FabSwingers.com forum: Not performing particular sex acts...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don't perform on a unicycle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't perform on a unicycle"

I don't know, unicycle sex would be a first for BGT...

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By *punky monkeyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?"

can you specify which act?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can you specify which act?

Well, blow jobs... I'm not attacking your thread, it just gave me the idea & I didn't want to hijack your thread

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It would depend on the act really. If a guy said he didn't like giving oral then that's great cos I'm not a fan of receiving it. If he didn't like fingering, there'd be an issue!

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By *punky monkeyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

personally I wouldnt if she didnt suck cock, swallowing I'm not too bothered about.

Anal take it or leave it, I wouldnt say that was a deal breaker however if she was just missionary position I could see sex getting a bit boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm not a fan of ducking dick tbh.

Love eating pussy - drives me wile.

Cocks, meh!

You know, if you're hot I might reciprocate but...

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

"personally I wouldnt if she didnt suck cock, swallowing I'm not too bothered about.

Anal take it or leave it, I wouldnt say that was a deal breaker however if she was just missionary position I could see sex getting a bit boring.

This guy obviously knows my wife !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx"

All the men I've slept with have known my situation & they've accepted it, didn't push it or put me down for it.

However I have done it twice with one person, he still understood it wasn't a given, and when I couldn't do it at a later date he didn't push the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the act, there are some things I really like such as water sports, foot play, pegging etc but I don't insist on them if the guy don't like any or all that's fine, kissing and oral is a must for me though if a guy didn't kiss, give or receive oral I wouldn't meet

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By *punky monkeyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx

All the men I've slept with have known my situation & they've accepted it, didn't push it or put me down for it.

However I have done it twice with one person, he still understood it wasn't a given, and when I couldn't do it at a later date he didn't push the issue. "

Pushing down on a woman can be wrong, i generally find a sucker punch to solar plexus and they soon go down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't is very different to wouldn't.

I'd want to know the reasons why before meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couldn't is very different to wouldn't.

I'd want to know the reasons why before meeting them."

Yeah, mine's very much a can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they would other things to offer

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx

All the men I've slept with have known my situation & they've accepted it, didn't push it or put me down for it.

However I have done it twice with one person, he still understood it wasn't a given, and when I couldn't do it at a later date he didn't push the issue.

Pushing down on a woman can be wrong, i generally find a sucker punch to solar plexus and they soon go down

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Kind of feel if people are closed and unwilling to explore their boundaries, it limits play. This wouldn't appeal to me, however each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would still meet someone if they couldn't, or even wouldn't, perform certain sex acts. There is always something different to enjoy.

However, I would have a hard time meeting someone who really enjoyed something I'm not willing to do. For example, I don't like receiving oral. If a guy was very very into giving oral, I would think twice about meeting him simply because I would feel like I wasn't what he really wanted. If that makes any sense...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would depend on the act really. If a guy said he didn't like giving oral then that's great cos I'm not a fan of receiving it. If he didn't like fingering, there'd be an issue! "

Wow u don't like reviving oral ? Why not ? If u don't mind me asking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all. "

Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would still meet someone if they couldn't, or even wouldn't, perform certain sex acts. There is always something different to enjoy.

-Courtney "

No, no that makes sense. It's like someone who only enjoys bondage meeting someone who's strictly vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you

Cucumbers work better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone didn't want to do something that'd never be a deal breaker. We would always respect people's boundaries. However, if someone was adamant that they had to do something, like us rimming them or them peeing on us, that'd be where we walked away

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you

Cucumbers work better

Are these japes because I'm a veggie? The only thing that goes up my Virgin pert bot is someone's eager tongue. Not too weird for a guy I think. Or anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would still meet someone if they couldn't, or even wouldn't, perform certain sex acts. There is always something different to enjoy.

-Courtney

No, no that makes sense. It's like someone who only enjoys bondage meeting someone who's strictly vanilla."

Exactly!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone said they didn't like giving or receiving oral it would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you

Cucumbers work better

Are these japes because I'm a veggie? The only thing that goes up my Virgin pert bot is someone's eager tongue. Not too weird for a guy I think. Or anyone. "

A veggie? Now wonder you don't want some meat up your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx"

As always a gentleman x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I could meet people who left stuff out that I like.....so long as a lot of it was left in.....I wouldn't meet someone didn't kiss though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx

As always a gentleman x"
Thankyou I do try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you

Cucumbers work better

Are these japes because I'm a veggie? The only thing that goes up my Virgin pert bot is someone's eager tongue. Not too weird for a guy I think. Or anyone.

A veggie? Now wonder you don't want some meat up your arse

I'm a veggie and I'm not adverse to a bit of meat up my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that not doing one thing I enjoyed would be a deal breaker.

Not wanting to do anything I enjoyed possibly could be.

Although I'm always happy to meet socially because I'm a people person and enjoy getting to know people,if that makes sense.

An ex girlfriend enjoyed performing oral sex but never wanted to swallow. Didn't affect our relationship at all.

It's all about mutual respect and pleasure isn't it? Or am I just olde fashioned?

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I wouldn't care, if I had to marry them it might be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet if they don't kiss. Like it too much to not have it at a meet and it just makes a meet feel sterile and regimented. For us anyhoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I am the only one here who would not do scat

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

If someone isn't into all of the exact same things as me then it's fine and vice versa; there are things I like but couldn't possibly do all of them in one session anyway. There are some things I absolutely hate doing so why wouldn't I respect the same in others? The only issue would be if they had a massive list of nos that I would say yes to and vice versa in which case we simply aren't compatible. Or if kissing was out. I love kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I am the only one here who would not do scat"

Yep, the only one

-Courtney

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

If it was just one aspect then it wouldnt matter to me.... (unless the no-no was oral...I can't do without that...lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, I know it's not a sex act but no kissing is a deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they won't kiss. "

Ya it's too weird without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me not taking cock in my pussy. Still getting offers mentioning they like oral but not sure if they're expecting suck and go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what sex act you mean. If it meant no penetration, no kissing, yes it would be, if she wasn't keen on sucking me, or me licking her, probably not, I'd be dissapointed, because I love giving oral, like taking too but can live without it, guess I'm just a giving sort of guy lol

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