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" Any advice welcome. Jack" If you ever fall from the top of a skyscraper try flapping your arms really fast...... | |||
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"I've just met a woman who lives just a few doors away. When I say 'just met' I mean having talked to, flirted with, she flirting back. We've noticed each other around and about for a couple of years. I didn't realise that she was such a close neighbour. Anyway, we talked and she gave me her number, we talked on the phone last night. It was good. Meeting in the near future. Should I pursue? My advice from wise people is 'Never Crap on your Own Doorstep.' She doesn't know anything about my 'kinkiness'. I really fancy her but I don't know what to do - will she be shocked as my sexual character is revealed. I don't think I could face the humiliation of you know, being rejected for being 'weird', and then still bumping into her locally. What should I do? Any advice welcome. Jack" faint heart never won fair lady. What's the harm in getting to know her? No need to give her chapter and verse of your sexual preferences that would be weird but I think its much better to regret things you have done than things you haven't in cases like this. | |||
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"if push comes to shove dont mention Mr Grey whatever you do.. apart from that go for it.." I've never read it, but I do like taking/giving a bit of a spank! | |||
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"I'm really thinking I should investigate, but if I took my shirt off and she saw my nipple piercings... Ok, I know I should tell her things before it got to that. In a close and warm conversation do I say I have body piercings and wear women's pants?" Firstly if you click on reply +quote we can see who you're replying to. Secondly I think you are over thinking this. Play it by ear, chat to her, get to know her before you start talking about your sexual preferences in detail. | |||
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"sorry couldnt help notice miss innocent.....great tits x" Cheers lovely!! | |||
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"I've just met a woman who lives just a few doors away. When I say 'just met' I mean having talked to, flirted with, she flirting back. We've noticed each other around and about for a couple of years. I didn't realise that she was such a close neighbour. Anyway, we talked and she gave me her number, we talked on the phone last night. It was good. Meeting in the near future. Should I pursue? My advice from wise people is 'Never Crap on your Own Doorstep.' She doesn't know anything about my 'kinkiness'. I really fancy her but I don't know what to do - will she be shocked as my sexual character is revealed. I don't think I could face the humiliation of you know, being rejected for being 'weird', and then still bumping into her locally. What should I do? Any advice welcome. Jack" I'm not sure I understand your dilemma. Most will have an ex somewhere close by they occasionally bump into: so what? Why do you feel the need to declare your sexual history, unless it's something you wish to continue? If it is, take time to know this person, it won't be wasted time. Don't make your first date a swingers club though. Enjoy the romance: sex with strangers is not the be all. Good luck. | |||
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"I'm really thinking I should investigate, but if I took my shirt off and she saw my nipple piercings... Ok, I know I should tell her things before it got to that. In a close and warm conversation do I say I have body piercings and wear women's pants? Firstly if you click on reply +quote we can see who you're replying to. Secondly I think you are over thinking this. Play it by ear, chat to her, get to know her before you start talking about your sexual preferences in detail. " Exactly!!! Sadly, it appears sex with strangers has deprived some of normal social skills when mixing with people outwith the scene. | |||
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"Okay, nice lady, bit chatty, bit flirty... How do you tell her about your kinks and piercings? Whooah there fella How a out asking her out for a coffee or a drink after work. Talk and get to know each other a bit and see how it goes! " We are going to meet for a drink and get-to-know. And I am patient, not about to throw any of this at her initially... | |||
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"Get to know her. You have no idea what she likes, enjoys or is willing to try, she may show you a thing or two.. " Yes, you are right. It has been a long time since I 'dated'. | |||
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"I'm really thinking I should investigate, but if I took my shirt off and she saw my nipple piercings... Ok, I know I should tell her things before it got to that. In a close and warm conversation do I say I have body piercings and wear women's pants? Firstly if you click on reply +quote we can see who you're replying to. Secondly I think you are over thinking this. Play it by ear, chat to her, get to know her before you start talking about your sexual preferences in detail. " Thanks for your input, and thanks for the reply advice. | |||
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" Any advice welcome. Jack If you ever fall from the top of a skyscraper try flapping your arms really fast...... " Haha! Brilliant! | |||
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"I've just met a woman who lives just a few doors away. When I say 'just met' I mean having talked to, flirted with, she flirting back. We've noticed each other around and about for a couple of years. I didn't realise that she was such a close neighbour. Anyway, we talked and she gave me her number, we talked on the phone last night. It was good. Meeting in the near future. Should I pursue? My advice from wise people is 'Never Crap on your Own Doorstep.' She doesn't know anything about my 'kinkiness'. I really fancy her but I don't know what to do - will she be shocked as my sexual character is revealed. I don't think I could face the humiliation of you know, being rejected for being 'weird', and then still bumping into her locally. What should I do? Any advice welcome. Jack" Ask her nicely and she might show you her cock! | |||
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