very subjective although I want and need a stunner lol"

Absolutely right. I see it on a daily basis. Up and out at seven am, till not home yet ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully I'll never find out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing here is people fail to see the commitment the said footballers have put in from an earlier stage. imagine 10,000 + hours before 18

beauty is very subjective although I want and need a stunner lol"

Commitment to playing a game...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you marry for money you'll earn every penny.

Or more likely get binned off for a younger model in a couple of years. I suppose both footballers and those who pursue them have limited shelf lives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you marry for money you'll earn every penny.

Or more likely get binned off for a younger model in a couple of years. I suppose both footballers and those who pursue them have limited shelf lives."

A bit like Cheryl Ty/Cole, teen boys pin up disposed of like trash by her beloved hubby Ashley. I wonder if that girl he got pregnant ever had his baby? I remember reading that his 'people' offered her money and a holiday to have an abortion, what a lovely fella

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name.

If a man (or woman) has money and views who they have on their arm as part of the package for thger image they want then there will be women/men willing to be that commodity. Transactional relationships exist in every sphere of life.

There are rich and/or famous people who have love relationships too. You find the relationships where your group of people socialise. If you only see young, 'beautiful' women because those are the only women you get to interact with as a rich man it's hardly surprising that that is where you end up funding someone.

Just another thought: many hated Camilla, thinking her ugly compared to Di. The love match that stood the test of time was with the woman everyone dismissed as ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Just another thought: many hated Camilla, thinking her ugly compared to Di. The love match that stood the test of time was with the woman everyone dismissed as ugly.

I don't think most people hated her (and Charles) because of her looks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name"

David Beckham was already footballs poster boy when they got together, he had plenty of wealth and fame of his own - of course, he had to work for his, she just answered an ad in a newspaper.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

what was the famous mrs merton line to debbie magee.... "what was it you first saw in the millionaire paul daniels??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name.

Just another thought: many hated Camilla, thinking her ugly compared to Di. The love match that stood the test of time was with the woman everyone dismissed as ugly.

Didn't Paul Newman recently celebrate his 50th wedding anniversary. Possibly one of the world's most admired men and truly handsome. Mind you, his Mrs is no Netto shopper.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name

David Beckham was already footballs poster boy when they got together, he had plenty of wealth and fame of his own - of course, he had to work for his, she just answered an ad in a newspaper."

football....work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name

David Beckham was already footballs poster boy when they got together, he had plenty of wealth and fame of his own - of course, he had to work for his, she just answered an ad in a newspaper.

football....work?"

Well...yeah alright, the point is he achieved his fame through his own efforts, she just had to sing badly, pout a lot and the corporate machine behind her and the Spice Girls did the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what was the famous mrs merton line to debbie magee.... "what was it you first saw in the millionaire paul daniels??""

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name

David Beckham was already footballs poster boy when they got together, he had plenty of wealth and fame of his own - of course, he had to work for his, she just answered an ad in a newspaper.

football....work?

Well...yeah alright, the point is he achieved his fame through his own efforts, she just had to sing badly, pout a lot and the corporate machine behind her and the Spice Girls did the rest."

Hmmm. Lots of people say things like that as if it was absolutely no effort at all for her to turn up at gigs, rehearse, keep herself well groomed, tour the world etc. It might not have been hewing coal from the rock face but there must have been some effort on her behalf. In my opinion women like Victoria Beckham have made the best of what they have and wouldn't be able to do that without a willing public, I say good for her and others like her I prefer her to the Kardashians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When Beckham got together with Posh Spice she was the one with the money and the name

David Beckham was already footballs poster boy when they got together, he had plenty of wealth and fame of his own - of course, he had to work for his, she just answered an ad in a newspaper.

football....work?

Well...yeah alright, the point is he achieved his fame through his own efforts, she just had to sing badly, pout a lot and the corporate machine behind her and the Spice Girls did the rest."

Yeah she had nothing to do with creating the Beckham brand & making David into more than just another cute footie poster boy.

Taking the opportunities that have come her way and becomming a very successful and respected designer.

and as for the singing ~ no different from a lot of modern day pop artists. Reply to an ad or go on the xfactor, what's the difference.......

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