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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We realise that this subject has probably been covered in the forums ad nauseum but please indulge us with a quick straw poll.

What do Fabsters think is preferable;

1. Attempting to reply nicely to everyone whether it's a message, wink or freind invite and whether they've read your profile or not;

OR

2. Adopt the delete & block scorched earth approach.

Answer with a simple 1 or 2. Many thanks.

Love

Jodie & Dan

xx

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix of 1 and 2, depending on my mood, and the quality of the message.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

a partial 1 - messages (as long as they aren't rude) get a response winks and unsolicited friends requests just get deleted

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

There should be a 3....Messages from people that meet the requirements of your profile (location, age, sexual preference, smoking/non,) get a reply if they have bothered to read your profile before messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always a 1 for me !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be a 3....Messages from people that meet the requirements of your profile (location, age, sexual preference, smoking/non,) get a reply if they have bothered to read your profile before messaging you."

*Nods in total agreement*

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im mainly a 1. but have on occasions used 2 when mail is a one liner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be a 3....Messages from people that meet the requirements of your profile (location, age, sexual preference, smoking/non,) get a reply if they have bothered to read your profile before messaging you."

I assume your point is covered by option 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 1 for such a long time.

I became 2 when my polite replies were taking over my life.

Im mostly 1 still but keep it REALLY short.

I use deletive expletives if they ask again. I go from no thanks to fuck off in seconds ?

What number is that ?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I was 1 for such a long time.

I became 2 when my polite replies were taking over my life.

Im mostly 1 still but keep it REALLY short.

I use deletive expletives if they ask again. I go from no thanks to fuck off in seconds ?

What number is that ?

"

LOL, I like it

I am mainly a one, but if after the third attempt from them they get a 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

second thoughs

3-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3"

There is no 3. The answer would be;

1 - if they've read and match our profile

or

2 - if they haven't

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"3

There is no 3."

There is now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There should be a 3....Messages from people that meet the requirements of your profile (location, age, sexual preference, smoking/non,) get a reply if they have bothered to read your profile before messaging you."

There shouldn't be a 3. It's our thread and our survey and we only want a 1 & 2. See, we're turning into a 2 already [or maybe a 4!!!!]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3

There is no 3.

There is now"

There isn't. Not on our watch. Not now not ever. It's 1 or 2. All 3's will be given a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's me messaging you - LOL

I'd say 2 is more or less accepted on here but 1 is nicer if at all possible!!

Chris

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

5.....A reply to those who don't even realise they have written to you in the first place

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We realise that this subject has probably been covered in the forums ad nauseum but please indulge us with a quick straw poll.

What do Fabsters think is preferable;

1. Attempting to reply nicely to everyone whether it's a message, wink or freind invite and whether they've read your profile or not;

OR

2. Adopt the delete & block scorched earth approach.

Answer with a simple 1 or 2. Many thanks.

Love

Jodie & Dan

xx"

so if i am not covered by 1 or 2 how am i suppose the answer...... not trying to be awkward honest.....

different sorts of replies get different answers....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

69.....The reply a really hot person gets when they write to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"69.....The reply a really hot person gets when they write to you"

Bloody 'ell Jane. This is turning into the Monty Python, 'What have the Romans done for us' sketch. A 5 would obviously get a number 2 although perhaps not literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69.....The reply a really hot person gets when they write to you

Bloody 'ell Jane. This is turning into the Monty Python, 'What have the Romans done for us' sketch. A 5 would obviously get a number 2 although perhaps not literally. "

have you paid for this argument?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The question is flawed, so I can't answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is flawed, so I can't answer."

What question?

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By *ertngladCouple
over a year ago

thornton -cleveleys

is this a 5 minute or a 10 minute argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up carin' ....... giz a 99 and I'll be happy.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've given up carin' ....... giz a 99 and I'll be happy."

Would you like sprinkles with that?

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1"

1 sprinkle? hardly seems worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I am not extreme enough to adopt either 1 or 2.

It is subjective, depending on mood and quality of incoming message and messager.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

why dont u 2 anyone that says 3 ?

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