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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else got this problem, still haven't met anyone after being on here a while!!

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea

Same here, but I'm in no rush, actually quite happy with just speaking to some tidy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 weeks?!?!

It's not instashag!!

Give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else got this problem, still haven't met anyone after being on here a while!! "

7 weeks isn't a while, you could have to wait 7 months

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Anyone else got this problem, still haven't met anyone after being on here a while!!

7 weeks isn't a while, you could have to wait 7 months "

Exactly, I'm on 5 months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not accommodating could be one of the problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else got this problem, still haven't met anyone after being on here a while!! "

Maybe you need to look at how you are going about things? Or maybe your sense of expectation is totally skewed?

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

not accommodating is your only problem. seven weeks is ages dude, I would of left:-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met anybody myself! Only been on a short while though

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

What's the rush

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm I guess I will have to wait!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had that problem

Some of the time it is sheer dumb luck though. I know a few single guys on here who are very successful. They take their time getting to know a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had four meets since rejoining the site 8 weeks ago. Three have verified me.

This is where it gets interesting for s single guy.

Two of the meets were right time right place. Late at night meets where couples asked me to join them.

One meet was a gangbang so again arguably right time right place.

Finally I have had one meet the good old fashioned way through messages flirting and then meeting. But in all honesty I think the best opportunity is being available at the right time and place.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"What's the rush"

blue balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you visit clubs or attend socials? They're the best way of properly introducing yourself. Take your time, chat and get to know people...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Anyone else got this problem, still haven't met anyone after being on here a while!! "

Pop up a status update to that effect - chicks dig them and you'll be fighting them off with a stick.

A

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Get out to meet others for more than sexual encounters. Be friendly, open and interesting and people will get to know you.

Single guys have - on average - the toughest time on here, due to the sheer volumes of you. Adapt, be flexible, have persistence and don't just rely on the internet as a source of swinging fun. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else got this problem, still haven't met anyone after being on here a while!! "

The profile is terrible people are a six sly out shopping they're going to pick up the product that tells you what it is and what's it's like and what it's good for not the one that says "to find out the contents of this box ask a member of staff"

You can sit ad you are now doing the same thing for a million years nothing will change because stove not changed it. (Hint women aren't working down a list when meeting)

Write a defect well formatted profile with good pics and some exhausted and you can have a meet by the end of the week.

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Get out to meet others for more than sexual encounters. Be friendly, open and interesting and people will get to know you.

Single guys have - on average - the toughest time on here, due to the sheer volumes of you. Adapt, be flexible, have persistence and don't just rely on the internet as a source of swinging fun. Good luck!"

As well as that manners cost nothing. One a lot of people forget on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your opening line won't be helping you... You're probably putting off anyone who doesn't consider themselves to be a "classy blonde".

As for your search for two women... Fucking hell lad, get a grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here, but I'm in no rush, actually quite happy with just speaking to some tidy people

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Just remember every passing day you stay quite happily the same your chances diminish at 5 months you'll already be being deleted as a time waster by a large number of people.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Seven weeks is not a while in fab terms thats new. If you want to meet people go to a club.

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Same here, but I'm in no rush, actually quite happy with just speaking to some tidy people

Just remember every passing day you stay quite happily the same your chances diminish at 5 months you'll already be being deleted as a time waster by a large number of people."

Surprisingly that's turned out to be the opposite. speaking to more people now than before, I've got a social to go to on Friday so I think that'll hopefully be the tipping point for meets. See what happens really...

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"Hmmm I guess I will have to wait!! "

rather than just waiting, try getting yourself along to socials in your area. If there isn't one then start one yourself.

Best wishes

Paul

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

How about doing a compare.com....go down to your local pub every night for the next seven weeks....ask a stranger to meet up with you for sex and see how well that goes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience, so far the queue is few years lol

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"Hmmm I guess I will have to wait!! "

More than just a case of waiting - you need to be more active. Make more of an effort on your profile, messages and attending clubs and socials.

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