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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious. I've seldom been mailed by anyone, more often it's me who sends the first message.

I know you ladies get inundated with mail, but do you make the first contact at all? Or just wait to see if you get mailed by someone you like the look of?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, I actively will make first contact with profiles who catch my eye.

Quite often ends in a knock back, but thats just part of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious. I've seldom been mailed by anyone, more often it's me who sends the first message.

I know you ladies get inundated with mail, but do you make the first contact at all? Or just wait to see if you get mailed by someone you like the look of? "

Yes, I drop people a mail if I like the look of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At least you get a response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i message and wink men on here and don't always get a response!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"At least you get a response! "

I take a delete with no reply as a knock back - as the FAQs on here suggest you do, so no I do not always get a response. Why should I?

I do not expect to respond to people who do not appeal to me, and do not expect anything from others in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. There's some really handsome guys that are out of my age range. If I want their attention I have to make the move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardily email anyone on the searches lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You get knock backs? You must be contact the blind, or criminally insane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster."

I've never had that pleasure!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster."

I know you do, I'm still sobbing in my cold cuppa from the last one you sent after I had logged off... but I am about to make up for it and send you a message a minute for the next hour... will see if the stalker approach works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now come on ladies...

You're over 400 miles apart.

I should know, used to drive to Aberdeen area regularly with work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will send a wink,to someone that interests me, if I get one back or a message then will reply and see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple, not a single lady (who I think you were asking?) but I can say we send out messages and get rejected/ignored at times. We don't really send them to single guys though. We used to when we first joined but have since found it is a wasted effort for the most part.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will send a wink,to someone that interests me, if I get one back or a message then will reply and see where it goes."

Some would consider that lazy, especially if it was me winking at you. I try to resist winking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feel free to wink at me tho, should you get an uncontrollable urge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster."

well done you!! its the only way they'll ever learn!..i do hope you also block them after the 3rd or 4th abusive message if they havent replied!...because that'll teach 'em!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It varies, as sometimes just being on the site means that there's barely a chance to breathe, without inundation. But some people stand out, so may wink and message them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to me you get more open chat and interaction on the forums than in chat rooms or messages.

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to wink at me tho, should you get an uncontrollable urge "

Nawh, I've not got me lazy head on today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will send mail out to profiles that catch our eye, and usually respond to most messages or winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a few messages out and ha e had positive feedback. ..and got a meet out of one

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I sometimes wink if I like someone or may send a brief message if they are within my age range/fairly local etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feel free to wink at me tho, should you get an uncontrollable urge

Nawh, I've not got me lazy head on today "

Lazy head! I asked for that.

Just as long as you've kept your fit bum on too

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

First Contact. Good movie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have been lucky enough to have been contacted first and its always nice to have someone make a play for you. Bit don't it give you a bog head until the day of the meet that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to wink at me tho, should you get an uncontrollable urge

Nawh, I've not got me lazy head on today

Lazy head! I asked for that.

Just as long as you've kept your fit bum on too "

Oh yes, the bum never leaves me.

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