FabSwingers.com forum: Appreciate yourself

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You only have one body, be proud of it. You can walk, talk, dance and laugh, get from A to B and back again. So you don't have big tits, a thigh gap, or a big cock whatever, does it matter? Enjoy what you have, make it work for you. Love what you have x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"You only have one body, be proud of it. You can walk, talk, dance and laugh, get from A to B and back again. So you don't have big tits, a thigh gap, or a big cock whatever, does it matter? Enjoy what you have, make it work for you. Love what you have x "

Very wise words

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Just so long as you don;t do it in a car and then post about it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right, the very same advice I offer to all who start threads saying 'do people prefer x or y?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does my bum look big in this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobodys perfect but so many people are happy!

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

Nice sentiment.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my bum look big in this?"
no but you're tits are mahoosive

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Nobodys perfect but so many people are happy!"

Is there such a thing as perfect??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my bum look big in this?no but you're tits are mahoosive

Still haven't wound me up or offended me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my bum look big in this?no but you're tits are mahoosive

Still haven't wound me up or offended me

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobodys perfect but so many people are happy!

Is there such a thing as perfect??"

Yes, but it's personal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Damn right, the very same advice I offer to all who start threads saying 'do people prefer x or y?'"

I can't say I never join in on those threads and I'll occasionally chime in with 'I'm big but happy' etc, even though I shouldn't really need to use the word 'but'. None of us need anyone else's approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does my bum look big in this?no but you're tits are mahoosive

Still haven't wound me up or offended me

Fancy a fuck?

How rude,didn't even say please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cos you know you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's cos you know you want to.

Just get me d*unk & I'm anybody's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's cos you know you want to.

Just get me d*unk & I'm anybody's

Will bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just appreciated myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very wise words OP.

I've always been happy with who I am.

OK, so I have a few extra pounds due to middle age spread that I would like to get rid of, but generally I'm comfortable in my own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did earlier... but you didn't seem to appreciate it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very wise words OP.

I've always been happy with who I am.

OK, so I have a few extra pounds due to middle age spread that I would like to get rid of, but generally I'm comfortable in my own skin

Just be comfortable. What's extra pounds? Nothing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just did earlier... but you didn't seem to appreciate it lol

Aha apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was honked at while walking down the road earlier. I feel appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was honked at while walking down the road earlier. I feel appreciated. "

Nice work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just appreciated myself."

I appreciated myself in the shower this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was honked at while walking down the road earlier. I feel appreciated.

Nice work "

I try, I try

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I appreciate the fact that I'm described as "nice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate the fact that I'm described as "nice"

I get confused by that. "You're nice" usually means (to me) you've been put in the friendzone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was honked at while walking down the road earlier. I feel appreciated. "

You wanna try the pavement!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I appreciate the fact that I'm described as "nice"

You should, nice is better than a hell of a lot of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was honked at while walking down the road earlier. I feel appreciated.

You wanna try the pavement!

Thats clearly where I was going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather make someone else make it work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good message. I'm trying to be better at this

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Well said. I am who I am and if people don't like it that's absolutely fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should all be taught that from an early age - beautifully said OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobodys perfect but so many people are happy!"

Speak for yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasion I need to remind myself how incredibly perfect I am, I simply locate the nearest reflective surface and marvel at my reflection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. You know what I think of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am jolly happy in the skin I am in

I have a jolly old time with the pooch and days like these make me happy to be me

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Learning to love what I've got!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the rare occasion I need to remind myself how incredibly perfect I am, I simply locate the nearest reflective surface and marvel at my reflection...

And so you should! Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reminded of the track released quite some time ago "everybody's free to wear sunscreen", some very wise words in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should all be taught that from an early age - beautifully said OP!"
Takes time to love yourself but when it happens it makes life look so different

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP. You know what I think of you.

Ah pops x everyone should think it of themselves!

I'm feeling a bit 'love thyself' right now is all. A friend had some devastating news recently regarding her vision and I'm thinking all these perceived flaws mean nothing don't they really? We should just all realise we are very lucky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For definate.

Everybody is sexy and attractive in their own right.

Many don't like the beard and bald hair look but I love it. Many didn't like the long hair and shaved face look either but I loved it.

Like I always say to everyone. We can all tell you how beautiful you look but if someone doesn't believe it themselves. It would mean nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see a positive sensibility. Well said OP. Too many negative posts on the forum sometimes. Feeling happy with oneself is not arrogant or vain.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A good philosophy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very wise words OP.

I've always been happy with who I am.

OK, so I have a few extra pounds due to middle age spread that I would like to get rid of, but generally I'm comfortable in my own skin

Just be comfortable. What's extra pounds? Nothing x "

Fair comment, but would you want to shag me? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't have to justify our looks, wouldnt life be hardwork if we all fancied the same types

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shouldn't have to justify our looks, wouldnt life be hardwork if we all fancied the same types"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For definate.

Everybody is sexy and attractive in their own right.

Many don't like the beard and bald hair look but I love it. Many didn't like the long hair and shaved face look either but I loved it.

Like I always say to everyone. We can all tell you how beautiful you look but if someone doesn't believe it themselves. It would mean nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so glad I read this. Been at the beach today and when I looked at a pic of myself I could have cried. I have piled the weight on whilst unwell and look awful.

In hindsight though I'm still here and can always loose it again when I'm back to full health.

Thank you Op xx

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Very wise words and as I as am down today very good advice thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit cheesy?

I do love myself and I don't need anyone to tell me to do it

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Lovely post OP

Bigger and more important things going on in the world to worry about than so-called physical imperfections

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit cheesy?

I do love myself and I don't need anyone to tell me to do it

Yeah totally cheesy. There are people who lose limbs, senses etc and then there's threads on here about thigh gaps. So yeah spot on. Have a word with yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lovely post OP

Bigger and more important things going on in the world to worry about than so-called physical imperfections "

Exactly the point I'm trying to make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lovely post OP

Bigger and more important things going on in the world to worry about than so-called physical imperfections

Exactly the point I'm trying to make

I thought it was ok to point out when people were being cheesy. You laughed at mine,I pointed out yours. As to people not being able to walk from a-b,I know first hand all about that. If you can't take criticism don't give it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lovely post OP

Bigger and more important things going on in the world to worry about than so-called physical imperfections

Exactly the point I'm trying to make

grow the hell up and don't try and spoil a nice thread with childish shit

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Christ, this could be the most sane post we've ever had on here!! Nice one OP. As someone once said...

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Christ, this could be the most sane post we've ever had on here!! Nice one OP. As someone once said...

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own."

You're quoting lines straight out of 'use sunscreen' there aren't you?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Christ, this could be the most sane post we've ever had on here!! Nice one OP. As someone once said...

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

You're quoting lines straight out of 'use sunscreen' there aren't you?

Indeed. 'The Sunscreen Song' or whatever it's called. I recommend people check it out. Quite inspirational stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Christ, this could be the most sane post we've ever had on here!! Nice one OP. As someone once said...

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

You're quoting lines straight out of 'use sunscreen' there aren't you?

Indeed. 'The Sunscreen Song' or whatever it's called. I recommend people check it out. Quite inspirational stuff."

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I love what I have, I just wish there was a bit less of me to love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love what I have, I just wish there was a bit less of me to love

Do what makes you happy then

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