FabSwingers.com forum: Well thats a first...

By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

After chatting to a single Guy most of today, he asked me if I fancied meeting up for a drink and chat. Feeling comfortable i agreed.

So, I got ready and made my way to the pub id chosen on neutral ground for us both. As I arrived he said he would be sat outside..and he was. We chatted for 5 mins or so then he asked what I wanted to drink.

Off he went... 15 minutes later I'm still sat there.. So i popped my head in the door.... Yes you have guessed it... GONE!!!!

Now don't get me wrong, I understand were all not everyones cup of tea... But FFS... Grow some balls and say!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

That's a terrible thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After chatting to a single Guy most of today, he asked me if I fancied meeting up for a drink and chat. Feeling comfortable i agreed.

Off he went... 15 minutes later I'm still sat there.. So i popped my head in the door.... Yes you have guessed it... GONE!!!!

Now don't get me wrong, I understand were all not everyones cup of tea... But FFS... Grow some balls and say!!

Knob

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

That is nasty and a bit cowardly too,hugs to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him not you

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Manners cost nothing to have said, some have no balls or a backbone

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

crikey that's terrible, hope you are coping with this one ok -block whoever it was , PLEASE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very immature behaviour.

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

That's pretty damn low. Not everyone is like that, better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick!! Hugs hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a nob hun. I've had socials with people that aren't really for me but a thanks for the drink and goodbye after a chat isn't that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick!!

sorry!

Seems to be a lot of knobhead single males about recently x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I had a runner once. Went to the loo after a good hour of friendly chat and he'd gone. He'd blocked me and changed his location by the time I got home so I must have been pretty terrible.

OP, I feel for you. It's not the best feeling in the world. But most men on here aren't snivelling cowards with no bloody manners at all.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I dropped him a mail saying I waited the 15 minutes and popped my head in the door but he was gone.. He's been online but not opened it.

I just don't understand people.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps we should start a pool on what his reason will be when he contacts you in a month to tell you how sexy you are and how horny he is.

Mine is:

He remembered he had to set the video to record Top Gear.

Any advance on this?

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I had a runner once. Went to the loo after a good hour of friendly chat and he'd gone. He'd blocked me and changed his location by the time I got home so I must have been pretty terrible.

OP, I feel for you. It's not the best feeling in the world. But most men on here aren't snivelling cowards with no bloody manners at all."

Just another confidence blow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shouldn't has asked for fresh yaks milk. The poor guy is probably making his way back to the pub as we speak.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"shouldn't has asked for fresh yaks milk. The poor guy is probably making his way back to the pub as we speak.

Haha... Thanks for making me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, not nice that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Perhaps we should start a pool on what his reason will be when he contacts you in a month to tell you how sexy you are and how horny he is.

Mine is:

He remembered he had to set the video to record Top Gear.

Any advance on this?

He followed though at the bar and is still stuck in a toilet cubicle, wiping down his trousers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After chatting to a single Guy most of today, he asked me if I fancied meeting up for a drink and chat. Feeling comfortable i agreed.

Off he went... 15 minutes later I'm still sat there.. So i popped my head in the door.... Yes you have guessed it... GONE!!!!

Now don't get me wrong, I understand were all not everyones cup of tea... But FFS... Grow some balls and say!!

I had similar once

I arranged to meet a guy, was stood at agreed meeting place and he pulled up in his car looked at me and drove off

Manners cost nothing but a lot think because itsna sex site they owe is nothing not even politness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dropped him a mail saying I waited the 15 minutes and popped my head in the door but he was gone.. He's been online but not opened it.

I just don't understand people. "

Though would be amusing if he was stuck in the loo with diarrhoea or somehing haha

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"shouldn't has asked for fresh yaks milk. The poor guy is probably making his way back to the pub as we speak.

Haha... Thanks for making me smile

Don't forget to verify him! He showed up after all, and on time - and was courteous enough to offer you a drink!

I'm sure you can come up with something suitable for the rest of the veri.

Something to make him irresistible to others. I'm sure he'll display it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a total douche! Some men on here have serious lack of backbone and balls and weasel their way about.... Texts, forum banter etc can be VERY misleading as to a persons true character.

OP, look at his actions as a reflection on him and not on you. He's clearly a total tosspot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a spineless Prick! ! I know you can't name and shame but you can pm hint hint.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

What a twattish thing to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shouldn't has asked for fresh yaks milk. The poor guy is probably making his way back to the pub as we speak.

Haha... Thanks for making me smile

Don't forget to verify him! He showed up after all, and on time - and was courteous enough to offer you a drink!

I'm sure you can come up with something suitable for the rest of the veri.

Something to make him irresistible to others. I'm sure he'll display it!

A"
don't veri him!!! Don't give him the satisfaction of his little green tick. Even if he doesn't display it, it will show as a veri.. God I wish there were red verification crosses lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"What a spineless Prick! ! I know you can't name and shame but you can pm hint hint."

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oh dear what a prick. He probably thought you were out of his league darling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barman refused to serve him because had no ID & he was too embarrassed to tell the OP.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Barman refused to serve him because had no ID & he was too embarrassed to tell the OP."

