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How to handle rejection 101

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A simple guide to handling rejection...

Step 1: get rejected (politely or otherwise)

Step 2: get over it and move on.

I know a lot of people on here have trouble with those who can't take a gentle no in wither the form of a message or simply not replying...

So I thought I'd write this helpful guide

Any more top tips on swinging?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's a shag, not the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fall on the floor screaming, kicking and punching until either:

A: Your arms fall off

B: Your legs fall off

C: Your eyes fall out

D: All of the above

E: You generate a small Earthquake

Alternatively, you can calmly accept that this time things didn't work out the way you wanted, possibly for silly reasons, but the main thing is that you still have enough strength and resolve in yourself to know that you can stand back up, recover, compose yourself and try again - and will continue to do so until you DO get what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fall on the floor screaming, kicking and punching until either:

A: Your arms fall off

B: Your legs fall off

C: Your eyes fall out

D: All of the above

E: You generate a small Earthquake

Alternatively, you can calmly accept that this time things didn't work out the way you wanted, possibly for silly reasons, but the main thing is that you still have enough strength and resolve in yourself to know that you can stand back up, recover, compose yourself and try again - and will continue to do so until you DO get what you want."

Good advice. A good old fashioned small earthquake is often the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete sent messages so you can't fixate on opens and deletes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or don't send any messages asking to meet in the first place & then you won't get rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or don't send any messages asking to meet in the first place & then you won't get rejected "

Well that's a natty idea...

But I would miss the fancy a fuck messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insult the person who rejected you, it makes you look like a desperado who is so desperate for sex that they message people they don't actually find attractive. Also makes you look like you're too stupid to know how to wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think Meh,you're loss and believe you're the best thing since sliced bread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fall on the floor screaming, kicking and punching until either:

A: Your arms fall off

B: Your legs fall off

C: Your eyes fall out

D: All of the above

E: You generate a small Earthquake

Alternatively, you can calmly accept that this time things didn't work out the way you wanted, possibly for silly reasons, but the main thing is that you still have enough strength and resolve in yourself to know that you can stand back up, recover, compose yourself and try again - and will continue to do so until you DO get what you want.

Good advice. A good old fashioned small earthquake is often the key"

If you can literally make the Earth move, then you genuinely CAN say rejecting you was her loss

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Feel a bit meh. Eat some chocolate. Shrug. Then fuck someone else. Seems to do the trick.

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

After sending your first message (which should really be more than 'How's u?'), do not follow it up five minutes later asking why we're not talking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Insult the person who rejected you, it makes you look like a desperado who is so desperate for sex that they message people they don't actually find attractive. Also makes you look like you're too stupid to know how to wank."

Ah hahahahahahahaha!!!!

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