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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we recently went to a club and I think on hindsight it was a mistake that we posted the club we went to and that we had a great night in there. However the problem we now have is random weirdos now sending us messages saying thanks for a great night, you had my cock in your mouth etc etc....

Is this something that anyone else experienced?? Are people this sad and weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I had this yesterday. People saying we had chatted and one even said "oh Jesus you don't remember do you!" Like we'd done something and I couldn't remember. Er, no! Lesson learned I think.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Yes had it ... sworn they had seen us playing even though we did not ... pressed them on it, they said never mind. I did not like it one bit

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So we recently went to a club and I think on hindsight it was a mistake that we posted the club we went to and that we had a great night in there. However the problem we now have is random weirdos now sending us messages saying thanks for a great night, you had my cock in your mouth etc etc....

Is this something that anyone else experienced?? Are people this sad and weird?"

Nope.

We've only ever played with people we'd already spent time chatting to in clubs - so no chance of a random claiming anything happened.

If you can't remember names, (profile or real) or what people you played with look like? Then I wouldn't worry about random messages.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we recently went to a club and I think on hindsight it was a mistake that we posted the club we went to and that we had a great night in there. However the problem we now have is random weirdos now sending us messages saying thanks for a great night, you had my cock in your mouth etc etc....

Is this something that anyone else experienced?? Are people this sad and weird?

Nope.

We've only ever played with people we'd already spent time chatting to in clubs - so no chance of a random claiming anything happened.

If you can't remember names, (profile or real) or what people you played with look like? Then I wouldn't worry about random messages.

A

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I think you've missed the point. We're all saying that we definitely can remember but random people message to say we chatted or whatever when we definitely didn't.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yep we were inundated after daytime Chameleons visit, photos being fabbed went through the roof too! In fact the 2 guys we did play with were not even on here (so no flippin veris from that visit...LOL!)

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So we recently went to a club and I think on hindsight it was a mistake that we posted the club we went to and that we had a great night in there. However the problem we now have is random weirdos now sending us messages saying thanks for a great night, you had my cock in your mouth etc etc....

Is this something that anyone else experienced?? Are people this sad and weird?

Nope.

We've only ever played with people we'd already spent time chatting to in clubs - so no chance of a random claiming anything happened.

If you can't remember names, (profile or real) or what people you played with look like? Then I wouldn't worry about random messages.

A

I think you've missed the point. We're all saying that we definitely can remember but random people message to say we chatted or whatever when we definitely didn't. "

The OP didn't actually say that. I read it as there was a possibility that something had happened - it often does in group and open rooms at many a club! It's perfectly possible that in a dark room you wouldn't know who else was there!

If it's a case of a random chancer? Ignore them. Delete the message. Block. Where's the problem?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a random weirdo messaged me to thank me for the meet and sent me a verification.... I messaged back saying error no thanks!

He insisted it was real and asked to be verified back....so I reported and blocked....the verification disappeared...even from my summary his profile was deleted....chuffin weirdo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we recently went to a club and I think on hindsight it was a mistake that we posted the club we went to and that we had a great night in there. However the problem we now have is random weirdos now sending us messages saying thanks for a great night, you had my cock in your mouth etc etc....

Is this something that anyone else experienced?? Are people this sad and weird?

Nope.

We've only ever played with people we'd already spent time chatting to in clubs - so no chance of a random claiming anything happened.

If you can't remember names, (profile or real) or what people you played with look like? Then I wouldn't worry about random messages.

A

I think you've missed the point. We're all saying that we definitely can remember but random people message to say we chatted or whatever when we definitely didn't.

The OP didn't actually say that. I read it as there was a possibility that something had happened - it often does in group and open rooms at many a club! It's perfectly possible that in a dark room you wouldn't know who else was there!

If it's a case of a random chancer? Ignore them. Delete the message. Block. Where's the problem?

A

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Right well that's not what I meant. Somebody messaged me saying we had spoken, which could be true as I spoke to lots of people and he didn't send a picture. I pushed further and he said "oh sorry that wasn't meant for you" after he'd left me a veri. I blocked and reported.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I'll add a bit here to stop the confusion

We met a couple on fab that we agreed to meet in there and then we met another couple so all 6 of us chatted all night and then played together

We all knew who we were playing with

But now we get messages saying otherwise, just strange that people randomly make this up and get off on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It isn't something that annoys me or something that I'm worried about, just wondering if anyone had a similar experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for a great night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this recently- 'saw you in cupids fuckin on the big bed takin loads o cock including mine' Err no i didn't! Adamant I had.

Just another knob head chancer making assumptions - all wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this recently- 'saw you in cupids fuckin on the big bed takin loads o cock including mine' Err no i didn't! Adamant I had.

Just another knob head chancer making assumptions - all wrong."

Exactly this! Weird!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get messages from random weirdos everyday . But never after a club meet. And I'm not shy about mentioning them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had this, but regularly get 'hello stranger' type messages from people I know I've never contacted before...even if I were to doubt it I can see from the profile I've never interacted with them as I've never sent them a message. Think they just hope that it'll give them a better chance of getting a meet if they make you think you already know them in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't had this, but regularly get 'hello stranger' type messages from people I know I've never contacted before...even if I were to doubt it I can see from the profile I've never interacted with them as I've never sent them a message. Think they just hope that it'll give them a better chance of getting a meet if they make you think you already know them in some way. "

Lol. i've actually had a message saying fancy seeing you on here and then they explained they didn't even know me and was just trying to get my attention. They sent it twice coz the 2st one got ignored...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol

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lol was just making a point there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't had this, but regularly get 'hello stranger' type messages from people I know I've never contacted before...even if I were to doubt it I can see from the profile I've never interacted with them as I've never sent them a message. Think they just hope that it'll give them a better chance of getting a meet if they make you think you already know them in some way. "

Yep had this as well. Seems like single men (and yes it is them) are trying more inventive ways to get a meet. Doubt it ever works.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yep I've had "hi we've spoken in the past" Erm no we haven't.

And the "oh we played together at Amour a while back" well no, I don't go that regularly and I know all the people I have played with.

So unless he was the idiot that I should have got kicked out for putting his fingers where he shouldn't without permission, then I can definitely say we have had no contact whatsoever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had it. We got a message from a guy thanking me for a bj and saying how he had done this that and the other.. it really upset me because it was someone I wouldn't have played with. And could have caused bother.

Not had it for a while though but it put me off going to clubs by myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol

lol was just making a point there."

I know haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol

lol was just making a point there.

I know haha "
lol nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol

lol was just making a point there.

I know haha lol nice one "

PS I prefer looking at your 6 pack

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Thanks for a great night lol "

Aces!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for a great night lol

lol was just making a point there.

I know haha lol nice one

PS I prefer looking at your 6 pack "
Ah good and the 6pack is back on

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Not from a club per say but one of my er "action" pictures I uploaded one day got put to top fabbed. Same day a guy verified me, in this verification he put that he'd "had a good time with me and took plenty of pictures, most proud of one picture getting loads of Fabs".

Literally what the hell moment?! I messaged him back asking who he thought I was because I had never talked to him before (let alone seen his profile) and why he was giving me fake verifications.

In short this conversation went on until I got very bored and reported him to get the verification removed. But he literally would not stop insisting he knew me and id met him. Most amusing thing was though he wouldn't give out any of my personal details (address, number ect) as he feared it would "get hacked off Fab".

He is also not the first to say that he has met me (had one few weeks ago, and then got "oh its a mistake, sorry") but its the strangest someone has gone to try give me a fake verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The world is just full of weirdos I'm not surprised you had a top fab pic!!

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