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TALKING DURING SEX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's everyone's take on talking during sex? I am personally not a fan, I.don't mind the occasional " ooh yes yes that's good "

But don't like the people that read a porn movie script out,

ha is it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes we talk, a lot! Sometimes we don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I really enjoy it and find it enhances the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible when they go on about what they are having for dinner later

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing "

Now I can imagine that as part of extended, erotic foreplay relaxing in a lover's arms while they read to you would be an intensely sexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely not a chat, but a few words here and there can be hot xx and namecalling, that's a must please !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes good sometimes they ask weird questions and my brain just freezes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to tell her how good she tastes when licking her pussy and ass and also how hot she looks in different positions and her moans and love her screaming out when shes cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a man talking dirty during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh you naughty bitch xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing

Now I can imagine that as part of extended, erotic foreplay relaxing in a lover's arms while they read to you would be an intensely sexual experience."

I Obviously meant that lol

However you are right, it is so an erotic, intense as well as unique experience, creates strong bond...

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing

Now I can imagine that as part of extended, erotic foreplay relaxing in a lover's arms while they read to you would be an intensely sexual experience."

I was thinking the same thing! I'd love that as long as fifty shades of tripe didn't make an appearance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fun we have together after a meet is all about talking , recalling , and generally getting turned on as much by the talking as the doing .

During a meet there's nothing worse than silence , it's so much more horny to hear what people want , like , and compliments are always good .

And finally , when it's just us enjoying each other , we always like to say what we enjoy and whisper in each other's ear our deepest feelings and desires .

So talking is so good for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's take on talking during sex? I am personally not a fan, I.don't mind the occasional " ooh yes yes that's good "

But don't like the people that read a porn movie script out,

ha is it just me

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Hate it

I don't mind communication but I dis like guys who constantly ask you how that is and if your loving it, sometimes I just want to say shut the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea but always feel ridiculous unless the other person is vocal... Has to be a two way thing for me.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I had a laughing fit between orgasms a little while ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of talking during a hot session, not along the Alan Partridge lines of "what do you think to the pedestrianisation of Norwich City centre" but makes the sex even better I think!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love whispering naughtyness into her ear during the act...usually get's a great reaction although there was this one time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be honest it's a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!! "

I like it when your both comfortable and can say when your liking or disliking something and able to ask for what you'd like (like say they do something good with their tongue you feel comfy asking them to carry on or pointing out if you dislike something and known it won't ruin the mood)

But I dislike the type where it's just a constant stream of "do you like that" etc questions as it just feels awkward

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Ooh somebody whispering to me during sex can be so erotic, I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone isn't good at talking dirty then there is nothing worse.

We role play heavily and C talks continually throughout. He's amazing at it and it turns me on so much. We recently played in public in a club and he didn't talk during and I found myself begging him to speak to me. As soon as he did, I had an orgasm.

I crave him doing it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh somebody whispering to me during sex can be so erotic, I love it! "

*whispers softly*"the train at platform 5 will be departing in 5 miniutes"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm gonna get that mare if I can

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The best sex sessions have 'phases' / 'section' ........

In some sections the odd phrase be it co-ercive, encouraging or just signalling pleasure received, play a good part in feeding psychies and getting people in their zone - physically too.

Other times.... STFU! it's a killer.

It's knowing what bit goes where really.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!!

I like it when your both comfortable and can say when your liking or disliking something and able to ask for what you'd like (like say they do something good with their tongue you feel comfy asking them to carry on or pointing out if you dislike something and known it won't ruin the mood)

But I dislike the type where it's just a constant stream of "do you like that" etc questions as it just feels awkward"

Oh no that's just like reading an instruction manual. There are many more conversations that can be had during sex, fantasy scenarios can be described for instance, suggestions made as to when the hell that crack in the ceiling is going to get plastered........

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm gonna get that mare if I can "

No buggers' going to brand me!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Ooh somebody whispering to me during sex can be so erotic, I love it!

*whispers softly*"the train at platform 5 will be departing in 5 miniutes""

You seducer you.....

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We cam a lot of our fun Paul love,s me to talk and say how good it is when its another man or woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy dirty talk when having sex... Turns me on so much more if that be fucking me hard calling me there dirty slut telling me wat to do not asking whilst being fucked from behind or wispering sweet nothings in my ears When there on top.... Or me on top looking me deep in the eye as im moaning loud there voice getting above mine with filthy talk.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words are wonderful things. Love 'em. Love using them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers."

