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By *rmaster1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "I'm trying to look like a hard man by sticking my middle finger up" kind of photos really don't help.

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By *rmaster1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Photo gone..next..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

your status will be less than desirable to others on the site but if thats how you feel crack on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the penis pic

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

status and fuck me now cock pic has gotta go!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP"

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"status and fuck me now cock pic has gotta go!"

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By *rmaster1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Another pic gone n status changed lol...next..mite be better spending loads of cash trying to pull in the pub at least it's a bit of fun lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site. "

8 weeks is a long time

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The words heat and kitchen come to mind.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time"

Yeah, didn't wanna say it but..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whiney little bitch status you've got up now will not do you any favours.

Profile text is a bit grim and confusing your straight but you like eating cum?

Be a bit less graphic, don't bother saying shit like "I'm not here for games etc" as putting a negative comes across badly and the people who want to play games are still going to so it does nothing but harm your chances.

Ads in what you're looking for what you like (don't Try to please everyone just be honest) but something in a bout yourself that people can use as icebreakers of they want to message you ie non see related stuff.

Just a funny sentence or two people can use to write a message to you.

Best advice I can give you is go look at your page as of it was a strangers read it and then try to write yourself a message

The easier you can make that the more people will do it (approachable, well written, humorous etc will help vs abrasive , crude and text speak)

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time"

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

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By *rmaster1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Nice one thx... I will change the profile back to how it was before nice n simple..I'll just keep plodding away as ya do..appreciate all the comments tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice one thx... I will change the profile back to how it was before nice n simple..I'll just keep plodding away as ya do..appreciate all the comments tho "

You're profile states you want to be fucked all over but you want to meet a woman and like cum. I take it your into queening

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it? "

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there have been 800 people online today in your area maybe 90-120 will be female.

What makes you stand out over the 700 other blokes near you? Who are you trying to meet? What do they look for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site. "

Been on ten days had 3 meets and quality meets

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

The "Trout Pout" pics are a no-no. You're not Posh Spice.

Good looking guy but dude as a Str8 lad you've got HUGE competition on here, most of em self-absorbed time wasters, which in my experience genuine swingers tend to ignore.

Please don't take this the wrong way but even us gay guys get Fem action before most of the self-absorbed types on here. You have to earn your stripes as we all did so 3 months is not long on here if you haven't attended a Social, used the Chat Rooms to chat & not just hit on folk, or thought out how you come across if you think the site is Instashag.

Again, please don't think I'm being overly critical but the genuine swingers will avoid desperation & a bad attitude practically immediately. So be yourself, earn your stripes, & put in some effort if you're serious about the site & the lifestyle. If not, perhaps consider what you're here for & if it's for you.

Good luck.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site. "

I see your first veri is from a man. I'm only here to meet women or couples so that takes longer. I had messages from men wanting to meet in the first week but I'm straight so had to block them with my filters.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site.

Been on ten days had 3 meets and quality meets "

So quality that you hidden your veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site.

Been on ten days had 3 meets and quality meets

So quality that you hidden your veris? "

There not hidden I haven't displayed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile gives out a thirsty vibe(and I don't mean as in a drink)

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site.

Been on ten days had 3 meets and quality meets

So quality that you hidden your veris?

There not hidden I haven't displayed them "

Same thing in my book, hidden/not displayed = can't see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to everyone on here because they are all gods gift to the opposite sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to get myself a decent lady to have great times with but no matter how much I try nothing seams to work..what am I doing wrong I'm a respectful honest funny cheeky standard looking bloke easy going open minded middle aged lad...

I know that there is so much competition out there for all the women but not being big headed but I'm far ugly....HELP HELP HELP

You have been here 8 weeks OP, took me 3 months to get first meet on here, and that was after investing lots of time and effort into the site.

8 weeks is a long time

Not as long as 3 months though is it?

I dunno - took me a week/week & a half after turning my attention to this site.

Been on ten days had 3 meets and quality meets

So quality that you hidden your veris?

There not hidden I haven't displayed them

Same thing in my book, hidden/not displayed = can't see them "

There not for you there for me to admire

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Listen to everyone on here because they are all gods gift to the opposite sex."

Its rutting season!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to everyone on here because they are all gods gift to the opposite sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to everyone on here because they are all gods gift to the opposite sex. "

Except diamond Joe he's gods gift to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The claws are out tonight. All this heat must be causing a testosterone overload

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"The whiney little bitch status you've got up now will not do you any favours.

Profile text is a bit grim and confusing your straight but you like eating cum?

Be a bit less graphic, don't bother saying shit like "I'm not here for games etc" as putting a negative comes across badly and the people who want to play games are still going to so it does nothing but harm your chances.

Ads in what you're looking for what you like (don't Try to please everyone just be honest) but something in a bout yourself that people can use as icebreakers of they want to message you ie non see related stuff.

Just a funny sentence or two people can use to write a message to you.

Best advice I can give you is go look at your page as of it was a strangers read it and then try to write yourself a message

The easier you can make that the more people will do it (approachable, well written, humorous etc will help vs abrasive , crude and text speak)"

We like this advice.

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