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By *adybee77 OP Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I hate seeing it, it makes me cringe.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Lack of discretion that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like to see people talking about other meets. And I'd be annoyed if someone was talking about meeting me to someone else. I don't even like to displays verifications, I like to keep things private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

Certainly not. What goes on with me stays with me, unless there was a crowd watching and what they tell others is up to them. I'm not shy

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

No, it makes me cringe too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mention names but I do talk about things ive done with meets x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd only mention previous meets in the broadest sense and no details at all

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Our only concern when it comes to discretion is that we shouldn't be outed to friends,family and employers.

Cal

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

years ago on another site this bloke id met put up a blog describing every detail of it I went crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not acceptable to talk about other meets, once spent a social evening with a couple, and they spent the whole night talking about other folk, was cringeworthy. Thankfully they are no longer on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd only mention previous meets in the broadest sense and no details at all "

This

Though we have said good things about people who others have noticed in our verifications. But again, in broad terms. Nothing specific about our meets with them. Just that they are a nice person, worth a meet, that type of thing...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everymeet sound me kept to the ppl involved in think talking about a meet is ok if no names are mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it's general chat it does not bother me if people are talking about somebody in particular I don't like that

on meet I may laugh and joke about weird/funny experiences I have had along the way but would never single anybody out or name names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?"

Lots.

"Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?"

Not really.

"Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

Why would anyone?

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Some need to look up the meaning of discretion in the dictionary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

You're still not getting one of me until I receive the blow job a day as promised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

I value it a lot and more recently than ever before.

I'd rather nothing discussed with anyone , apart from me and that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind people talking about me, i also like talking about previous meets. Then again i'm into cuckolding so i would like that.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Some need to look up the meaning of discretion in the dictionary.

there have been cringeworthy posts about people's sexual prowess, who has shagged who and who is going to be shagging

Discretion

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I only chat with one about my meets, which are mainly social meets. I never discuss names or details if we do go further.

It's mainly the kind of personality they have or if I liked their company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where verifications are concerned, yes I do prefer discretion. I don't want to see bragging about how many times someone made someone cum or other graphic details

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"No I don't like to see people talking about other meets. And I'd be annoyed if someone was talking about meeting me to someone else. I don't even like to displays verifications, I like to keep things private."

As you like to keep things private, would it be okay to talk to you, about you, if I ever get to meet you?!?

Or at least meet you somewhere with a balcony, stand on it and be allowed to shout at the top of my voice 'Anna fucking anon is in my room!' With a big 'whoop whoop' on the end and maybe a fist pump? Just the once?

I won't mention you ever again after that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

Highly

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Discussing general fab experiences is OK with me. Actual names and details of specific meets isn't something I'd appreciate, either from someone I'm chatting with with a _iew to meeting or knowing they were sharing details about me. Hence why when I write veris I don't go into graphic detail and I'm lucky no-one has ever written one like that about me. As for using previous meets as a selling point, I don't get that at all. I rarely read veris of those I want to meet in case it colours my own opinion about them in advance and I like to make my own mind up.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

You're still not getting one of me until I receive the blow job a day as promised

Ah what?! You said a fiver and a peck on the cheek would do you just fine! You're a cheeky cunt asking for more...Did I say I can't promise I won't stop there?!? Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

You're still not getting one of me until I receive the blow job a day as promised

Ah what?! You said a fiver and a peck on the cheek would do you just fine! You're a cheeky cunt asking for more...Did I say I can't promise I won't stop there?!? Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you like to keep things private, would it be okay to talk to you, about you, if I ever get to meet you?!?

I won't mention you ever again after that!

Maybe a little one

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

You're still not getting one of me until I receive the blow job a day as promised

Ah what?! You said a fiver and a peck on the cheek would do you just fine! You're a cheeky cunt asking for more...Did I say I can't promise I won't stop there?!? Haha!

As a possible future meet Scrum, you are breaking discretion rules! Discussing what is going to happen and causing folk distress cannot and will not be tolerated! (Save it for the veri and make sure I get 'sucks like a Henry'...dysons are shite!!!)

I command you to take this to a private reply!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My work demands complete discretion and privacy. It's second nature to me now.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd be upset if people didn't mention having met me.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

As you like to keep things private, would it be okay to talk to you, about you, if I ever get to meet you?!?

I won't mention you ever again after that!

Maybe a little one

WHOO...sorry, you said a little one, I'm getting carried away...whoop whoop!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Some need to look up the meaning of discretion in the dictionary.

there have been cringeworthy posts about people's sexual prowess, who has shagged who and who is going to be shagging

Discretion

I don't want to know who has put their sausage in someone's flange the same as I don't want no one knowing who I am having a sausage fest with and I would like to think that the meets ive had, have stayed between us and not a subject of pillow talk at their next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends. If it is just as a pulling tactic then no. Thats just creepy. If in discussion, you are talking about things you have tried, liked, disliked and so on then I think its fine as long as you dont give names away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about pictures

what's the difference between showing a verification or displaying a pic with your meets on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

You're still not getting one of me until I receive the blow job a day as promised

Ah what?! You said a fiver and a peck on the cheek would do you just fine! You're a cheeky cunt asking for more...Did I say I can't promise I won't stop there?!? Haha!

