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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think maybe I expect a little too much in the way of prospective meets.

I like a bit of banter with people... for me sex is all about having fun with it. I want to fuck people I like and who are entertaining and witty and not just there because a shag is a shag.

I suspect I know the answer (yes for the smart arses who can see I'm a fussy bugger) but is it too much to ask?

I don't want to marry them... I just want to have some sort of conversation that doesn't involve "how r u 2day?" sort of chat. I like a bit of cheek. Am I alone with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more! I'm s fussy bugger too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally with you... all the way... its gotta be fun....otherwise its not fun.... hmmm, that last bit seems to have got away from me.... but yep..... fun....agreed

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Not at all, this is as much about commuincating with people than having sex with them.

As do that, us a blowup doll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe I expect a little too much in the way of prospective meets.

I like a bit of banter with people... for me sex is all about having fun with it. I want to fuck people I like and who are entertaining and witty and not just there because a shag is a shag.

I suspect I know the answer (yes for the smart arses who can see I'm a fussy bugger) but is it too much to ask?

I don't want to marry them... I just want to have some sort of conversation that doesn't involve "how r u 2day?" sort of chat. I like a bit of cheek. Am I alone with that?"

I like a bit of banter and im a flirt and very fussy so if i arrange a meet they know im interested

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I just want a bit of cheek... some fun, a bit of naughty chatter and a little bit of banter about every day stuff. Nonsense. I didn't think it would be that difficult to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the ones that because we are on here we are desperate and gagging for it and that they are doing us a favour if they come fuck us grrrr.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some only have a wee bit of banter going for us...

that's it.

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"some only have a wee bit of banter going for us...

that's it."

A wee bit is a whole lot better than none though right?!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"some only have a wee bit of banter going for us...

that's it.

A wee bit is a whole lot better than none though right?! "

defo..... my banter is a grower not just a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I do banter with a hint of madness! I don't think you can take swinging too seriously to be honest!!

"I say old chap, may I possible have sexual congress with your good lady wife? You may, naturally, wish to observe our antics!"

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt "

This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt

This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after! "

Wavelength? Get with it people! I'm now Digital!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if I am honest, the banter is the main reason I am here... if I get to put my 'man train' into a 'female train tunnel' and/or the occasional 'man mouth depot'.... happy days.

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"if I am honest, the banter is the main reason I am here... if I get to put my 'man train' into a 'female train tunnel' and/or the occasional 'man mouth depot'.... happy days. "

Yeah this too... sometimes I just feel it's a little bit like pulling teeth arranging a meet. I want it to be exciting and fun and have a little bit of oomph going for it rather than the clinical arrangement of times and places.

*looks sadly at neglected train tunnel*

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt

This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after! "

Sex itself shouldn't be taken too seriously - that's not to say I expect people to always laugh at me when I'm naked but sometimes the positions we get in (or want someone in) means you have to ask some weird questions sometimes.

The forums are great for banter too although as with all forms of non-verbal comms it can be easy to get it wrong - tone of voice or facial expressions aren't picked up on. Not easy getting it right but fun trying.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Banter?

I prefer no joviality while I'm delivering the 'funky love'.

Also no eye contact.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

we just like the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I couldn't imagine being friends with them, I couldn't get intimate...got to be some wee tee-hee's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to tell jokes as we have sex....but by the time I have my trousers off you'd be laughing anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am another fussy one here!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"...got to be some wee tee-hee's. "

That sounds like a breakfast cereal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's one of the reasons why I always meet socially before playing.

I met a gorgeous man for coffee today: when I saw him waiting I upped it to lunch: his pictures didn't do him justice! We spent three hours chatting getting to know each other and we talked about sex for about 10 minutes of that.

We know why we're here, and great sex is the order of the day, but personally, being able to laugh and chat with playmates adds to my enjoyment!

A lot is made of the social aspect of swinging and that adds to it.

I'm not looking for a boyfriend: it's just fun being able to have banter with someone on the same wavelength!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt

This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after!

Wavelength? Get with it people! I'm now Digital!!! "

tch back to length again .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banter?

Isn't that a type of small brown chicken?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I think maybe I expect a little too much in the way of prospective meets.

I like a bit of banter with people... for me sex is all about having fun with it. I want to fuck people I like and who are entertaining and witty and not just there because a shag is a shag.

I suspect I know the answer (yes for the smart arses who can see I'm a fussy bugger) but is it too much to ask?

I don't want to marry them... I just want to have some sort of conversation that doesn't involve "how r u 2day?" sort of chat. I like a bit of cheek. Am I alone with that?"

I always put on a full show. A few stand up jokes as an appetizer, a full blown shag and i sing requests to finish the night off.

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