FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it with a lot of people on this site. I belong to non swinging dating sites too, and as I have constantly found you starting messaging people and that's all they want to do. They always have an excuse that they can't meet can't even chat on the phone, even though I give my number, just happy to message on here all the time. If that's what they want fine, but isn't that what Facebook is for? If you don't want to meet or phone chat, then don't waste the persons time by just endlessly exchange messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread isn't going to end well for you

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"This thread isn't going to end well for you

That made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well consider me told. Sorry OP, we'll never message anyone again other than to ask for a shag.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I would imagine if they don't want to chat on the phone or meet, then YOU are wasting YOUR time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in."

Popcorn....?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

Popcorn....?

Ice lollies...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

Popcorn....?

Ice lollies...?"

I've got Oreo Cornettos, will they do?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I would imagine if they don't want to chat on the phone or meet, then YOU are wasting YOUR time.

Now, now!

No stating the bleeding obvious and using common sense please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a timewaster i never meet in fact just look at my veris for the proof

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i was expecting to have to set time aside to read though all the veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

Popcorn....?

Ice lollies...?

I've got Oreo Cornettos, will they do?"

Ahhh....I think I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got Oreo Cornettos, will they do?"

Well I chuffin want one now, thanks...i think,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just read your profile - why not go to Eureka's on your own and meet people there? No chatting online required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, just read your profile - why not go to Eureka's on your own and meet people there? No chatting online required.

Maybe he does already.

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By *ollypops181Woman
over a year ago

exmouth

"What is it with a lot of people on this site. I belong to non swinging dating sites too, and as I have constantly found you starting messaging people and that's all they want to do. They always have an excuse that they can't meet can't even chat on the phone, even though I give my number, just happy to message on here all the time. If that's what they want fine, but isn't that what Facebook is for? If you don't want to meet or phone chat, then don't waste the persons time by just endlessly exchange messages!

Ok il bite first!

So how long into a chat before you think it now has to be a meet or they are just time wasting?

How many msgs does the lucky lady/man/couple get before they have to prove they are genuine and come have sex with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

Popcorn....?

Ice lollies...?

I've got Oreo Cornettos, will they do?

Ahhh....I think I love you

I'll bring one round for ya

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You know what I recon I'll save my fonts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Just keep at it. If your getting replies in the first place your doing better than a lot on here. If it's turning into chat tennis you have 2 choices. Enjoy the convo for just that or move on to someone else. Thick skin required on here fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP:Hi, I like your profile.

Other: Hi, you sound like my type.

OP:Fancy a fuck?

Other:I can't at the moment due to work/ child commitments

OP:Bloody timewaster

Allegedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From someone who isn't a piss taking bored person. What I do is not talk about sex or send pics. If someone genuinely wants to meet they don't need them. There are a lot of time wasters on here,wasting other people's time by pretending they want to meet but don't really want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP:Hi, I like your profile.

Other: Hi, you sound like my type.

OP:Fancy a fuck?

Other:I can't at the moment due to work/ child commitments

OP:Bloody timewaster

Allegedly

Oooh...you are naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

Popcorn....?

Ice lollies...?

I've got Oreo Cornettos, will they do?"

Oh yeah, I got those too. Fucking ace!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note I do have a few blokes I chat to on here who I like conversing with but I tell them that I don't fancy them most to be fair to them chat anyway cos we get on well n yes their may be flirting but they no where they stand so all is good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had men who have chatted non-sexual chat and spoken on the phone and when it's come to meeting for a drink have gone quiet. I don't sweat it,it's part of being on here and I hadn't left my house

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

It is most likely a bloke pretending to be a woman. That happens a lot on here. Don't ask me why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know for once we're going to agree with the OP on this one. Especially after the day we've had!!

So many couples contact us, we go through the motions of chit chat, establish through pics that were all attracted, then "bosh" there's a "but" that's been thrown in that basically contradicts everything we have just spent an hour of our lives talking about!!

Not to mention the usual single guy pretending to be a couple!! Grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!

So here we are, Saturday night, horny as hell with no one to play with because we have wasted our day chatting with people who have no intentions of meeting, they are just here to get their kicks at the expense of us genuine couples!!

So just this once OP were with ya!

I need a hug :'-(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do agree tho that much is "chat" about sex and never get down it, I recon MANY here would agree to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find this happening all the time OP then the common denominator is you, maybe you need to change the way you go about things ? Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications - how does that fit ... Let me sit down and strap in.

Popcorn....?

Ice lollies...?

I've got Oreo Cornettos, will they do?

Ahhh....I think I love you

I'll bring one round for ya

Oh I see how it is, and after I said I wanted one too

Timewaster,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you find this happening all the time OP then the common denominator is you, maybe you need to change the way you go about things ? Just saying."

Op. Whilst this chap may have a point. Somewhere between ticket tennis and fancy a fuck first message is where you need to be aiming. Neither extreme is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, how exactly have they wasted your time, would you not be on here messaging people anyway ?

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