Thats hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to shout out various different phrases in other languages to kinda change things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.

Thats hot! "

Should I continue ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.

Thats hot! "

Only if he says the right thing.

Between strangers it's like one of those messages that make you puke instead of being turned on .......

It's so easy to suddenly think WTF ?? It's like water on flame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.

Thats hot!

Only if he says the right thing.

Between strangers it's like one of those messages that make you puke instead of being turned on .......

It's so easy to suddenly think WTF ?? It's like water on flame."

Not to a stranger, only with a, partner lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I really enjoy dirty talk when having sex... Turns me on so much more if that be fucking me hard calling me there dirty slut telling me wat to do not asking whilst being fucked from behind or wispering sweet nothings in my ears When there on top.... Or me on top looking me deep in the eye as im moaning loud there voice getting above mine with filthy talk..... "

Tugging on my hair too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers."
now this is what i like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a man talking dirty during sex "

Well thats good then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nevaquits to sound cheesy you look like sex on legs, stunning. I'm good at hair pulling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.now this is what i like "

It does seem to have a high like rate.

Can really tease her if the fingers down her knickers get close to her clit and are so close but you make her wait before caressing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love dirty talk, Normaly revolves around other men, bigger cocks etc etc.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There's men and men. I find im able to take things from men that make me laugh in the face of men and think you creepy man about men but you dirty sexy filthy bastard about men. Wo men know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to chant or moan in pleasure but to chat about the hamburger we had for dinner is a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see a beautiful hairy pussy rollergirl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see a beautiful hairy pussy rollergirl."

Why thankyou, it's not to everyone's taste we know but we don't do things to please other people

Those that do prefer it have some variety at least but we do know were in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I like to know what kind of food there'll be after, if that counts?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have to be restrained from coming out with jokes and so on

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have to be restrained from coming out with jokes and so on "

Oh just do it. Sex is good but sex and laughs is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be restrained from coming out with jokes and so on "

Or do you deliberately behave in such a way as to make people want to restrain you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!!

I like it when your both comfortable and can say when your liking or disliking something and able to ask for what you'd like (like say they do something good with their tongue you feel comfy asking them to carry on or pointing out if you dislike something and known it won't ruin the mood)

But I dislike the type where it's just a constant stream of "do you like that" etc questions as it just feels awkward"

That's how I feel

I've met a few guys who want me to beg for their cock etc and are constantly asking you what you want next, I don't like that, sex shouldn't be scrpited

But if I was giving a guy a blow job and he asked me to stick a finger up his arse .....that kind of talking is great

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"I have to be restrained from coming out with jokes and so on

Oh just do it. Sex is good but sex and laughs is better. "

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I do giggle and smile a lot when having sex with someone I really like. As for talking, it's about the only time I don't babble away. And if I do I tend to have a ball gag to hand.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Sex is the only time I'm quiet. I think of things I want to say but can't bring myself to. Usually bite me or spank me

I do wish I could do it though as I enjoy the odd thing said to me, but not a running commentary or porn style thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never stfu so i enjoy talking during sex, dirty chat and normal chat. I'm sure either puts guys off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see a beautiful hairy pussy rollergirl.

Why thankyou, it's not to everyone's taste we know but we don't do things to please other people

Those that do prefer it have some variety at least but we do know were in the minority."

It suits you really well. Nice to see as it's a,rare sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's take on talking during sex? I am personally not a fan, I.don't mind the occasional " ooh yes yes that's good "

But don't like the people that read a porn movie script out,

ha is it just me

Hate it

I don't mind communication but I dis like guys who constantly ask you how that is and if your loving it, sometimes I just want to say shut the fuck up "
Agree, I hate a guy telling me how good he is and how much I'm enjoying him. I'll tell him....if it's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jools doesn't really talk but I do, usually talking about meets when she did this or be cool if we did such and such.

Sex talk.

Occasionally we write our weekly shopping list

Or discuss what colour we should go with in dining room when we decorate.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Nevaquits to sound cheesy you look like sex on legs, stunning. I'm good at hair pulling"

Thank you

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Oh I love talking even better when.cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nevaquits to sound cheesy you look like sex on legs, stunning. I'm good at hair pulling

Thank you "

Always a pleasure to compliment a total hottie.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I sometimes remember random things, talk about how my days been, what I've had for lunch etc etc...usually have to give my mouth a wipe or come up from being buried inbetween legs as I always got told, it's rude to talk with my mouth full!!!! I'm not joking, I do enjoy a good gabbing whilst having sex! Haha!

