FabSwingers.com forum: who do you miss in your life.?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I miss my Dad and have a pic in my kitchen and I see him everyday smiling at me and I say hello even if dead he is not to me. And some how its helps to keep him close .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little brother

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Obviously I've missed my parents. My Mum died aged 39, 2 days before my 7th birthday and ma Dad passed away when I was 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum and dad .My inspirational duo .X

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My big sister

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

A friend, who was the father I would have liked to have had. He died three years ago this week so he's been in my thoughts at lot.

He was so loved that his family and friends have an annual festival in his honour. I can't make it this year but I'll put on some of his favourite tunes and remember how he touched so many lives in so many different ways (most of yours too but you won't have known it was him).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously I've missed my parents. My Mum died aged 39, 2 days before my 7th birthday and ma Dad passed away when I was 21

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I look at my dads pic at its like he is there .. I hope you have something you can hold on too . x There was a time I could not look as it would hurt now I look and smile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother and dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex girlfriend.... I'd take her back in an instant. Life throws you shitty curve balls some times.

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

My Nan and great Aunt (Nans sister) .... together for 87 years, died less than 6 weeks apart, Dec & Jan this year. If life wasn't cruel enough taking 1 it took both away from me.

Miss them every day, would give anything for 1 more say

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

My grandfather, when I had cancer he wanted it to be him instead, he sadly died from emphysema before I got better. I was very close to him, as a carpenter he made beautiful things we still have but I miss him quite a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sound so cruel but nobody. My grandparents are all dead, that's life.

There is no one I wish I had one more day with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Nan and great Aunt (Nans sister) .... together for 87 years, died less than 6 weeks apart, Dec & Jan this year. If life wasn't cruel enough taking 1 it took both away from me.

Miss them every day, would give anything for 1 more say

Similar here dad then brother then dads twin brother all within 3 months its a cruel world at times Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My grandfather, when I had cancer he wanted it to be him instead, he sadly died from emphysema before I got better. I was very close to him, as a carpenter he made beautiful things we still have but I miss him quite a bit."
we will never know if there is a life after this ones lets hope there is and he can see you fit and well . xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

My best friend who had leukemia and died too quickly.

No one replaces our loved ones. Thoughts with you and hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A certain someone, but memories are treasured jewels you can take out and relish with smiles and a warm heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost some good friends way before they should have gone and I often think of them and what they would be up to now had things worked out differently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sound so cruel but nobody. My grandparents are all dead, that's life.

There is no one I wish I had one more day with."
cruel no ........... I miss the people who made me the woman I am today and I look back ..and miss that . x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I sound so cruel but nobody. My grandparents are all dead, that's life.

There is no one I wish I had one more day with."

It doesn't sound cruel to me. People die. We carry on living until we don't.

I miss people who are still living too.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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I miss my mum.

I lost her when I was 28.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my dad

seems so long ago that he died but not been two years yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son 13 days, was not long enough.

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I miss my mum.

I lost her when I was 28.

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BIG HUGS))))) xx

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"My grandfather, when I had cancer he wanted it to be him instead, he sadly died from emphysema before I got better. I was very close to him, as a carpenter he made beautiful things we still have but I miss him quite a bit.we will never know if there is a life after this ones lets hope there is and he can see you fit and well . xx"

Hope so, Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her."
I did at first but now I can and its really helps . xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My son 13 days, was not long enough."

Xxx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I haven't lost any close friends or family yet - so I miss my special animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum and her sister who was as close to me as my mum,who passed 2 weeks of each other, and a very close work mate all passed 5 years ago and still missed them so much xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sound so cruel but nobody. My grandparents are all dead, that's life.

There is no one I wish I had one more day with.cruel no ........... I miss the people who made me the woman I am today and I look back ..and miss that . x"

If I was asked would I want my friends to have one more day with loved ones that have died, without a second thought, I'd give a limb to let a friend spend a second with her stillborn son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my mum every day, just typing that brings tears to my eyes.....

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her.I did at first but now I can and its really helps . xx"
hope I can reach that point and maybe a thread like this can only help but currently it only makes me feel sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Grandad. He was my role model for many of my better traits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum and her sister who was as close to me as my mum,who passed 2 weeks of each other, and a very close work mate all passed 5 years ago and still missed them so much xxx"
I think I am blessed to have had them in my life even if I miss so much. Life it go on and they would hate me not to be happy. XX

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her.I did at first but now I can and its really helps . xx"

Seconded

When my sister or real mum as i call her died my world fell apart to this day it feels like she was killed yesterday but time has shown me although it still hurts like hell and that will never change I am able to deal with it and rather than think of my loss I think how lucky I was to have her in my life at all so yes I miss her desperately but nobody can take her away from me again.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I miss my mum every day, just typing that brings tears to my eyes....."

Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sound so cruel but nobody. My grandparents are all dead, that's life.

There is no one I wish I had one more day with.cruel no ........... I miss the people who made me the woman I am today and I look back ..and miss that . x

If I was asked would I want my friends to have one more day with loved ones that have died, without a second thought, I'd give a limb to let a friend spend a second with her stillborn son."
no words can heal a mum when lost her child only time can help as you never get over that .And I am sure you would do what ever to help if you could. xxxxxx

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I miss my mum.

I lost her when I was 28.

BIG HUGS))))) xx"

Thank you xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My son 13 days, was not long enough."

"I have spread my dreams under your feet;

Tread softly because you tread on my dreams."

I always think of this when I think of my lost son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some sadness in this thread. Hugs to all.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her."

I know exactly where you're coming from.

Very difficult...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her.

I know exactly where you're coming from.

Very difficult... "
was 2 years and now I can look and smile at him ..before I was just wishing to cry so time it helps well it has me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her.

I know exactly where you're coming from.

Very difficult... "

Me too.

I wear her watch, I find that helps me feel close.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

My Grandma , head of the family , a good woman in every sense , she was a true inspiration to me , and still is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum lost her when I was 19 been lost myself at the same time . Could never be the person I used to be no matter how hard I try

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

My brother, passed away in January this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also just been watching "the returned" on Netflix quite thought provoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nan. 8yrs ago this year and still miss her tons. My friend has just lost his mum and cannot imagine how hard losing a parent is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My brother, passed away in January this year

Aw feel for you i don't care what anyone says it doesn't get easier you just learn to deal with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My brother, passed away in January this year

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big hugs))) I have one sister only and very close and god I hate to think how I would feel if this was me . xxx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My brother, passed away in January this year

I feel for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost all my grandparents now and my mother but I have to say the one I struggle to come to terms with is my brother in law who committed suicide. Just can't deal with it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was looking for a number in a old phone a cuple of weeks ago but couldn't remember the companys name so ended up scrolling the whole phone book. 6 numbers I found of friends or colleague that are now dead. I think I'm getting old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nan. She bought me up and was my best friend. Died 9 years ago and I miss her everyday.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"My mum. Find it difficult to look at pictures of her.

I know exactly where you're coming from.

Very difficult...

Me too.

I wear her watch, I find that helps me feel close."

That's good...

I was given a solid silver pebble keyring with a personalised engraving by her. It's with me everyday on my car/home keys.

Helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've lost all my grandparents now and my mother but I have to say the one I struggle to come to terms with is my brother in law who committed suicide. Just can't deal with it "
Its a hard one suicide they feel they have a right but don't think of the ones left behind . I love life and I think people who there only way out is that must be in a very bad place . I hope he has found peace .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've lost all my grandparents now and my mother but I have to say the one I struggle to come to terms with is my brother in law who committed suicide. Just can't deal with it "

Like most I suspect I used to think of suicide as the cowerds way out but that was before 1 of my closest friends did it. He was no way a cowered would take on anyone anytime. Him and his ex wife took there doughter out for a curry on her 16 birthday lije tgey had 100s if times before except this time his little princess developed a nut alergie with no warnings compleatly out of the blue. The poor girl didn't even make it to hospital died in the ambulance. 12 months later my mate could find no reason to carry on. Checked himself into a hotel with a bottle of wisky and a pot of pills and I have nothing but respect for his choice.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hugs for everyone 3 x

Thankyou x

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sorry my heart didn't work

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

My son, who was 21, he died of leukaemia in 2007...

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I've lost all my grandparents now and my mother but I have to say the one I struggle to come to terms with is my brother in law who committed suicide. Just can't deal with it

I agree with this sentiment.

I think if someone is in such a state that they're willing to commit suicide... To reach that point...

My heart goes out to them. Poor, poor person.

Awful. Awful.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you have a drink or even if not lets take a moment and raise a glass. To all who we have missed be they family or friends or even fow. We miss you one and all. To roz thank you you gave me hope I owe you all I am and will never forget what you did or your wise words. Oh and if you don't already know it big ted is now with my princess. See you when I get there xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks game4 and yes blade it is often seen that way which I don't agree with not that I'm saying it's the right thing to do as he took himself but really he took my sister with him she will never be the same and neither their children . If I were to see him again I think I'd beat the crap out of him and then tell him how much I love him . I think it's why it's so hard to come to terms with ... I can't understand why he chose to do it , I'm angry and at the same time I miss him more than I could ever have imagined . Life is just one series of stress and I think it's just gets worse the older you get . ... Until I'm at that age where I can say anything to anyone and get away with it because I'm just an old man !! They will be good times !! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww sorry cinders a parent should never have to outlive their children it's something you just shouldn't have to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have a drink or even if not lets take a moment and raise a glass. To all who we have missed be they family or friends or even fow. We miss you one and all. To roz thank you you gave me hope I owe you all I am and will never forget what you did or your wise words. Oh and if you don't already know it big ted is now with my princess. See you when I get there xxx"

