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Is sensual teasing sex a lost art form

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

They still exist. I've come across them quite a few times on here.

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"They still exist. I've come across them quite a few times on here. "

Well that's good to know and lucky you I think I must need to look at my selection process then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be such a tease.......it's a good build up to passionate,animalistic fucking

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's certainly in the minority here, and I for one love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed "

Not all is lost, just try a older guy you may just be surprised xxNeilXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed "

Tantric sex - massaging - use of oils are all forms of great sexual activity and each leads to there own erotic ends.....even tantric sex if done right will have you climaxing

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed

Not all is lost, just try a older guy you may just be surprised xxNeilXx"

I have been wondering if it's a generational skill and I need to start upping my age limits

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It's certainly in the minority here, and I for one love it! "

Glad I'm not the only one that thinks it's rare in the world of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not all is lost, just try a older guy you may just be surprised xxNeilXx"

It's not just older guys that like it (desperately hoping I haven't reached 'older' at 37).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

additionally, all normal stuff such as lots of caressing, nibbling, kissing and oral play, wont go a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed "

No its definitely not a dying breed. Its called love-making rather than fucking imo! It depends on mood as to what I go for!

You need to make it clear what your requirements are prior to meeting, I discuss what I want in advance- its like foreplay for the foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No its definitely not a dying breed. Its called love-making rather than fucking imo! It depends on mood as to what I go for!

You need to make it clear what your requirements are prior to meeting, I discuss what I want in advance- its like foreplay for the foreplay

"

So how does one go about opening negotiations?

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed

No its definitely not a dying breed. Its called love-making rather than fucking imo! It depends on mood as to what I go for!

You need to make it clear what your requirements are prior to meeting, I discuss what I want in advance- its like foreplay for the foreplay

"

Oh I do talk about it before hand but at the same time planning the meet too much in that way can spoil the fun a few surprises are always nice

And can you really call it love making when there now emotion involved it's just sensual play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely my preference.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I love sensual sex, kissing, licking, teasing, exploring each other, slowly building up the momentum to make it last.

If you want a good hard straight to it Fucking I'm probably not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual sex is fantastic love it rather than just a hard fcuk.

Rather sensual and caring than wham bam thank you mam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulls up a chair with a cuppa, I feel exactly the same and thought it was because of my age lol.

Love naughty sexy fun, but please let there be a build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed

No its definitely not a dying breed. Its called love-making rather than fucking imo! It depends on mood as to what I go for!

You need to make it clear what your requirements are prior to meeting, I discuss what I want in advance- its like foreplay for the foreplay

Oh I do talk about it before hand but at the same time planning the meet too much in that way can spoil the fun a few surprises are always nice

And can you really call it love making when there now emotion involved it's just sensual play? "

Its not that I want to fall in love with them it just helps to define the non-objectifying side of it for me- about smiles and sensuality sometimes rather than hairgrabbing and pounding kind of thing! (Not that there isn't a time and a place for that too, mind)

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed

No its definitely not a dying breed. Its called love-making rather than fucking imo! It depends on mood as to what I go for!

You need to make it clear what your requirements are prior to meeting, I discuss what I want in advance- its like foreplay for the foreplay

Oh I do talk about it before hand but at the same time planning the meet too much in that way can spoil the fun a few surprises are always nice

And can you really call it love making when there now emotion involved it's just sensual play?

Its not that I want to fall in love with them it just helps to define the non-objectifying side of it for me- about smiles and sensuality sometimes rather than hairgrabbing and pounding kind of thing! (Not that there isn't a time and a place for that too, mind)"

I see what you mean now

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed "

The best sex I've ever had, has always been sensual and passionate. The real way to fuck a woman, in my opinion. The female form is meant to be savoured...

The 'rough/fast/hard/Dom' way - however, you want to describe it. Pales in comparison. It's a bit of a cop-out. It's too easy.

Most men I speak to these days; all they seem to be bothered about is, trying to make a woman 'squirt', as though it's some kind of 'badge of honour'. What's that all about??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Just curious as the only requests I get for meets is the guy wanting to rough you about and fuck you hard, I'm no opposed to that kind of play but a bit of variety would nice and a slow sensual teasing play session is just what you need sometimes

So come on guys restore my faith and let me know you aren't a dying breed

The best sex I've ever had, has always been sensual and passionate. The real way to fuck a woman, in my opinion. The female form is meant to be savoured...

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"

The best sex I've ever had, has always been sensual and passionate. The real way to fuck a woman, in my opinion. The female form is meant to be savoured...

The 'rough/fast/hard/Dom' way - however, you want to describe it. Pales in comparison. It's a bit of a cop-out. It's too easy.

Most men I speak to these days; all they seem to be bothered about is, trying to make a woman 'squirt', as though it's some kind of 'badge of honour'. What's that all about??

"

amen to that!

And I've never got why squirting is such an obsession either

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Always preferred loads of foreplay and buildup than going at it like a jackhammer xxx plus loads of cuddles before and after xxx

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No I see my problem all you wonderfully sensual and sexual men live miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all I get it with the bestie ..I adore the build up still to our meets even after all this time...sensual is good.But so is kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They still exist. I've come across them quite a few times on here. "

Yes, I have found a few too Ligeia...I just strip naked, lie back and ask nicely...m x

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By *urreyloverMan
over a year ago

Guildford

It may be an age thing but it may also be that of a man who has respect for the lady and strives to please her mentally, physically and sensuously. A rampant red hot passionate lustful quickie can be pleasurable on occasions but love making is a journey and not a destination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They certainly aren't a dying breed...I've met many that are into heavenly sensual play.......in fact I won't meet anyone who just wants to rough me up for an hour. Not my thing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you will get many Men come on here and say all they want to do if fuck without any build up, Flirting teasing and foreplay

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"No I see my problem all you wonderfully sensual and sexual men live miles away "

Doncaster is not that far away ive travelled all over the uk xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not totally lost but something most seem unable or unwilling to do.

Mr loves to tease and play. Even denying a lady to touch in return.... X i love it.. to be fair I wouldn't want a meet spending ages though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer the hard fucking kind of sex when we meet x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I can do gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've Bern lucky enough that who ever I've.met have done gentle as well as semi.rough

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