FabSwingers.com forum: Single and happy, why not

By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

I've been single in the vanilla world for around seven years now, and may I say very happy too.

But in the last 12-18 months the same question keeps popping up from my male friends partners.

"Why are you still single, your a nice guy"

With this pitiful looking expression on there faces.

You singletons out there, do you experience this as well.

From the I am in a relationship happy brigade, so why aren't you.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've been single in the vanilla world for around seven years now, and may I say very happy too.

But in the last 12-18 months the same question keeps popping up from my male friends partners.

"Why are you still single, your a nice guy"

With this pitiful looking expression on there faces.

You singletons out there, do you experience this as well.

From the I am in a relationship happy brigade, so why aren't you."

And from the couples brigade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree .free to do whst you want when you want

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I do keep getting the same thing!

"You're so lovely, why has nobody snapped you up yet?!'

And on here I get 'what's a nice girl like you doing on here?'

Is there certain criteria to pass that makes me not nice and ok to be on here? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one says that to me.

They say "no wonder you're single".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time

people asking me if I've found anybody yet and being told it's ok there's somebody out there for me and I will find love one day

a lot just can't accept some people don't want anybody in their life's, I know so any people who ping ping from one relationship to another some just have a need to be with somebody and as soon as one relationship ends they are actively looking for the next, not all of us have that need or want

I have only been in one relationship in my life and I never intend to go there again

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I get this a fair bit but most people I know have stopped their sorry attempts to influence me to match up. Sure we all get it, 'you're such a lovely person' etc.

I like my own space, I largely get the sex I need, don't need to answer to anyone, no-one hogs the bed, don't get the hassle from forgetting anniversaries etc and my money is all mine to spend as I wish.

Single is the new married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree .free to do whst you want when you want "

yeah but........... I really miss waking up every morning to a beautiful woman. :--(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only down side to being single is not having regular sex but I never had that when I was married so it's not something I miss as such but regular sex would be nice

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"the only down side to being single is not having regular sex but I never had that when I was married so it's not something I miss as such but regular sex would be nice

I had the same

I'm fed up of the pitying looks I get now a third relationship has failed. The "oh why can't she just find a nice one" look. Cause my knight in shining armour's horse has a flat shoe that's why and is detained.

Until then I like being single not having to answer to anyone is great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the only down side to being single is not having regular sex but I never had that when I was married so it's not something I miss as such but regular sex would be nice

I had the same

Until then I like being single not having to answer to anyone is great!"

Just because a relationship failed doesn't mean either of you are 'not nice'. I never understand why those people say that.

I think you are LUCKY in love. You found 3 men you wanted relationships with. Most people can't even find one.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Yes it happens all the time,but happy to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always being asked if I've met anyone. Been on my own for 5 years,I get enough sex without the hassle of a relationship. Do I miss anything? No,I didn't have anything worth missing in my relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I tell people I'm single they often say how sorry they are to hear it - as if someone's died. There are both good and bad to being single and a relationship. I try and find the best in either as and when they happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"the only down side to being single is not having regular sex but I never had that when I was married so it's not something I miss as such but regular sex would be nice

I had the same

Until then I like being single not having to answer to anyone is great!

Just because a relationship failed doesn't mean either of you are 'not nice'. I never understand why those people say that.

I think you are LUCKY in love. You found 3 men you wanted relationships with. Most people can't even find one.

Exactly thank you. Admittedly 2 of them were bad choices the 1st of the 3 I was with for 7 years and married. If was a big shame it ended but it was part of my life curve. I'm happy to stay single till the next one comes along.

Recently read a status on fb "I'd rather be alone and happy than attached and with the wrong person " very true x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"When I tell people I'm single they often say how sorry they are to hear it - as if someone's died. There are both good and bad to being single and a relationship. I try and find the best in either as and when they happen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time.. I dont.know why.im.on the shelf either.

But.. I dont think people who are on to.their third husband are good at relationships.. So sod them.

I'm enjoying my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the only down side to being single is not having regular sex but I never had that when I was married so it's not something I miss as such but regular sex would be nice

I had the same

Until then I like being single not having to answer to anyone is great!

Just because a relationship failed doesn't mean either of you are 'not nice'. I never understand why those people say that.

I think you are LUCKY in love. You found 3 men you wanted relationships with. Most people can't even find one.

Recently read a status on fb "I'd rather be alone and happy than attached and with the wrong person " very true x"

Agree.

All ex's are bad choices... or they wouldn't be ex's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't and have resigned myself to being single forever and as I've been in my own for nearly 10 yrs it's no big deal just not really sure that I want to grow old by myself

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I get the same apologies from people that don't know me very well. My friends know my lifestyle and would always rather see me happy in whatever ....ship im having at the time.

