FabSwingers.com forum: Very confused

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im a 46 year old guy who has had a few gay experiences in the past but always feel guilty afterwards. I am married but i just cannot resist the temptation of another guy now and again. I am extremely confused as i love my wife and would never want to hurt her. Help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's there to be confused about? Embrace the temptations. Accept that you like both ends of the spectrum. Double trouble.

Hope you manage to find a solution. Just make sure you don't do anything to hurt her.

It's none of my business you being on here as a single male but you may just have to take a step back and re-assess your situation.

All the best.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"What's there to be confused about? Embrace the temptations. Accept that you like both ends of the spectrum. Double trouble.

Hope you manage to find a solution. Just make sure you don't do anything to hurt her.

It's none of my business you being on here as a single male but you may just have to take a step back and re-assess your situation.

All the best.

Eminently sensible

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"What's there to be confused about? Embrace the temptations. Accept that you like both ends of the spectrum. Double trouble.

Hope you manage to find a solution. Just make sure you don't do anything to hurt her.

It's none of my business you being on here as a single male but you may just have to take a step back and re-assess your situation.

All the best.

Eminently sensible "

100% and I'd be more inclined to call them bi experiences than gay if you are happy with sexual relations with your wife too. Stay safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for you're replies guys......still confused though lol.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

calculating the potential gains against the potential loses can be useful

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tell her.

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

"Im a 46 year old guy who has had a few gay experiences in the past but always feel guilty afterwards. I am married but i just cannot resist the temptation of another guy now and again. I am extremely confused as i love my wife and would never want to hurt her. Help!"

Don't be confused, you may well be bisexual. This would be something best discussed with your lady. This admittedly may be a difficult path. Have you ever asked her if she has had a fantasy about other ladies?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

If you mean you feel guilty about shagging men behind her back then for a wild stab in the dark maybe stop doing it?

If you have been doing it it's a bit late to be worrying about hurting her.

Try talking to her but don't mention you've already done it.

If she's not ok with experimenting then you need to find a middle ground or try counselling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be very easy to preach. I suggest you assess the situation. You might lose everything. If you believe you would and do not want to, seek help. Claiming you are confused is not addressing the issue and is a simple way out of confronting the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her bro....the truth shall set you free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst you maybe bi, you are still cheating on your wife, whether that is with a male or female, sex outside the marriage without consent is cheating. So either talk to your wife about it, control your desires or cheat. It's up to you really. Would you be happy if your wife was cheating on you? With a male or a female...

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