Cheers to that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My son, who was 21, he died of leukaemia in 2007..."
This post I did as come to bed and was smiling at dads pic but it makes me see I am not alone missing the ones I love . (((BIG HUGS))))) I cant even think how you have coped with this . X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not one of us know if life after this one ... I am keeping a open mind.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've never believed in mediams but I did see 1 after my sis it really was freaky as fuck. Did anyone else do the same ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never believed in mediams but I did see 1 after my sis it really was freaky as fuck. Did anyone else do the same ?"
yes as was freaky as fuck .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've never believed in mediams but I did see 1 after my sis it really was freaky as fuck. Did anyone else do the same ?yes as was freaky as fuck .

Just mailed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first cousin. He was killed in a traffic accident in Oz two years ago while living and working over there with my brother. It's ripped my family apart, no one is the same. Would love another chat with him. He was a loveable brat. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My uncle, he was more like a Dad to me, and was my Mum's twin brother. Not a day goes by without someone mentioning his name, we have pics everywhere, he's still a huge part of our lives 2 years later. I think that was our healing process, almost like it's our way of making sure he's never really gone.

Big hugs to all of you, they say time heals all wounds, that's a lie, some you just learn how to cope with.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

A nice fit black lady

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I was quite young when my granddad on my mum's side died. I remember being in Manchester a lot visiting my mum's friends and family and my granddad would buy purple Chewits and play Sleeping Lions with my sister, our friends and me. I miss him.

My granddad on my dad's side passed away in 2007 from cancer. For anyone who believes in limbic resonance, I knew there was a problem before I was told. I was at school and I collapsed early in the morning - the school nurse put it down to dehydration. Later that day I had an awful feeling in my stomach and I wanted to call my dad, but I had an hour of class left so I had to wait. I called him the minute I left class and he said he had had a call 20 minutes before I called him saying that granddad was in hospital. I knew something was wrong and to this day I regret not leaving class to call my dad earlier. He died later that week.

My granny on my dad's side died a couple of years after my granddad. I miss the cupcakes and fried bread/grilled cheese sandwiches she used to make on milk bread. I miss the awful stool in their kitchen that had no padding on it at all and made my bum go dead. I miss doing crossword puzzles in their living room and failing miserably, so turning to colouring books instead.

Most of all I miss my aunty on my mums side. She was 27 when she died. She had epilepsy. She was like the big sister I never had. She would visit us often, and always bring lilies with her - hence my tattoo. The night before she died, I was talking to her on MSN, her boyfriend had just dumped her and she was really upset and I just wanted to cuddle her. I told her how much I love her. That night she had a seizure, and the next morning she was too unwell to get out of bed. Her mum went to work and asked the neighbours to check on her an hour later. By the time they checked on her, she had passed away. I miss her all the time.

"A thousand words won't bring you back, we know because we've tried.

Neither would a million tears, we know because we've cried.

You've left behind out broken hearts and precious memories too.

But we never wanted memories, we only wanted you."

Big hugs to everyone who has lost somebody they care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my Grandad.

I can't even remember how long ago he died but I must have been about 15.

I always remember staying over my grandparents when I was little and putting on concerts for them. I'm tone deaf so it must have been awful but he always told me I was great.

I always remember think he worked in the local betting shop too because he was there so often. Turns out he just liked to bet on horses a lot haha.

I miss him. And if there is a life after death and hes looking down. I feel bad because of the person I've turned out to be.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I was quite young when my granddad on my mum's side died. I remember being in Manchester a lot visiting my mum's friends and family and my granddad would buy purple Chewits and play Sleeping Lions with my sister, our friends and me. I miss him.

"A thousand words won't bring you back, we know because we've tried.

Neither would a million tears, we know because we've cried.

You've left behind out broken hearts and precious memories too.

But we never wanted memories, we only wanted you."

Big hugs to everyone who has lost somebody they care about. "

I feel you kid xx

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Wow! I've read this thread and boy are the tears flowing! I've lost grandparents but I was never really that close to them, I go to their graves every birthday and Christmas and reminisce about them with family. One thing is for sure that one day I will miss people and I hope that is a long time coming!

Big big hugs to all of you xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I miss my Grandad.

I can't even remember how long ago he died but I must have been about 15.

I always remember staying over my grandparents when I was little and putting on concerts for them. I'm tone deaf so it must have been awful but he always told me I was great.

I always remember think he worked in the local betting shop too because he was there so often. Turns out he just liked to bet on horses a lot haha.