There are aspects of a relationship that I miss...The same as most people, but overall i enjoy my single life.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I am happy to be single. From 18 to 38 I was in a relationship and then 6 years in another. So now it's coming up to 2 I have been single.

I find people in relationships are always trying to pair me up to date men. They think that because they are happy to be with someone that I should want it. My mum was the worst as she has been with my dad for nearly 50 years and thought that I needed a man in my life. Actually sat and explained that all my adult life I had been exclusive and with just that man now I want some fun and finding myself. I like the freedom of being single, eventually when or if I'm ready I may decide I want to have another relationship but at moment just enjoying myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

No disreapect but if your putting you diet and the gym before people its a bit more than a hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

No disreapect but if your putting you diet and the gym before people its a bit more than a hobby "
Yes that's right the hobby has become an obsession.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm happy single,it would take someone special to change it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been single for approx. 6 months and loving it in was in 2 year relationship which was extremely toxic and it wasn't until I got out of it I realised how unhappy I was.

Previous to that I was married for 7 years it had its good times and best thing that came from it were my daughters. It didn't work out due to external interference.

I am at a stage in my life now where I am responsible for my own destiny, I have the responsibility of my daughters and that will never change, before anything I am a father and love being a father

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been in a very long, and most of the time, happy marriage, and gone through a very painful separation, it amazes me how many of my friends try to 'set me up' with someone suitable, know it's good intentions etc, but Noooooo !!!!! I'm loving being my own man, and I want to stay that way. Single and happy is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been in a very long, and most of the time, happy marriage, and gone through a very painful separation, it amazes me how many of my friends try to 'set me up' with someone suitable, know it's good intentions etc, but Noooooo !!!!! I'm loving being my own man, and I want to stay that way. Single and happy is perfect "

I even get it from my daughter she keep trying to get me on a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody expects me to be part of a couple.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even get it from my daughter she keep trying to get me on a dating site

My daughter suggested I get myself a woman

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Was single and haply for a long time, over ten years, then updating popped my current partner. I think the key is to not need someone just for the sake of it. Neither of us were looking and I certainly did not think I could ever be with anyone after being on my own, making my own decisions and not being accountable to anyone for such a long time. However, I have met someone who totally respects me for who I am and likewise. Neither of us has had to change or compromise and it all comes naturally. Some of the comments from singles make it seems like the only way to be free is to be single, not the case for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for approx. 6 months and loving it in was in 2 year relationship which was extremely toxic and it wasn't until I got out of it I realised how unhappy I was.

Previous to that I was married for 7 years it had its good times and best thing that came from it were my daughters. It didn't work out due to external interference.

I am at a stage in my life now where I am responsible for my own destiny, I have the responsibility of my daughters and that will never change, before anything I am a father and love being a father

Did kinda of go off topic there. Do get a huge amount of pressure from family and extended family, they don't seem to get you can be happy and single

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm 31 with most of my friends in relationships with kids, I get it all the time.

"Are you still going on dates?" (Well kinda I guess lol)

"I've got someone I could set you up with"

Thanks but no thanks.

If & when I find the right guy I'll decide whether or not to settle down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

No disreapect but if your putting you diet and the gym before people its a bit more than a hobby "

Depends how you see people. People are like a hobby to me. Keeping fit and studying come first in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even get it from my daughter she keep trying to get me on a dating site

My daughter suggested I get myself a woman

I wouldn't mind but she's 22 and never been on a datez had a boyfriend or anything and she tells me I need to 'get out more'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

No disreapect but if your putting you diet and the gym before people its a bit more than a hobby

Depends how you see people. People are like a hobby to me. Keeping fit and studying come first in my life."
That's right or its just a fitness lifestyle kinda way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

People do though. One of my partners is a triathlete and we see each other around his (punishing) training schedule and work. If you enjoy someones company then you understand things like that about them. I know he prioritises training above me, and I'm ok with that. There are things I prioritise above him."
YEs and well said there, yeah if they like each other then they would accept the lifestyle they are living and live according to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being single. Still great friends with ex and have nights out on the Mod scene. He wouldn't understand this site, he's very traditional/vanilla. Had people ask me on here why I'm single. One word answer, Choice. Although I must admit I've been seeing a rather tasty chap for last few months. Not exclusively though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

No disreapect but if your putting you diet and the gym before people its a bit more than a hobby

Depends how you see people. People are like a hobby to me. Keeping fit and studying come first in my life."

