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"Been on Fab 6 months. had some nice messages, friends invites and winks. But can't seem to write reply/message myself. Spend hours writing, then bottle it and delete. Seems, online, I become a tongue tied teenager. I get put off by "No one liners, No rambling stories, no this, that and the other!!" Most people on here seem very nice, and the forums are great. They have me laughing out loud.Which is good for my soul, if not my sex life. So thanks to you all, but think I should go back to old fashioned chatting up in pubs etc. I feel much more at home face to face. perhaps I should stay, just for the Lounge...would that be odd...? " See what you did when you wrote this post? Just do that. Who cares if you get knocked back there's 20,000 people on a day that's like 50 years worth of messages | |||
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"As others have said use the forums get to know our mad ways as we will get to know you maybe when your ready attend a social im sure someone would hold your Hand if your nervous xx" Good advice | |||
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"See... I said you were nice people, appreciate it all " I think people generally are and agree with you regarding speaking with people face to face...guess I am old fashioned too. | |||
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"Anybody elses _iews most welcome " I'm more relaxed, happier and more myself now I'm not actively chasing, searching and hoping. Friendships and relationships develop more naturally with the right people over time when they aren't forced. What you suggest sounds like a good plan. Good luck with what you decide. | |||
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"Anybody elses _iews most welcome " Stop,spending so much time thinking and spend some time doing . You say you have have had experience , including dogging . Check out local meets and make yourself available for suitable ones . You look and sound fine so meet some local people and get verified . This will get the ball rolling . Or do what so many others on the forums do , put not meeting on your profile and just use the forums . Your choice . There are plenty that would meet a guy like you , and the necessity to compose long messages is less so if you message those looking to meet now or later in the day . Good luck | |||
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"Been on Fab 6 months. had some nice messages, friends invites and winks. But can't seem to write reply/message myself. Spend hours writing, then bottle it and delete. Seems, online, I become a tongue tied teenager. I get put off by "No one liners, No rambling stories, no this, that and the other!!" Most people on here seem very nice, and the forums are great. They have me laughing out loud.Which is good for my soul, if not my sex life. So thanks to you all, but think I should go back to old fashioned chatting up in pubs etc. I feel much more at home face to face. perhaps I should stay, just for the Lounge...would that be odd...? " Your 'go back to old fashioned chatting up in pubs' line infers that you stopped that for Fab. Why? I've always enjoyed approaching women in public, Fab could never replace that for me. I've always seen Fab as an add on to dip in and out of now and then. Maybe that approach would suit you? | |||
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"I cannot believe the kind responses I've had, was nervous about starting this, thought I might get negative replys. I've read some posts that slag off men.. or women.. or couples for various reasons! well, I can safely say that, not only do you all cheer me up, through the forums, but you are all most supportive. I will take all advice, as it was given,thoughfully, many thanks " Arrrr piss off ya big softy | |||
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"Wow... thanks to you all!! Chellsterfem. I will deffo take your advice, will look for social meets in my area later... but first... to the pub, to chat where I feel comfy. Your'e all a great bunch x" Hun you will be fine. Find a social and just chat like you would in the pub. That's the secret to being successful on here, sadly many men don't want to go down that route. Enjoy!! | |||
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"I cannot believe the kind responses I've had, was nervous about starting this, thought I might get negative replys. I've read some posts that slag off men.. or women.. or couples for various reasons! well, I can safely say that, not only do you all cheer me up, through the forums, but you are all most supportive. I will take all advice, as it was given,thoughfully, many thanks " Great thread OP. Good luck. | |||
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