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Love, an over used word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being a bit of a profile perv, and a nosey mare, i like browsing profiles and reading verifications.

What im noticing is that at the end of the verifications, folks are ending with, 'luv you babes', 'love you'. Now have to say from the few I have seen, it tends to be women, that end with that.

I think I find it strange, me personally I would never put that on a verification.

So is the word Love over used? I tell my family and friends regularly that 'I love them', but thats because I genuinely do! Do other people just use it as a word with no real meaning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I only tell my kids I love them, and kiss and cuddle them as long and as often they let me: I don't love anyone else.

I couldn't possibly comment on the mental state of the women who put "I luvs yu babe" on some profile of a stranger that had just shagged them bandy. But I do think the word "love" IS overused, especially on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to say sweet nothings to my left hand and often tell it I love it, but I do use 'love' in this case quite lightly and over used, cuz when I user right hand that the real love of my life, it does just so much more and works it's magic more than the left. So I would just like to say to my right hand 'I LOOOVVVVVEEEEEE YOU'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell my hubby and children i love them and often........ also some very close friends and of course family.... wouldn't use to peeps though....... so yes in here think it is over used xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to say sweet nothings to my left hand and often tell it I love it, but I do use 'love' in this case quite lightly and over used, cuz when I user right hand that the real love of my life, it does just so much more and works it's magic more than the left. So I would just like to say to my right hand 'I LOOOVVVVVEEEEEE YOU' "

You're touched: literally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a word I use lightly.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only if uber hung.

sliding scale per inch..

6 and below... don't darken my door ever.

from..

7 inch like you

8 inch really like you

9 inch feeling love for you

10 inch fucking love you

11 inch and more.. drag him for an immediate civil partnership.

I would hate to be one of those shallow people and use it inappropriately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only if uber hung.

sliding scale per inch..

6 and below... don't darken my door ever.

from..

7 inch like you

8 inch really like you

9 inch feeling love for you

10 inch fucking love you

11 inch and more.. drag him for an immediate civil partnership.

I would hate to be one of those shallow people and use it inappropriately."
lol love can be all sorts of things i love same thing as you and would lock him up in my bed room lol ok tie him to the four poster- bed .jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only if uber hung.

sliding scale per inch..

6 and below... don't darken my door ever.

from..

7 inch like you

8 inch really like you

9 inch feeling love for you

10 inch fucking love you

11 inch and more.. drag him for an immediate civil partnership.

I would hate to be one of those shallow people and use it inappropriately."

Ooooooh View: you're hilarious!!

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

I'd say I probably use the phrase...'Anyone seen my car keys?' more often than 'I love you'. In fact I probably use 'Anyone seen my car keys' more often than any other phrase in the English language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say I probably use the phrase...'Anyone seen my car keys?' more often than 'I love you'. In fact I probably use 'Anyone seen my car keys' more often than any other phrase in the English language."

..... they are in your handbag

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Found em! No they were in the tea caddy...of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I am guilty of this.......

I wouldnt say Love you at the end of a message to someone on fab, but I do tend to say, I love Chameleons, I loved my night out, I love oral sex, that kind of thing.

to me the word love means a varient of things to me. I can say love you to a friend or someone Im really close to, if I say Im in love with you, thats different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" to me the word love means a variant of things to me. I can say love you to a friend or someone I'm really close to, if I say I'm in love with you, that's different "

Have to confess I agree with you. For me, there are various types and levels of love, and when it comes to relationships, at it's most basic it's something more than just, "I like you a lot"!

Of course, when you get into the swinging scenario/environment then it surely must be taboo? Or maybe it depends what swinging is to a particular individual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it was overused as much as misused.

The word itself seems to have lost it's meaning nowadays.

Society seems intent on bestowing everyone with platitudes and sincerity is hard to recognise.

Every emotion has to have a card to express it properly so that we seem no longer capable of finding the right word for ourselves.

"luv u babes"....it's hollow; the fact it is abbreviated denotes how much sincerity is given to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Precisely. It's lost it's meaning because people now attach it to 'things' as well as people or emotions between people.

So we get assinine remarks like ... I love chocolate cake etc....

It's not a different kind of love...... you cannot love an inanimate object. Gross misuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discounting those blokes who fuck the exhausts of their cars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Precisely. It's lost it's meaning because people now attach it to 'things' as well as people or emotions between people.

So we get assinine remarks like ... I love chocolate cake etc....

It's not a different kind of love...... you cannot love an inanimate object. Gross misuse. "

Exactly! Love and hate equally.

I'm actually raising my children to use them properly...to the point that I make them suggest alternative words and they aren't even allowed to use the word 'hate' ....I can't believe how much that word get's banded about, as if it holds no meaning.

...on a rant....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only if uber hung.

sliding scale per inch..

6 and below... don't darken my door ever.

from..

7 inch like you

8 inch really like you

9 inch feeling love for you

10 inch fucking love you

11 inch and more.. drag him for an immediate civil partnership.

I would hate to be one of those shallow people and use it inappropriately."

sound advice from an expert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw, I luv ya posts Granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looooooooove is a many splendoured thing ....... all sing along now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and sex can be completely separate things. Have experienced the best of both, and when they came as a package, well, nothing better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw, I luv ya posts Granny "

I was flattered for a nano nano second till the fookin penny dropped.

Luvs ya babes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looooooooove is a many splendoured thing ....... all sing along now"

Like a doody doody dooodah in the early spring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw, I luv ya posts Granny

I was flattered for a nano nano second till the fookin penny dropped.

Luvs ya babes xxx "

haha. Owned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show me an over used word and I'll love it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

show me an over loved word and I will use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes maybe it has lost its meaning a little, but you know there are worst things in life. We are all different. I wont change and try and use the word love differently because its me and I love using it how and when I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"show me an over loved word and I will use it "

Smothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reed moths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reed moths"

How very dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reed moths

How very dare you "

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