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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would you be prepared to tell in order to keep a friendship?

Rating : Half serious ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont.

if someone for some reason believes a story from someone else and not you side.

then they are no friend at all.

better off without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to lie to keep friends then there is something wrong.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"would you be prepared to tell in order to keep a friendship?

Rating : Half serious ..."

I have never shagged your sister / best mate / mother (delete as applicable)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What about the little compliments we pay to people that we perhaps do not really mean?

I am curious to find out what people consider acceptable - personally I would be too straight to tell fibs and anybody who knows me would tell from my face anyway, so could not get away with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would you be prepared to tell in order to keep a friendship?

Rating : Half serious ...

I have never shagged your sister / best mate / mother (delete as applicable)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never lie to a friend...I may withhold information I believe that the knowledge would cause more harm than good or would cause pain, but even that is limited and I can't think of any time I'd had to go with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yerrrrr my bum does look big in this"...

Dont need anyone to lie about THAT!!!

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Yerrrrr my bum does look big in this"...

Dont need anyone to lie about THAT!!!

Lmao "

That was the kind of thing I was after...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't lie to my best friend....for a start I'd laugh at any lie I'd need to tell her and secondly, she could spot it a mile away and would then proceed straight to skelping me one round the heid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...anybody who knows me would tell from my face anyway, so could not get away with it"

Fib away... I aint lookin' at yer face...

Course you aren't late... Only been here a couple of minutes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no it doesn't"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I would never lie to a friend...I may withhold information I believe that the knowledge would cause more harm than good or would cause pain, but even that is limited and I can't think of any time I'd had to go with that.

"
Have to agree with you there, although i have never found myself in that position...yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't lie to my best friend....for a start I'd laugh at any lie I'd need to tell her and secondly, she could spot it a mile away and would then proceed straight to skelping me one round the heid!"

that s precisely what I mean..my mates would just know....!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't lie to my best friend....for a start I'd laugh at any lie I'd need to tell her and secondly, she could spot it a mile away and would then proceed straight to skelping me one round the heid!

that s precisely what I mean..my mates would just know....!!!! "

Even her hubby has gotten wise to me fibbing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't lie to my best friend....for a start I'd laugh at any lie I'd need to tell her and secondly, she could spot it a mile away and would then proceed straight to skelping me one round the heid!

that s precisely what I mean..my mates would just know....!!!!

Even her hubby has gotten wise to me fibbing! "

tis your honest face , you know

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I would never lie to a friend...I may withhold information I believe that the knowledge would cause more harm than good or would cause pain, but even that is limited and I can't think of any time I'd had to go with that.

"

Yep... if you can't be honest it's best to say nothing... until asked.

If they are a friend you should be able to be honest with them.

If your friendship relies on you having to lie to maintain it.... what sort of friendship is it and what sort of person are you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also if you tell people what you think and openly speak your mind your called a wanker.

so you cannot win whatever.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"also if you tell people what you think and openly speak your mind your called a wanker.

so you cannot win whatever."
i wouldnt say that at all, honesty is a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't lie to my best friend....for a start I'd laugh at any lie I'd need to tell her and secondly, she could spot it a mile away and would then proceed straight to skelping me one round the heid!

that s precisely what I mean..my mates would just know....!!!!

Even her hubby has gotten wise to me fibbing!

tis your honest face , you know

"

It's my downfall!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would you be prepared to tell in order to keep a friendship?

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If a friend confided in me something and asked me not to repeat..... then i never would.This however is totally different from some one actually asking you to lie for them. Iwould always discuss before them first, and if i disagreed with them i would also tell them my thoughts. I feel if you are a true friend you can always say what is on your mind, even if you don't agree, thats true friendship......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also if you tell people what you think and openly speak your mind your called a wanker.

so you cannot win whatever.i wouldnt say that at all, honesty is a good point "

thank you very much. honest

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The only time ive lied to my best friend in 25 years was over her surprise 50th and it was a killer. But i would never lie to keep a friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much prefer to say nothing than lie to a Friend, though that has got me into trouble in the past

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Over 95% of what comes out of my mouth is outrageous lies.

My friends have learned to accept it and humour me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 95% of what comes out of my mouth is outrageous lies.

My friends have learned to accept it and humour me."

Honestly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"also if you tell people what you think and openly speak your mind your called a wanker.

so you cannot win whatever."

Actually I can really see your point - with sensitive people you have to choose your wrosd carefully. Personally I prefer being told the straight truth rather than euphemisms masking the facts.

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