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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

"

No. Never.

A

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

No. Never.

A"

LOL

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By *eanut ButtaMan
over a year ago

London

That's a good question and you brought up some really interesting points.

My personal answer however would be a no.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

If you wait for the right person....and not rush in.

I met a girl on here and we were so well suited..it was awesome...

She emigrated to Canada but we still keep in touch and meet when she comes back on hols......

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

No. Never.

A"

I see you ignoring the thread.

OP, I'm fairly consistent with who I would meet and be attracted to here and off here - I don't have a set type and it's about my mind being engaged. When I'm in a club that filter is turned off so I might not consider them outside of the club environment and I!m pretty sure they wouldn't be interested in me with my clothes on and my legs closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dated a few from fab :o

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

The first thing is to have a physical attraction in the first place, be it on here or in vanilla land. If a relationship develops then is the time to see if you have anything else in common, I'm sure there are plenty on here that could fulfill both requirements.

Might have to shag half the site to find them though

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Do you think some people "shag" people on here that they wouldn't want to be caught in public with or would not normally consider approaching outside of fab?

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By *eanut ButtaMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you think some people "shag" people on here that they wouldn't want to be caught in public with or would not normally consider approaching outside of fab? "

Everyone here is different so it's hard to get a definitive answer on that. Some people here are in "Character" so maybe they would "shag" people on here that they wouldn't necessarily approach away from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

I have the same thing happen to me lol. I think maybe I look quite innocent on dating sites and they're quite shocked when they see me on here lol

What's that about? lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe this site is for that naughty specific reason so people for more comfortable perhaps who knows

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol"

I've had that exact thing happen with blokes from dating sites, read my messages and ignore me, yet on here they've messaged me! I quite politely reminded them I'd messaged them before and you get all sorts of excuses!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I would guess I'd fall for anyone that I met regularly enough to start really caring about . sometimes an acquaintance becomes a friend.. Becomes more than a friend

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol"

No offence OP but it's really quite simple. On a dating site men are looking for a shag with someone they'd possibly have a relationship with. On here they're just looking for a shag with anyone who's willing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't know but who I'd shag can readily be different to a dating partner - different qualities are attractive. But there can be crossover between the two groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol"

Yes, absolutely. They've clearly got something in common with me if they're on here.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Obviously it's massively different on here for couples to singles, but from an outsiders _iew this is how it looks to me:

The vast majority of men on here are just trying to get laid. Most will happily hook-up with "anybody". This is evident by the number of women who complain about the guys calling them Beautiful/Gorgeous/Stunning when in their own eyes they are far from it.

But .... if put in a dating/relationship scenario, these very same men would generally hold two hypocritical _iews on the ladies on here. Firstly, that they are all "tarts & slappers" because they "shag anything" and certainly not the virginal bride material that you'd introduce to mummy. Secondly, the same "Beautiful/Gorgeous/Stunning" ladies that they'd happily shag in secret are actually plain or ugly or god forbid even a little overweight.

Thankfully, there are some good folk out there too.

Cal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol

No offence OP but it's really quite simple. On a dating site men are looking for a shag with someone they'd possibly have a relationship with. On here they're just looking for a shag with anyone who's willing."

Some men. Some women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the OP, definitely no way.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol

Yes, absolutely. They've clearly got something in common with me if they're on here."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some guys are old fashioned still and see certain women as for sex purposes and different from settling down women. These guys probably cheat on their wives/gf with the 'sex' women.

I wouldn't rule out a relationship with someone promiscuous. I prefer someone who satisfies my kinks though so would look on a different site (and was doing a while back but found someone irl who does it for me).

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because on fab its about sex, on the other site its just dating or a coffee men don't wanna chat they wanna fuck lol.

I don't rule out dating either but more if they are a gilf with a garden

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Date or be attracted to someone you have met from Fab or swinging in the vanilla world?

I think that most of my meets or people that I'm talking to on fab are people that would not normally talk to me or approached me in a regular situation.

I say this because I have been on a regular dating site and have had the same type of guys (sometimes the exact same person) ignore and delete my message on the dating site, while showing me interest on here.

What's that about? lol"

My life is overflowing with freaks as it is, so little surprises me

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