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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

An ice cold type of person or do you have your heart on show? I wear my heart on my sleeve which I think is one of my bad traits as it possibly gets abused a bit over the years...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I pretty much wear my heart on my sleeve but can turn ice cold in an instant

Once thats happened it's never the same

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I pretty much wear my heart on my sleeve but can turn ice cold in an instant

Once thats happened it's never the same "

Yeah I can be like that too I think it's self preservation

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I believe I am a warm hearted human being but I have little tolerance for bleating type people.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

I have a good heart and it shows it has been abused often, however sometimes I see it and let it happen but get to stage where I will stop it

after that I can have a very cold heart if you abuse it

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I believe I am a warm hearted human being but I have little tolerance for bleating type people.

"

You are a lively soul _iew

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Situationally dependant.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I believe I am a warm hearted human being but I have little tolerance for bleating type people.

You are a lively soul _iew "

And lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be very heart on sleeve. Got burnt badly, then taken the piss out of so now more ice Queen.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I tend to show my feelings... Life is too short to spend it wondering what would have happened if whoever had really known how I felt

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I believe I am a warm hearted human being but I have little tolerance for bleating type people.

You are a lively soul _iew

And lovely "

and you too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I pretty much wear my heart on my sleeve but can turn ice cold in an instant

Once thats happened it's never the same

Yeah I can be like that too I think it's self preservation "

I don't think of it as self preservation though

I think of it as fuck off you're pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to show my feelings... Life is too short to spend it wondering what would have happened if whoever had really known how I felt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ice cold but I do think I tend to keep everything to close to my chest until I get to know the person well enough.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I pretty much wear my heart on my sleeve but can turn ice cold in an instant

Once thats happened it's never the same

Yeah I can be like that too I think it's self preservation

I don't think of it as self preservation though

I think of it as fuck off you're pointless "

that as well I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you be both?

I'm fairly unemotional, but I show what I feel.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I show my feelings - I'm not the kind of guy who bottles things up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pretty much wear my heart on my sleeve but can turn ice cold in an instant

Once thats happened it's never the same "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of both I don't show feelings as much as I used to ,don't want them thrown.back at me

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've been told I'm too caring before and that I should be a bit harder more of a bitch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With friends and family, especially my children I am very much "heart on my sleeve". Strangers and people on this site I play it cool and keep it guarded. You can't be too careful when you have little ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I've been told I'm too caring before and that I should be a bit harder more of a bitch... "

Never be something you're not

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I'm too open, and think everyone will think like me, sadly not the case, but you have to be receptive to those who are likeminded...(fingers crossed!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of pole call me the ice maiden as I sometimes do come across as Ivey cold. But fo those who know me, they know that Iv got a warm heart beneath that frozen exterior. I suppose I'm the was I am is because for year I let people walk all over me. Then I got wise and toughened up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to be very heart on sleeve. Got burnt badly, then taken the piss out of so now more ice Queen. "

Says the woman who bathed (not literally) and fed me....your a bloody angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get attached to people very easily, but every now and then, I find someone I want to be more emotionally intimate with.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Ice cold but when you get to know me and I trust you I will be your friend for life

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm more of a heart-on-show kind of guy. Very sensitive and caring. Wish I could be a bit harder and harsher sometimes but it's just not me. Always like to try and see the good/beauty in people. I'm as soft as shit really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get with me. I have a big heart. I'm very open and caring and far too soft. I am not naive though and don't suffer fools gladly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm ice cold, but I can be a bit stiff upper lip.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm more of a heart-on-show kind of guy. Very sensitive and caring. Wish I could be a bit harder and harsher sometimes but it's just not me. Always like to try and see the good/beauty in people. I'm as soft as shit really."

Awwww

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I wouldn't say I'm ice cold, but I can be a bit stiff upper lip. "

That's what us British are renowned for the stiff upper lip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation I'm in! I can be quite cold

I can also blub at the slightest thing!

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Depends who I'm with. To start with I can come across as standoffish & cold but as I get to know someone I open up more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit shy as a child...but over the later part of life I very much wear my heart on my sleeve. I show what I feel....those I like and love know what I think. I guess some are not sure how to take it. I see a lady at work from time to time...she has always turned my head...and after sometime I have come out and told her that I think she is lovely and I want to date her. She hasn't accepted but I'm glad she knows she has an admirer....she's quite shy.

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