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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people send friend requests without even chatting first and when you send a message saying we prefer to chat before accepting they read the message and do not even answer back ?

Just to see the private pics perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, but we get friend invites all the time and we don't even have private pics. So I don't get it either.

-Courtney

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Unless we're thinking of meeting them or have done so already they are deleted. As to why they're sent,

can only think its to look at more pics but the above reply doubts that theory too

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

They want a quick wank over your pictures or they'll want you to see theirs thinking when you do you'll be dying for a meet because they so sexy.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm like Charlie Brown. I need all the friends I can get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get loads, don't really care for their reasons for sending them. We just delete and block.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I just delete if I haven't spoken to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't figured that one out yet either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this a couple of times,last unsolicited friends request I replied thanking them but said no thanks you're not my type.....

They went on the defensive straight away saying..."I never asked if I was your type".....followed by the standard "What is your type?"

Ffs take it on the chin n move on like 80-90% of guys have to do......bruised ego much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to set my friends pics to private then accept their request and wait to see if they message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add them, then wait for their whinging message about why did i add them as friend if i didn't wanna chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random friend invite = Delete button. Shimples

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Maybe, but we get friend invites all the time and we don't even have private pics. So I don't get it either.

-Courtney"

I like you. I just want to be your friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe, but we get friend invites all the time and we don't even have private pics. So I don't get it either.

-Courtney

I like you. I just want to be your friend!

"

Anyone with a frickin creepy clown face ain't no friend of mine...heeby jeebees it gives me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic collectors

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't have private pics and get constant, random friend requests.

I was told to ignore them as that way they cannot send another one. If you deleted them they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people send friend requests without even chatting first and when you send a message saying we prefer to chat before accepting they read the message and do not even answer back ?

Just to see the private pics perhaps ?"
they want to see pics you probably aren't aware but guys send many messages and 90% aren't read or replied to ok some guys send overtly sexual and sometimes ignorant messages with cock pics but a lot don't but if you've been here a while and havnt had a lot of success namely because they don't have a clue how to formulate a nice interesting message then they cut to chase look at pics then decide wether it's worth wasting their time

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I ignore them, perplexed.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

As a single bloke you might think my eyes would light up at a random friend request from a female. Maybe it's just the one's that I've had are first contacts, show no pics and are not local so they just confuse me!

I always ask before adding anyone and tend to judge others by my own standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who opens with a Friends Invite gets Blocked - simple!

If they don't have enough respect for me to want to message me first, then I'd never want to meet them...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Maybe, but we get friend invites all the time and we don't even have private pics. So I don't get it either.

-Courtney

I like you. I just want to be your friend!

Anyone with a frickin creepy clown face ain't no friend of mine...heeby jeebees it gives me "

There... is that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get them too just take a look and leave them not accepted they cannot send another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random friend invite = Delete button. Shimples"

Help !!! we're being stalked. 3 friend invites received and deleted. What on earth is attracting them to keep trying. I'd be bored after 1 attempt. I am intrigued LOL. Wonder what they want.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Why do people send friend requests without even chatting first and when you send a message saying we prefer to chat before accepting they read the message and do not even answer back ?

Just to see the private pics perhaps ?"

Yep. I'm sure that is the main reason..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people send friend requests without even chatting first and when you send a message saying we prefer to chat before accepting they read the message and do not even answer back ?

Just to see the private pics perhaps ?"
they've maybe sent you messages before which you havnt read or answered so some guys send friend request to get a better idea of what you look like before they attempt to waste more time trying to contact you

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Why do people send friend requests without even chatting first and when you send a message saying we prefer to chat before accepting they read the message and do not even answer back ?

Just to see the private pics perhaps ?

Yep. I'm sure that is the main reason.."

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