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Words are wonderful things. Love 'em. Love using them. "

We're all well aware you bloody foghorn!!!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Love it but often depends on the situation. Quickie sex then its a no no

But hot dirty sex then yes.

It can vary from dirty name calling to soft whispers in the ear as his cock slowly enters me from behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of an ooooo that's good oh fuck I need potatoes and milk kinda girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm crap at sex talk...if the sex is good then I struggle to form actual sentences, usually just a lot of swearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they eventually get the gag off, they call me all sorts of fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really do it.

At the time I'm seriously so fucking switched on to what to the fuck I'm doing I don't say a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm crap at sex talk...if the sex is good then I struggle to form actual sentences, usually just a lot of swearing "

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Not if my mouth is full that would be just bad manners

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love it but I can't seem to get the words out of my mouth it's really irritating because I want to join in but I worry I'll say something stupid and spoil the moment and then I just can't get my voice to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex partner of mine loved it used to be pretty hot too

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


" I don't mind communication but I dis like guys who constantly ask you how that is and if your loving it, sometimes I just want to say shut the fuck up "

I've told a few to 'shut the fuck up', sometimes it's just so off putting when they go on and on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? I really enjoy it and find it enhances the experience "

I totally agree I'd talk to u all night long :p

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I always talk dirty. I like to ask for what I want to do next and spare no blushes. My partner talks dirty which really heightens the experience. I've got loads of filthy meets to talk about too.

I actually don't like silent sex. I mean, when I'm down there doing my thing (which usually blows guys' minds) some feedback is good. How else would I know if you were enjoying a particular technique?

Maybe deep throat isn't your thing? Maybe you love the way I gently suck the head whilst gently rubbing it on my bottom teeth and the roof of my mouth before plunging it down my throat. Maybe you love the way I suck your balls, gently rolling them in my mouth? Perhaps you'd like me to very gently run the tip of my tongue up the length of your cock underneath it, til I get to the frenulum, run my tongue over the head, gently probing your hole? You might like me sucking your head gently or, as I like to surprise you, I might plunge it, suddenly, unexpectedly deep in my throat at an angle so that it rubs on the roof of my mouth? Up and down, til I feel the cum rising ....

Where would you wanna cum? I love to rub cum on my tits but you choose.

Or you could wham bam, Thank you ma'am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they are saying and how they say it.......

"Oh yes.....fuck me harder" is fine

If they start telling you about what they did at work earlier, or what they are planning to eat tomorrow..... Then don't expect a second meet lol!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

discussed general relativity whilst shagging

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I'm gonna get that mare if I can

No buggers' going to brand me! "
I thought it was bran ... But weetbix will do

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Depends what they are saying and how they say it.......

"Oh yes.....fuck me harder" is fine

If they start telling you about what they did at work earlier, or what they are planning to eat tomorrow..... Then don't expect a second meet lol!"
its really annoying when a shopping list or a bright decorating idea pops into my head mid shag

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yeah baby take my cock .. Open up your box to me .. Take it now .. All of it .. Yeah .. See how it fits your box perfectly mmm .. Quick shut the lid ... Do you want any chicks .. Or eggs too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we talk - but its whispered passion chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some talking is good, I've ended up in fits of giggles before when someone has said something completely out of context. I think it depends on how well you know that person and your dynamic. So for me, silent sex - no, but non-stop chatting - less talk more action please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really enjoy dirty talk when having sex... Turns me on so much more if that be fucking me hard calling me there dirty slut telling me wat to do not asking whilst being fucked from behind or wispering sweet nothings in my ears When there on top.... Or me on top looking me deep in the eye as im moaning loud there voice getting above mine with filthy talk.....

Tugging on my hair too

"

aww i love tugging on my hair or slapping my ass or the occasional hand around my throat whilst being fucked mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like to tell her how good she tastes when licking her pussy and ass and also how hot she looks in different positions and her moans and love her screaming out when shes cumming "

Sorry I don't think good tasting and ass go together, mind you I hate marmite too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a laughing fit between orgasms a little while ago "

Hope it wasn't one of them snorting laughs,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it does depend what's said.

I think " oy wake up, are u asleep " or " did u remember to turn the oven off " wouldn't really work

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I like a good political debate during sex.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

If they're capable of talking, so much the better

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