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying its wrong to put yourself first I got called a sad bastard by a guy on here the other day because I turned down meeting him as he wanted to meet on my weight day, I go to slimming world and going every week to class is important to me

I'm just saying by definition a hobby is something you do in your spare time so if going to the gym is the main focus in your life and everything else fits round that it's not a hobby like you said its people that are the hobby

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Who can appreciate the stench of your farts when you are living on your own?its a lot funnier offending the fucker sat next to you than just yourself.

Being single is ok if you're getting laid regular,if not it can be a bit of a ball filling and not emptying them enough frustration.theres only so much porn and wanks in a day you can have.

So it comes down to farts and sex and how you can flip scenarios...farting next to the fucker sat by you,or sat by the fucker who thinks it's hilarious to fart all night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who can appreciate the stench of your farts when you are living on your own?its a lot funnier offending the fucker sat next to you than just yourself.

Being single is ok if you're getting laid regular,if not it can be a bit of a ball filling and not emptying them enough frustration.theres only so much porn and wanks in a day you can have.

So it comes down to farts and sex and how you can flip scenarios...farting next to the fucker sat by you,or sat by the fucker who thinks it's hilarious to fart all night...."

I have kids to offend with my farts I don't need a man

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I've been single in the vanilla world for around seven years now, and may I say very happy too.

But in the last 12-18 months the same question keeps popping up from my male friends partners.

"Why are you still single, your a nice guy"

With this pitiful looking expression on there faces.

You singletons out there, do you experience this as well.

From the I am in a relationship happy brigade, so why aren't you."

Yes I get this from friends, but I'm very happy being single an do like my freedom. If the right girl comes along would be ready for a relationship but why rush into anything? I'm having lots of fun being on my own and single.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the boat if being recently single (since start if the of the year)

Not looking for a relationship for a while but came back on here as I was on as part of cpl for 4-5 years

If I'm single for a long while I honestly don't think it will bother me, more important things in life

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No I don't and have resigned myself to being single forever and as I've been in my own for nearly 10 yrs it's no big deal just not really sure that I want to grow old by myself "

There might be one thing that I do miss and its that mid Sunday morning snuggle/cuddles with someone you care for exchanging your _iews and wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

Agreed some if us women train and meal prep too u know!

And yes i get the "ohhh havent u met a nice man yet?" Comments...well i have met a few actually

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Yes I get this from friends, but I'm very happy being single an do like my freedom. If the right girl comes along would be ready for a relationship but why rush into anything? I'm having lots of fun being on my own and single."

This too but man for me not girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

Agreed some if us women train and meal prep too u know!

And yes i get the "ohhh havent u met a nice man yet?" Comments...well i have met a few actually

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Yes and that's right women do that as well x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny, I get exactly the opposite, how you have managed to meet anybody willing to put up with you? your a right horrible cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

People do though. One of my partners is a triathlete and we see each other around his (punishing) training schedule and work. If you enjoy someones company then you understand things like that about them. I know he prioritises training above me, and I'm ok with that. There are things I prioritise above him.YEs and well said there, yeah if they like each other then they would accept the lifestyle they are living and live according to it."

I find him gorgeous *because* he trains hard and is dedicated to the things he enjoys. If he didn't train hard, he wouldn't be the same person and I might feel differently about him.

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave

"Who can appreciate the stench of your farts when you are living on your own?its a lot funnier offending the fucker sat next to you than just yourself.

Being single is ok if you're getting laid regular,if not it can be a bit of a ball filling and not emptying them enough frustration.theres only so much porn and wanks in a day you can have.

So it comes down to farts and sex and how you can flip scenarios...farting next to the fucker sat by you,or sat by the fucker who thinks it's hilarious to fart all night....

I have kids to offend with my farts I don't need a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single all my life and loving it. My hobby is bodybuilding and you have to be in the gym everyday and eat loads, so cos of that plus all the meal prep, no woman would accept it

People do though. One of my partners is a triathlete and we see each other around his (punishing) training schedule and work. If you enjoy someones company then you understand things like that about them. I know he prioritises training above me, and I'm ok with that. There are things I prioritise above him.YEs and well said there, yeah if they like each other then they would accept the lifestyle they are living and live according to it.

I find him gorgeous *because* he trains hard and is dedicated to the things he enjoys. If he didn't train hard, he wouldn't be the same person and I might feel differently about him.

But then again, I used to have a habit of dating bodybuilders when I was a personal trainer and a power lifter myself... And before that I played water polo in the national team. So I understand dedication and putting sport first."
That's right as your used to date bodybuilders so u already know what kinda needs in the relationship with one and it would be a lot diferent to date someone that didn't do bodybuilding.

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

Saw a magnet today...

It's better to have loved and lost than to spend the rest of your life with a physco.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Saw a magnet today...