I miss him. And if there is a life after death and hes looking down. I feel bad because of the person I've turned out to be. "

I recon old pops will be proud as punch. no matter what our kids do any good parent will tell you no matter what our kids do wrong we are always proud of them and then when our kids have kids of they're own they become our much loved tools of revenge to be handed back to mummy and daddy with the smelliest nappys they can produce just like they're mummy or daddy did to us.. and they say revenge is best served cold na warm and sloppy that's what works best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my auntie, she was 1 of the best women in the world, some people might think this is harsh but I couldn't give two hoots for the rest of my family but my auntie was 1 in a million, it's just gone 9 years and I still miss her all the time. She was the mom I never had and is very sadly missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Dad who died 19 years ago in December, my mum who died suddenly 5 years ago today, 3 days before her 80th birthday. Life without them is pretty empty.

And my brother who tells me he will take his own life because he doesn't want to live. Unfortunately I haven't spoken to him since January this year because I cant deal with what he says, but text him every couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again"

That's beautiful.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again"

I really like this

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again"

sorry but I had to copy this hope you don't mind

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over a year ago

Obviously I miss people who have passed away but I miss me. I've lost myself over the years,I don't know who I am or could be any more. I've been daughter,sister,wife,mummy,nan. I don't know what it's like to just be me.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again"

that is really beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A certain someone, but memories are treasured jewels you can take out and relish with smiles and a warm heart

I know what you mean.

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

My wife coming up 2 years now she was my rock as we were so close she spent all of her life helping others as a nurse both in the army and in the nhs over 30 years life can be very cruel but at least I still have my memories and all the good times we had together plus she gave us 2 fantastic children

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over a year ago

My grandad died 4 weeks after my nan (mums mum and dads dad). They were born on the same day strangely. I read a eulogy at both their funerals and ended them with this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glint on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,

I am the swift, uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight.

I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.

I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.

I am not there, I did not die!

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over a year ago

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again

That's beautiful. "

Thank you, it's from the heart.

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over a year ago

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again

sorry but I had to copy this hope you don't mind "

Not at all. Happy that you liked it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My grandad died 4 weeks after my nan (mums mum and dads dad). They were born on the same day strangely. I read a eulogy at both their funerals and ended them with this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glint on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,

I am the swift, uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight.

I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.

I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.

I am not there, I did not die!"

This is a lovely poem, it was read out at my friends 13 year olds funeral 2 weeks ago

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over a year ago

"My grandad died 4 weeks after my nan (mums mum and dads dad). They were born on the same day strangely. I read a eulogy at both their funerals and ended them with this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glint on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,

I am the swift, uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight.

I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.

I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.

I am not there, I did not die!

This is a lovely poem, it was read out at my friends 13 year olds funeral 2 weeks ago

13 is no age. What an awful shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My grandad died 4 weeks after my nan (mums mum and dads dad). They were born on the same day strangely. I read a eulogy at both their funerals and ended them with this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glint on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,

I am the swift, uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight.

I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.

I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.

I am not there, I did not die!

This is a lovely poem, it was read out at my friends 13 year olds funeral 2 weeks ago

13 is no age. What an awful shame.

He was poorly all his life but his mom and dad gave him the best life he could have wished for, the nearly 500 people that turned up proved what an amazing young boy he was

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

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My mum,my dad n my grandson

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again"

Do you know who wrote this? Google isn't helping. I used this poem 7 years ago, and didn't say who the poet was

I'd love to read more of their stuff

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over a year ago

I miss my children - don't get me wrong, still both very much alive and well, and in my life.

But not enough.

I miss them. But I know I am lucky to have them at all xx

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment that you died

My heart was torn in two

One side filled with heartache

The other died with you

I often lie awake at night

When the world is fast asleep and

Take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheeks

Remembering you is easy

I do it everyday

But missing you is heartache

That never goes away

I hold you tightly within my heart

And their you will remain

Until the joyous day arrives

That we will meet again

Do you know who wrote this? Google isn't helping. I used this poem 7 years ago, and didn't say who the poet was

I'd love to read more of their stuff"

I've looked and it's by an Unknown.

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over a year ago

"My grandad died 4 weeks after my nan (mums mum and dads dad). They were born on the same day strangely. I read a eulogy at both their funerals and ended them with this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glint on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,

I am the swift, uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight.

I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.

I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.

I am not there, I did not die!"

I read this at my mums funeral

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My grandad died 4 weeks after my nan (mums mum and dads dad). They were born on the same day strangely. I read a eulogy at both their funerals and ended them with this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glint on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,

I am the swift, uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight.

I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.

I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.

I am not there, I did not die!"
yes had this at some I have been too and the words they paint pics in your head and are very up lifting its very lovely. xxxx

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