FabSwingers.com forum: First message logic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

"Did you just hear a bang? That was the sound of my knickers hitting the floor over that inspiring and intellectual peice of poetry that arrived in my inbox. Send me your address, I'll be straight over"

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand how anyone would think such a message would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do try and read the profile and complement and send a thoughtful msg but most of the time the msgs will be delete anyway lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never understand how anyone would think such a message would work"

I do understand why. Maybe that's why I'm not shocked or bothered at all by those kind of mails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, I expect "Would you like to participate in some copulation?" at the very least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we do try and read the profile and complement and send a thoughtful msg but most of the time the msgs will be delete anyway lol x."

My profile states that I won't be meeting anyone for any reason and yet people keep asking me for a meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know, I expect "Would you like to participate in some copulation?" at the very least.

Exactly, a little bit of grammer goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we do try and read the profile and complement and send a thoughtful msg but most of the time the msgs will be delete anyway lol x.

My profile states that I won't be meeting anyone for any reason and yet people keep asking me for a meet x"
I see yes and in that case yeah that means they haven't read it x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, I expect "Would you like to participate in some copulation?" at the very least.

Exactly, a little bit of grammer goes a long way

Yep, standards are slipping on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we do try and read the profile and complement and send a thoughtful msg but most of the time the msgs will be delete anyway lol x.

My profile states that I won't be meeting anyone for any reason and yet people keep asking me for a meet x"

If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list (men, couples etc) it takes you off the searches and cuts down the mail. It works great. x

My profile says sod all and people still mail me...

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

"Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X"

I don't get it either but apparently walking down the street if you make that offer you may get a few slaps but every now and again you'll be taken up on it... so I was reliably informed some years ago, not my style tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, I expect "Would you like to participate in some copulation?" at the very least.

You forgot the word 'mutual' in there.

Of course, maybe you didn't!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Exactly, a little bit of grandma goes a long way

Sorry to hijack OP,

But is anyone else imagining Jim's son saying this in a few years time, or is it just me?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried sending polite and respectful messages and still had no reply well I had one reply what do you have to do write an essay??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X"

Bloody Hell

do you wear chainmail knickers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got that message once from someone 200 miles away.

I said ok then, meet you in Costa Coffee in half an hour.

He seemed well up for it and asked which Costa?

I said the one in my local town.

He then asked where I lived?

Err... yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X"

I do think the "wanna fuk" brigade are really expecting the reply "yeah. u is sexy innit?".

I don't think they'd cope with the eloquence of your reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we do try and read the profile and complement and send a thoughtful msg but most of the time the msgs will be delete anyway lol x."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say hell yeah, but not with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What wrong with these messages i often send out wanna fuk messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh every message boils down to "do you want to have sex with me/us" on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried sending polite and respectful messages and still had no reply well I had one reply what do you have to do write an essay??"

It all depends on if they fancy you.

Couples/females tend to send awful messages on here as they known the answer is usually yes so they don't have to bother with all the bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh every message boils down to "do you want to have sex with me/us" on here."

Was gonna say same thing, or more "I/We like you...do you like me/us?"

Dress it up all you want, that is the true essence of most first messages here.

Of course there are some types of opener that are an instant turn off, won't go into detail but we've all had them. I think some peeps view swingers as anybody's and all they have to do is ask.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

"Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X

Bloody Hell

do you wear chainmail knickers ?

or a medieval chastity belt lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have tried sending polite and respectful messages and still had no reply well I had one reply what do you have to do write an essay??

It all depends on if they fancy you.

Couples/females tend to send awful messages on here as they known the answer is usually yes so they don't have to bother with all the bullshit"

I've had some shit ones from couples as well. Probably more then likely from the male half, but I'm not stating that as a fact as I never message them back to ask who is messaging me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried sending polite and respectful messages and still had no reply well I had one reply what do you have to do write an essay??

It all depends on if they fancy you.

Couples/females tend to send awful messages on here as they known the answer is usually yes so they don't have to bother with all the bullshit

I've had some shit ones from couples as well. Probably more then likely from the male half, but I'm not stating that as a fact as I never message them back to ask who is messaging me x"

Why do you assume the male half?

The I assume it's the female half for the reason above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to wonder how many messages are bot generated... Make the place look busy....Just saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to wonder how many messages are bot generated... Make the place look busy....Just saying..."

None I'd say unless the site is spamming "wanna fuck" messages from single males lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the sender of a fancy a fuck message was tasty and I fancied a fuck I would reply. Not saying the fuck would be happening but the talks would be opened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had messages that just say 'fit'.

Maybe i shouldn't be cheeky and reply 'you mean fat'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person sending the wanna fuck message is fit , we say yes , meet , and fuck . Isn't that what the sites about ?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If the person sending the wanna fuck message is fit , we say yes , meet , and fuck . Isn't that what the sites about ?

why are the good 1s always so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the wanna fuck message works with me. All depends on who sent it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have tried sending polite and respectful messages and still had no reply well I had one reply what do you have to do write an essay??

It all depends on if they fancy you.

Couples/females tend to send awful messages on here as they known the answer is usually yes so they don't have to bother with all the bullshit

I've had some shit ones from couples as well. Probably more then likely from the male half, but I'm not stating that as a fact as I never message them back to ask who is messaging me x

Why do you assume the male half?

The I assume it's the female half for the reason above."

Because I constantly got them from single males and I get them from couples. But not single women. So from that logic, I can assume it's the male half x

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I always send a nice message to a girl and i have received the reply "how big is your cock" on more than one occasion.

I always send a nice telling off reply which has elicited an apologetic reply sometimes.......so it's not always the guys !!!!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X"

you mean to say they don't even announce they've just put the kettle on too? Bloody hell, has foreplay gone completely out of the window?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I have to ask? Who would like to engage in coitus with me?

I do understand the frustration however if you look at it from the male point of view. We type big long messages being polite and talking about stuff in relation to your profile, I've spent a good 10 mins trying to think of what to say before! Then u log on check your mail and we get disheartened when you just click delete.

So can also understand why SOME people just send "wanna fuck" because it's quicker easier and u feel less rejected when they delete!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Message they send

"Hey wana fuk?"

Expected reply

What they actually get

"Message deleted"

do people actually try? X

I do think the "wanna fuk" brigade are really expecting the reply "yeah. u is sexy innit " "

Haha I'm gonna try this one day, I sometimes cant resist replying with 'Nah', though that's more likely with a long generic cut and paste from someone who obviously hadn't read my profile!

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Just received Bareback Cuckold?

2 quite big words still quick to delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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