He got a phone call telling him his spine transplant had been scheduled.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"shouldn't has asked for fresh yaks milk. The poor guy is probably making his way back to the pub as we speak.

Haha... Thanks for making me smile

Don't forget to verify him! He showed up after all, and on time - and was courteous enough to offer you a drink!

I'm sure you can come up with something suitable for the rest of the veri.

Something to make him irresistible to others. I'm sure he'll display it!

A don't veri him!!! Don't give him the satisfaction of his little green tick. Even if he doesn't display it, it will show as a veri.. God I wish there were red verification crosses lol "

Im not verifying him. He's now on the block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is terrible. I feel for you and I would be mortified if this happened to me.

Karma........ X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His mum had nodded her disapproval from the next table.

Sideways, code for "not marrying material" i believe.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A tournament was about to start on Mortal Kombat

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

What a complete and utter spineless idiot. Stick two fingers up to him and don't give him another seconds thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He went inside & saw his wife in there.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

You know, i wouldn't normally put this kinda post up... But everyday there are more and more guys asking what there doing wrong and why they cant get any meets...

There is the answer.. People who spoil it for the decent folk out there.. Coz now I probably wont trust anyone for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is sorry. I farted and followed through. What was I supposed to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a nice thing to have happened to you. It's definitely a reflection on him rather than you though. I can say this because I once went on a blind date many years ago and ran when the guy went to the loo.

I just didn't know how to say I didn't want to be there so took that option .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What a coward. It was a lovely day for a beer outside too. A nice drink and chat and off you both could have gone, a little older but none the wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had have been there. Would have stepped in no problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had something similar happen.

Bollock, block then move on.

I messaged you privately too.

Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced this a couple of times, the 1st was a pof date, she was not as she described herself, she looked about 10 years older than her profile picture, and was generally obnoxious. I wouldve been better off if she had not shown. Didn't lose much sleep over it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I have family in Blackpool, small world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though; what a twat. How hard would it have been to just stay for a drink and say you weren't for him or he'd lost his bottle or he was cheating and couldn't go through with it?

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Seriously though; what a twat. How hard would it have been to just stay for a drink and say you weren't for him or he'd lost his bottle or he was cheating and couldn't go through with it?"

This. It was only a drink. Nothing had been mentioned about anything else and i had my Bridget Jones' on... Maybe that was it haha

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

Sometimes in life you meet people expecting the best but see the worst

you should take this as a positive by doing what he did just shows you he wouldn't have been worth it eh..

Confidence comes from within you are still the same person you were the day before but today you are a lot wiser

stand tall and move on and don't question yourself plenty of nice guy's out there

we wish you well and happy fabbing hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How horrible for you. Don't feel down about him. Move on swiftly x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

OP, that is absolutely unforgivable.

Big hugs from us both.

On the bright side at least you didn't waste any more of your life on such a sad loser.

Hope fate balances your life asap (I am a great believer in her)

Much love

Mr ddc

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Anyhow... Ive poured myself a large vodka... Id normally sink a big bar of chocolate after a drama but hes not having the satisfaction of a inch on my hips haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you reported him for being such a knob....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope he gets his dick stuck in his zip. Hope you're canny. Don't let a spineless little shit like that mess with your confidence.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Hope you reported him for being such a knob...."

I really dont think there is any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope you reported him for being such a knob....

I really dont think there is any point. "

Definitely report him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope he gets his dick stuck in his zip. Hope you're canny. Don't let a spineless little shit like that mess with your confidence."

Seriously, don't let him put you off others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a git. I got stood up once in my teens. Didn't go out for 6 months after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had similar on a date. Booked a place for lunch. She never turned up and when I tried to message her to see if she was lost, she'd blocked me.

I had to apologise to the place and leave.

Her loss... At least I didn't pay for lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really I love Bridget Jones nickers? Can I buy you a drink?

He probably met someone he knows at the bar and didn't want his wife finding out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His mum had nodded her disapproval from the next table.

Sideways, code for "not marrying material" i believe.

Nooo! She nodded in approval, DEFINITELY marriage material and was already mentally picking out a hat.

He saw that look on his mum's face and legged it!

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

This is why i come in the forum... You guys are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not nice when it happens.. we had it happen to us... we had met , had a drink and a chat. Agreed to get a room , he went to get something and never came back... At Least we had each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope we've managed to put a smile on your face OP?

Don't let one loser make you feel bad.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sending cyber hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope you reported him for being such a knob....

I really dont think there is any point. "

There isn't , he did show after all .

He really should have been polite enough to say he was going though .

Just wrong

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

"I dropped him a mail saying I waited the 15 minutes and popped my head in the door but he was gone.. He's been online but not opened it.

I just don't understand people. "

pm the local ladies so we know who to look out for lol

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Lil pleasure beach want to borrow ur Bridget jones they have lost the flag above the big one

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Lil pleasure beach want to borrow ur Bridget jones they have lost the flag above the big one "

There not that big haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww thats bad - many years ago i met a bloke - we had a room booked but met in a nearby bar first to see if all was ok - after a few minutes he went to the loo and was gone a while and then i got a text - i thought eh up hes buggered off - the text said something along the lines of 'youre so nice but im so nervous im scared' - we sorted it out and i was flattered but never ever considered myself scary

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