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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Who do you think should make the first move on here.

Should it always be the guys that ask the ladies and the couples.

Because it seems to me that very few guys ever get ask or sent a message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it shouldn't be the guy all the time, Iv made the first move a few times and sometimes been knocked back, it doesn't bother me, you win some you lose some.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I've made the first move a few times but most I see that I like are far far away so I'm content to just perv their galleries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it shouldn't be the guy all the time, Iv made the first move a few times and sometimes been knocked back, it doesn't bother me, you win some you lose some. "

Love you make the first move on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been contacted by a few ladies on here so it does happen yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never message first to be honest....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'd rather message first

I know what I like and I'm not scared of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it shouldn't be the guy all the time, Iv made the first move a few times and sometimes been knocked back, it doesn't bother me, you win some you lose some.

Love you make the first move on me."

I don't message people with no profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged first, although mostly woman and couples. Men are too much like hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I made the first move on someone in the real world was 20-odd years ago. Things have probably moved on since then.

On Fab, chatting and messages makes it Dar easier for people to approach each other.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

In person, I'll happily make the first move.

On t'internet, it's better to have the other person make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it should always be the guy that makes the first move

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