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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I'm being played by a fake, I've been messed about before so I was just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to tell the fakes and time wasters from the real thing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm being played by a fake, I've been messed about before so I was just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to tell the fakes and time wasters from the real thing ? "

Are they a nurse that needs help with their air fare back from Nigeria

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I think I'm being played by a fake, I've been messed about before so I was just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to tell the fakes and time wasters from the real thing ?

Are they a nurse that needs help with their air fare back from Nigeria "

Essentially, if it looks too good to be true, it probably is

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


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Essentially, if it looks too good to be true, it probably is"

Yup if it smells of rat, it's usually a rat. If in doubt, bail out

Sixth sense doesn't exist for no reason.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

A phone call request see's them off.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it isn't always possible to tell but as has been said if it doesn't feel right it probably isn't. Don't let your eagerness for a meet cloud your judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct is there for a reason. Plus ring them - if they won't talk on phone - that would make me suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People may call me a time waster because I like to take my time essentially wasting their time if they're impatient. If you have to chase someone and get little interaction back..you're wasting your time. Just don't be pushy, don't make demands, don't chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a tineye search on any photos might help you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've ignored my gut instinct before and its always come back to bite me, as others have said its there for a reason

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Listen to your instincts.

For what its worth, I very rarely would give out my number before a meet, and do not phone, skype or cam. If thats what someone requires to believe I am not fake, then good for them, but I am not comfortable with it, and would not meet them - and my first meet is a local social...

Been told I am fake and a time waster for it - but I would far rather take my time and do something at my pace than do anything I feel wrong.

Listen to your intuition, and go with that.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Poke 'em with a stick. If it goes straight through you know they're fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to your instincts.

For what its worth, I very rarely would give out my number before a meet, and do not phone, skype or cam. If thats what someone requires to believe I am not fake, then good for them, but I am not comfortable with it, and would not meet them - and my first meet is a local social...

Been told I am fake and a time waster for it - but I would far rather take my time and do something at my pace than do anything I feel wrong.

Listen to your intuition, and go with that."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Poke 'em with a stick. If it goes straight through you know they're fake.

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And if it doesn't you get to meet some very nice policemen and women so it's win win

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Get them to chat on cam, so you can ask them questions live, so they can't plan their responses, as written messaging allows. It may reinforce or quell your concerns.

Otherwise if I'm uncomfortable I take a break from someone.

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