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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps I'm a little naive but why are people so quick to judge someone with no verifications...

Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

Frustrating that the minority of time wasters on here have ruined it for the genuine good guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the chat room and get cam verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No 1 ruins it for anyone. I wont meet unverified guys, or ladies. I like to see atleast photo verification or a cam very. They are both really easy to do.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Perhaps I'm a little naive but why are people so quick to judge someone with no verifications...

Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

Frustrating that the minority of time wasters on here have ruined it for the genuine good guys!! "

Not everyone cares about veris.

Not everyone cares about who people have met/how many before them.

Nobody ruins anything for anyone else - just themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a number of people without verifications. They certainly help, but they, or the lack thereof, have never stopped us if we like someone.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simply because we are wankers who happen to know they are all wankers , because everyone is a wanker,,,,,

Oh-yeah wankers of the world unite....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

And that's not at all judgemental is it?

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By *parklesglitzWoman
over a year ago

Mancs

"Perhaps I'm a little naive but why are people so quick to judge someone with no verifications...

Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

Frustrating that the minority of time wasters on here have ruined it for the genuine good guys!! "

No I don't judge people, I find it easier to just go to a club a meet and than meet 121

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I judge all the time & it has served me well. If that irritates, hey that's a bonus

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"I judge all the time & it has served me well. If that irritates, hey that's a bonus"

Beat me to it! ALL humans judge others and situation all the time! It is how we function. I love it when people say they don't judge, we then take everything they say with a large pinch of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met plenty of guys without veris. But tbh guys with loads of veris make me wanna meet them more than those without, i like experienced guys who are polite and if their veris reflect this then i'm more likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me, it means its their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, some men ruin it for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge the only thing is is if you have been on here for sometime and not verified then you may get asked why or if there is anyway we can verify

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We are more likely to meet people who have been recently verified - it shows us that they have and do meet....this apples to single guys and couples. We would meet unverified people because everyone has to start somewhere but we would be more wary - that's our choice and we are fine with it - if you aren't that's your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are more likely to meet people who have been recently verified - it shows us that they have and do meet....this apples to single guys and couples. We would meet unverified people because everyone has to start somewhere but we would be more wary - that's our choice and we are fine with it - if you aren't that's your choice

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Can I ask about single women? lol.

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Can I ask about single women? lol."

Same applies

we know it is easier for single women and couples to get verified than single guys....if you are a single woman or couple and have been on for ages without meeting anyone we would probably not meet you - basically because all you have to do is rock up to a club and smile to get a veri - not difficult so no reason for you not to be veri'd after a couple of months

Now you......if we are ever near to your bush we will definitely be meeting up with you - it would be rude not to

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Perhaps I'm a little naive but why are people so quick to judge someone with no verifications...

Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

Frustrating that the minority of time wasters on here have ruined it for the genuine good guys!! "
Time wasters don't do any harm and in many cases verifications are completely meaningless. You sell yourself on fab by having a good well written profile and interesting pictures . Time wasters have no impact on your success nor do verifications .Your just need to be an interesting person with good pictures and have a life outside fab. You can only have sex for a very small part of your life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask about single women? lol.

Same applies

Now you......if we are ever near to your bush we will definitely be meeting up with you - it would be rude not to

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That's good point a its easier for women and yes I seen as well few who aint been veried for over a year.

And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Frank Sinatra - That's Life

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIiUqfxFttM

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

Oh we will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I use the site, happy to be corrected on this, but I doubt its very often that the ladies I talk to get half way through a conversation and stop to check that I'm verified.

Instead they get to know and trust me for themselves, rather than through someone else's verification.

Meeting someone for the first time at short notice isn't something I do. If it was meeting on those sort of terms I can see verifications being more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

THE bush? Is there a designated milking bush?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I judge all the time & it has served me well. If that irritates, hey that's a bonus

Beat me to it! ALL humans judge others and situation all the time! It is how we function. I love it when people say they don't judge, we then take everything they say with a large pinch of salt!

exactly, we all do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

THE bush? Is there a designated milking bush? "
Yes there are lol, its an discreet bush in the park

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Perhaps I'm a little naive but why are people so quick to judge someone with no verifications...

Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

Frustrating that the minority of time wasters on here have ruined it for the genuine good guys!! "

Haha! In what way do other people spoil your experiences on fab?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have met people with a verification before,i use my own judgement on a person .

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I have met people with a verification before,i use my own judgement on a person ."

I meant without a verrification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps I'm a little naive but why are people so quick to judge someone with no verifications...

Surely it's a good thing if you haven't slept with half of fab??

Frustrating that the minority of time wasters on here have ruined it for the genuine good guys!! "

Maybe I shouldn't, but I'm a little wary when some blokes have been on for over 6 months and not 1 one veri.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

THE bush? Is there a designated milking bush? "

Are you coming too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have met people with a verification before,i use my own judgement on a person .

I meant without a verrification."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I shouldn't, but I'm a little wary when some blokes have been on for over 6 months and not 1 one veri. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

THE bush? Is there a designated milking bush?

Are you coming too?

Oh oh! Can I come? I've heard quite a bit about this bush. I would quite like to see it...and the six pack of course. I'm a sucker for a six pack

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive meet a few non veried but that was when I was new to fab n was still in my honeymoon phase now im more fussy and not as desperate hahaha

I did verify my best mate as a real person I don't no wot shes like in the sack

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

THE bush? Is there a designated milking bush?

Are you coming too?

Oh oh! Can I come? I've heard quite a bit about this bush. I would quite like to see it...and the six pack of course. I'm a sucker for a six pack

-Courtney"

I feel a party happening......everyone is most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And ty yes if your near the bush make sure to pop by

THE bush? Is there a designated milking bush?

Are you coming too?

Oh oh! Can I come? I've heard quite a bit about this bush. I would quite like to see it...and the six pack of course. I'm a sucker for a six pack

-Courtney

I feel a party happening......everyone is most welcome

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Yes I fell the same, will be lots of activities at the bush

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Honestly, we too would question how genuine you were, having been on here over a year with no verifications.

It's not about how many/few people you've shagged, it's essentially a re_iew from others who have experienced your company who confirm that you are who you say you are and you actually turn up to meets.

It's not fool-proof but with such little time to play, we would choose a well-verified member over a non-verified one.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People have had experiences on this and other places that have influenced them to rely on some elements of a validation system. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with those falling outside of that boundary, merely that they feel safer trusting the perceived reliability of a fab verified user. They will invest their time, money and losses to potential security by meeting and verified users can be seen as offering the better value for their investment and lower security risk.

Some of us have kids, so we're potentially exposing people we care for to security risks too. Otherwise a lot of us resist people who are cheating.

I've met people sexually and socially and always been happy to verify people that I trust and rate highly. But it's not a guarantee for others, just a reflection of my experience and thoughts.

Get more widely known, socialise and invest in your fab identity. Trusting verifications is unlikely to disappear.

Good luck!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I judge all the time & it has served me well. If that irritates, hey that's a bonus"

Goes for me too

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