It's better to have loved and lost than to spend the rest of your life with a physco.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Very happy single

and will never change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend most of any family occasion trying to explain to well meaning aunties that as far as im concerned im living the dream. Own home, no kids just me and the dog. Its infuriating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I get the why are you still single thing.

I also only seem to attract married or attached women too for some strange reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'll ever be in a relationship again either to be honest I just can't be bothered with it all, I've come to a point I just want a quiet life

I've been single seven years now and I feel I've gone past the point of changing things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you ever tempted to say "Oh I'm too busy having sex with lots and lots of people, to settle down".

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Aren't you ever tempted to say "Oh I'm too busy having sex with lots and lots of people, to settle down".

I find myself saying 'I'm single, not celibate'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get the same. single is normal to me. being in a relationship would be a major switch for me

all my mates are settled down and under the thumb

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I met my ex-husband at 16 & we were together nearly 20 years. I've had 2 short relationships since. It's taken me a long time to realise I don't need a relationship & that I'm actually too busy with work, my boys & their activities to have one. This may change as they get older. The 6 weeks I've been on fab are the happiest I've had in nearly 4 years. I feel alive. Give me that feeling any day!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a few bad relationships I have a friend with benefits who I see occasionally, its not exclusive on her part though, I think she has 2 other regular guys, I know its one for definite. It suits us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't you ever tempted to say "Oh I'm too busy having sex with lots and lots of people, to settle down".

If that were the case I might use that line Amy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it from my friends in relationships and I have been single for a long time. My group is changing though, a few are sadly either already or in the process of splitting up. So I do not feel the odd one out. I enjoy the freedom too much of being single and not having to consider someone else when I organise something. Don't get me wrong, I love the company of the opposite sex, but I value my space. I have two very close male friends, so I can borrow them, when I need a male point of _iew on something. It all seems to work well.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

I bloody knew there was a reason we get on so well - same here :- D (although now I'm in a secret relationship with a married guy, I'm kinda wanting to shout it from the rooftops so it's a good job you won't mind me doing all the hearts and bluebirds shite when I see you next week

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No one ever expects me to be in a relationship so I don't get asked.

Just recently I have had a few people who have met a partner when they're both in their 60s and 70s telling me that it might still happen for me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

One bluebird, just one, and I'm getting my gun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even get it from my daughter she keep trying to get me on a dating site

I know the intentions are good, but don't you wish they'd take the hint

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I get

when I say I've never been married or lived with anyone after my first boyfriend. The standard response is, 'what, never?'

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

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One bluebird, just one, and I'm getting my gun.

I see trees of green, red roses too,

I see them bloom, for me and him...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

)

One bluebird, just one, and I'm getting my gun.

I see trees of green, red roses too,

I see them bloom, for me and him...

Caz, just let Taz be in charge for a Swingfields. Wyrd will cope with that better than this singing in love thing that's going on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

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One bluebird, just one, and I'm getting my gun.

I see trees of green, red roses too,

I see them bloom, for me and him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i get exactly the same " you can get anyone you want" thing is i like being single

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

)

One bluebird, just one, and I'm getting my gun.

I see trees of green, red roses too,

I see them bloom, for me and him...

Caz, just let Taz be in charge for a Swingfields. Wyrd will cope with that better than this singing in love thing that's going on.

If I let Taz out, it's a bloody struggle getting it back in...may just have to let Daz out - single girls and wives, who fancies a shag?

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Yep get it all the time xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been married twice...well I still am to number 2.....now single four years. I'd pick being part of a couple everytime...sharing things...waking together...deep conversations...having kids...can't be beaten. I miss it all greatly..I have freedom....but sharing is so much better....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Having been married twice...well I still am to number 2.....now single four years. I'd pick being part of a couple everytime...sharing things...waking together...deep conversations...having kids...can't be beaten. I miss it all greatly..I have freedom....but sharing is so much better...."

So what has prevented you from making it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what has prevented you from making it work?

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gosh...that would take an essay. Having a business and working together then losing your business...the money worries..losing your home...caring for your mum with severe dementia. ..life gets complicated and you attempt to deal with so much....too much. I lost it all...well I have ywo awesome sons..

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I attended a family event this weekend and found myself feeling jealous of the couples there as they had those things i dont have maybe its that settling down urge that you get but just feel like i need a partner

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm single and often get the.. Why are you still single..

I'm single because it suits me. However I've recently met someone who gives me the good parts of a relationship without the crap bits.

Perfection

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No-one ever asks why I'm single. I think deep down they know

)

One bluebird, just one, and I'm getting my gun.

I see trees of green, red roses too,

I see them bloom, for me and him...

And think to myself,

What a wonderful world..

(been single)

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yes by my parents as they are worried I won't have children etc, I don't like being single but I haven't met the right guy I seem to attract idiots.

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