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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am wondering how many couples live a full-time cuckold hotwife lifestyle and not just when arranging a meet or when playing. I'm not talking about humiliation. My husband and I are strongly considering the change to the lifestyle full-time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to explain a little more what you mean when you say making it full time as there are so many different variables.

Am never sure when the next time am going to be cuckolded by Ginger is likely to happen but would consider us as part timers as we still set time for us. We've still not found that someone who ticks all of our boxes and think at the moment she is keeping her options open but never say never.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I have met a few held men - it seems to work for them. The women weren't the dominatrix type control freaks, (though one was actually lol), more the guys were simply wanting to do as the woman wished, with more devotion than what was regularly seen. There was mutual respect, even with the domme couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds excellent.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

to add, cuckolding is about humiliation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to add, cuckolding is about humiliation. "

Cuckolding is whatever the couple wish it to be. Humiliation doesnt even need to be part of play

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"to add, cuckolding is about humiliation.

Cuckolding is whatever the couple wish it to be. Humiliation doesnt even need to be part of play"

Agreed. I've never been into humiliating a cuckold.

Sigh...wish I had a cuck these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is many different things to many different people. That's why good communication between all in the relationship is so important!

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"to add, cuckolding is about humiliation.

Cuckolding is whatever the couple wish it to be. Humiliation doesnt even need to be part of play"

Totally agree, I prefer the woman just to have complete freedom to see who she wants, when she wants, where she wants.... but I think your spot on, its about what ever works for both.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

In a true D/S relationship this may well happen,but otherwise it is a game.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

we have done for 36 happy yrars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me more.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people have lots of ways they personally live life. However the dictionary definition of Cuckold never changes.

"A Cuckold the a man with an unfaithful wife".

Porn and lifestyles can add other wrinkles to this (chastity, humiliation etc...)

Similarly the definition of a Witol is a Cuckold who knows he is a Cuckold and accepts it. That is probably what most of us really mean using the term.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"to add, cuckolding is about humiliation.

Cuckolding is whatever the couple wish it to be. Humiliation doesnt even need to be part of play"

What I meant to say is, there is a level of humiliation involved in cucking. It varies in degrees according to that what is imposed or felt. Eg. A husband is left at home whilst the wife is out on a date, the humiliating aspect here would be him not knowing what they are doing or that he is giving his wife up to someone else. A second more formal arrangement might be him watching acts in person, where he may be asked to help or not help, maybe tied or simply made to serve, watch or listen through the an adjoining room, maybe sleep on the couch. There's many different scenarios without even using toys - either way, this would be an imposed level of humiliation as he would not (for that time at least - maybe for an hour, a day or even week later) be able to enjoy his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate quoting long paragraphs lol Yes that is a better way of describing it although could be countered by asking is it really humiliation if her going out and playing alone is what the cuck wants and enjoys. When she's saying how good it is to have a real man fuck her while he sits watching with his cock in chasity is it humiliation if he asked her to do and say these things?

Maybe Empowerment is a better word for some couples as her going out has allowed her be empowered and her saying the things she does is empowering the bull she's with. Guess like everything depends which way you look at it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or as I said... when he knows he is a Witol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or as I said... when he knows he is a Witol! "

Lol yeah

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"hate quoting long paragraphs lol Yes that is a better way of describing it although could be countered by asking is it really humiliation if her going out and playing alone is what the cuck wants and enjoys. When she's saying how good it is to have a real man fuck her while he sits watching with his cock in chasity is it humiliation if he asked her to do and say these things?

Maybe Empowerment is a better word for some couples as her going out has allowed her be empowered and her saying the things she does is empowering the bull she's with. Guess like everything depends which way you look at it?"

Oh yeah, agreed - they wouldn't be doing it if each didn't like their play. That's why I said in my initial post that there was a mutual respect in the couples I have met... There was a different release from each 'role' they have. And know what you mean about paragraph quoting lol

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By *hettoslutWoman
over a year ago

Brixton

my friends are true cuck couple, she has mized race children etc it works for them and isnt so much about the humiliation pm and ill answer any questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our significant male would like to buy me a cage. Any advice for a first timer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our significant male would like to buy me a cage. Any advice for a first timer?"

You'll probably have to private message me...

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