FabSwingers.com forum: Comfort zone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you do things out of your comfort zone?

I'm very much a girl that knows what she likes and doesn't like.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm always up for trying anything once, generally speaking. That's the only way to find out if you like it or not. If you're talking sex though, then there's obviously a few things I won't do or even try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think adventure can be fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always up for trying anything once, generally speaking. That's the only way to find out if you like it or not. If you're talking sex though, then there's obviously a few things I won't do or even try!"

I'm talking anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll try most things once however there are a few things that are just a no....end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never say never.

Who knows what you'll like until you try it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking anything."

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never say never.

Who knows what you'll like until you try it?"

some things you just know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it "

I live being tied up and being blindfolded, but ask to to take me to dinner and I get uneasy

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh God yes.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm talking anything."

I think sometimes you've just got to give it a go. Life's too short. It's good to go outside your comfort zone from time to time. Gets the adrenalin flowing.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

'No great art without great suffering" it is said

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

In the words of the immortal Thomas Beecham -

"Try everything once except for incest and country dancing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it

I live being tied up and being blindfolded, but ask to to take me to dinner and I get uneasy "

I'm afraid I don't have that level of trust in people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it "

That's what I love about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the words of the immortal Thomas Beecham -

"Try everything once except for incest and country dancing" "

stop eyeing my dog up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

I think sometimes you've just got to give it a go. Life's too short. It's good to go outside your comfort zone from time to time. Gets the adrenalin flowing."

And my nervous system goes through the roof!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it

That's what I love about it!

yeah but I'm talking they could beat you up etc stub fags out on you

I mean there are some weirdos out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you do things out of your comfort zone?"

Not often I get the chance to do something new. So when I do, I like to think I say "yes" more often than "no".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it

That's what I love about it!

yeah but I'm talking they could beat you up etc stub fags out on you

I mean there are some weirdos out there. "

In that situation I go with my gut, ok, I know anything could happen, but I guess it's what I'm used too.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm talking anything.

I think sometimes you've just got to give it a go. Life's too short. It's good to go outside your comfort zone from time to time. Gets the adrenalin flowing.

And my nervous system goes through the roof!! "

Start with tiny things at first and build it up. They say you should do something everyday that scares you. I thinks thats a good philosophy to have.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"yeah but I'm talking they could beat you up etc stub fags out on you

I mean there are some weirdos out there. "

Ain't *that* the truth :/

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I am a risky, non-risk taker.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I sail close to the wind for a living

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you do things out of your comfort zone?

Not often I get the chance to do something new. So when I do, I like to think I say "yes" more often than "no". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you do things out of your comfort zone?

I'm very much a girl that knows what she likes and doesn't like.

Yes... sometimes I have thought wow... othertimes.. God never again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sail close to the wind for a living

Enlighten me Johnny

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I sail close to the wind for a living

Enlighten me Johnny

If I told you that, the thread would be taken down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sail close to the wind for a living

Enlighten me Johnny

If I told you that, the thread would be taken down

Ahhhh come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sail close to the wind for a living

Enlighten me Johnny

If I told you that, the thread would be taken down

So you are eyeing my dog up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people pushing me out of my comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it

That's what I love about it!

yeah but I'm talking they could beat you up etc stub fags out on you

I mean there are some weirdos out there. "

I've never played kinky without my trusted partner there. I trust R knows me and my limits better than I do.

Love having my limits pushed. It's part of the fun of life for me x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I like people pushing me out of my comfort zone "

That's fightin' talk

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Let's just say I've plumbed the depths and some of my best anecdotes - like escaping from Brazilian police on drugs charges or what I got up to for my last birthday - would end in the thread being taken down.

Suffice to say, I've been in more prisons and crack dens than you might imagine... although I hold an MA in Ancient History from one of the top universities on the planet and I once passed myself off as a Lord at the Supreme Court.

Can't take me anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do try things out of my comfort zone with the right person/s.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let's just say I've plumbed the depths and some of my best anecdotes - like escaping from Brazilian police on drugs charges or what I got up to for my last birthday - would end in the thread being taken down.

Can't take me anywhere

Your a bad boy! I'd never have guessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't take me anywhere

You can buy the title Lord pretty cheaply.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Can't take me anywhere

You can buy the title Lord pretty cheaply."

I stole his name tag from the desk while the recpetionist was distracted and put it on.

"Tonight Matthew I'm gonna be....

Lord Listowel!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try most things once and if I like it then I will do it again x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I take assessed risks and have been doing lots of new things this year. Some I have enjoyed, others have been one-offs I never want to repeat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take assessed risks and have been doing lots of new things this year. Some I have enjoyed, others have been one-offs I never want to repeat.

What wouldn't you want to repeat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im up for trying new things, but there are a couple of things i know i wouldnt enjoy so would never try

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Met a handsome, scatty young lad last year in London. Did a real number on him - took him to the Portrait Gallery first, for the icebreaker, then treated him to a few cocktails at the American Bar at the Savoy...

Cut a long story short...

Ended up getting off with him, hammer and tongs/tongues for 20/25 mins in the middle of Piccadilly Circus to the extent that I undid his trousers and played with his cock in front of a bunch of shocked tourists hehe

He was putty in my hands after that.

Made him 2hrs late to meet his friends *and* he came over for 'breakfast' the next day and I made him late for work.

Teehee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met a handsome, scatty young lad last year in London. Did a real number on him - took him to the Portrait Gallery first, for the icebreaker, then treated him to a few cocktails at the American Bar at the Savoy...

Cut a long story short...

He was putty in my hands after that.

Made him 2hrs late to meet his friends *and* he came over for 'breakfast' the next day and I made him late for work.

Teehee"

You could write a bloody book!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"You could write a bloody book!

You wouldn't be the first to suggest that and, in all honesty, I have written a book but it's about Burning Man

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Like pushing boundaries, that sensation you get and the knowledge you get from knowing you are expanding your world is a little addictive.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've enriched my life by exploring potentially outside of my comfort zone. I've had major growth from doing so - not just talking sexually. I have specific boundaries that I've no intention of crossing.

There's a special thrill from stepping outside, something in addition to the pleasure of what you're actually doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm so used to a certain way of meeting I get really really nervous meeting any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm talking anything.

being tied up is way out of my comfort zone I always think once I'm tied up they could do anything to me and I'm totally defenceless

I get a little uneasy thinking about it "

Feel the same way. Really don't like not having some control over a situation

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Feel the same way. Really don't like not having some control over a situation "

Control is an illusion - you don;t even have control over your own breathing

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Depends who I'm with...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I take assessed risks and have been doing lots of new things this year. Some I have enjoyed, others have been one-offs I never want to repeat.

What wouldn't you want to repeat? "

Drinking coffee and tea.

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