I command you to take this to a private reply!!!

Thats only cos Henry's have primative filters and Dysons are ace. But no one cleans the filters on their Dysons cos they are lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about pictures

what's the difference between showing a verification or displaying a pic with your meets on them?"

Any photos don't identify them, or even show much of them. You couldn't look at my profile and see from my photos who I've met.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

But what about pictures

what's the difference between showing a verification or displaying a pic with your meets on them?

Any photos don't identify them, or even show much of them. You couldn't look at my profile and see from my photos who I've met. "

As far as I can see you have had a meet with 2 hand Joe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about pictures

what's the difference between showing a verification or displaying a pic with your meets on them?

Any photos don't identify them, or even show much of them. You couldn't look at my profile and see from my photos who I've met. "

course you can cause he's got the same bedroom on his profile

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Isn't that what most verifications do anyway ?

It is indeed, it's the only reason I 'pull'!!! Makes paying for all the lovely veris worth it!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

You're still not getting one of me until I receive the blow job a day as promised

Ah what?! You said a fiver and a peck on the cheek would do you just fine! You're a cheeky cunt asking for more...Did I say I can't promise I won't stop there?!? Haha!

I command you to take this to a private reply!!!

Thats only cos Henry's have primative filters and Dysons are ace. But no one cleans the filters on their Dysons cos they are lazy."

Dysons are too lazy to clean out their own filters, it's like expecting someone else to douche you...

I'll change my own bag and come fully filtered and ready to suck thanks!!!!

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

But what about pictures

what's the difference between showing a verification or displaying a pic with your meets on them?

Any photos don't identify them, or even show much of them. You couldn't look at my profile and see from my photos who I've met. "

You could...I did!!! Putting a picture of someone on your profile that's unidentifiable is the same as talking about a meet but not mentioning names/usernames to me...a little bit is shared but still dickstreet! (I can't speeellllll!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about pictures

what's the difference between showing a verification or displaying a pic with your meets on them?

Any photos don't identify them, or even show much of them. You couldn't look at my profile and see from my photos who I've met.

course you can cause he's got the same bedroom on his profile

Yes but that's only because you knew where to look to see the same room

I had the exact same photo on my profile for ages as a man had on his (I don't anymore, because he's left the site). No one ever messaged me saying "I see you've met 'x'" which they did regularly when I used to display verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually had to sign the official secrets act

Generally I don't mind if my fab meets talk about me to other meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've actually had to sign the official secrets act

Generally I don't mind if my fab meets talk about me to other meets. "

I've signed it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. So perhaps I'm not as discreet as I think. What I'm getting at is that I dislike posts boasting about meets. Like there was one last week ostensibly about how many messages women get where the bloke just happened to drop in all about how he'd been fucking a fit young 29 year old brunette. I just find it a bit cringey. And a lot of verifications read the same to me.

I think that kind of thing is different to a shared photo. I could 'shop him out but it would spoil it. That photo is there because I think my bum looks good, not as a "look who I'm shagging!" advert.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"if it's general chat it does not bother me if people are talking about somebody in particular I don't like that

on meet I may laugh and joke about weird/funny experiences I have had along the way but would never single anybody out or name names "

This for me!

As long as names aren't mentioned, I don't see the issue with sharing experiences...in terms of family, friends, my 'real' life away from fab...that's where I really value discretion the most! For myself and the people I meet! Oh and about this bragging, veri lark, ones bragging is another ones explaining...one has the choice to show or hide and will choose what is best for oneself...each to their own as they say...oh and let's not forget preferences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Lots.

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Not really.

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?

Why would anyone?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

I think it's ok to mention how it went and maybe omg wow sort of things. Too much detail is a bit crass.

No I would not use it as a pulling techniques that's even more crass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a page out in my local paper & give a graphic account of my meets with names & photographs.

It's very popular.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

My past is history and I'd be uninterested in hearing about others. It's private so discretion is essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. So perhaps I'm not as discreet as I think. What I'm getting at is that I dislike posts boasting about meets. Like there was one last week ostensibly about how many messages women get where the bloke just happened to drop in all about how he'd been fucking a fit young 29 year old brunette. I just find it a bit cringey. And a lot of verifications read the same to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion totally.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Respect and trust are major values to me, discretion by its nature is linked into these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some need to look up the meaning of discretion in the dictionary.

there have been cringeworthy posts about people's sexual prowess, who has shagged who and who is going to be shagging

Discretion

They are at it again.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Discretion?

Do you think it is acceptable to talk about other meets on fab?

Would you use a previous meet as part of your "pulling" technique on here?"

I'm dreadful.

I won't use names or ids or anything but it will all come out as some dreadfully droll anecdote about that time when...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind people talking about meeting us at all . It happens all the time and I guess we have reached an almost legendary status at the local dogging spots . So it's inevevitable . Infact we would think we had done something wrong if they didn't !

To be honest , it saves a load of wasted time having to chat and get to know people first , as our reputation precedes us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take a page out in my local paper & give a graphic account of my meets with names & photographs.

It's very popular."

Shit. Do you!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take a page out in my local paper & give a graphic account of my meets with names & photographs.

It's very popular.

Shit. Do you!?

Yep, check the Get Reading website tomorrow. Makes very interesting reading

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