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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awkward moment on Sunday night... I spent a few hours with my fwb. I noticed I had a couple of teeny hairs round my areolas before I met him but didn't bother plucking them as I planned to keep my underwear on. He pulled my bodice down, I was like "noooo hairy nipples", and he just carried on, like he wasn't too concerned with a few hairs.

So how would all you other men would feel about a few random hairs in slightly unfeminine places?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a few hairs between FWB,

It wouldn't bother me and if it bothered her I would say pluck them

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Hellfire that is disgusting..reminds me of that time I was about to have mindblowing sex with a nubile 25 year old...luckily I noticed the faint peachy down on the inside of her upper thighs just before I did the deed and was able to make my excuses and leg it pronto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a few hairs between FWB,

It wouldn't bother me and if it bothered her I would say pluck them"

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Wouldn't bother me. As the earlier poster said, what's a few hairs between friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how would all you other men would feel about a few random hairs in slightly unfeminine places?"

It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

And may I add that in 5 years together , nearly three years married , it's never happened here . But it did in both my previous marriages and it's not pleasant .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apologise to all men I may have accidentally inflicted with the horrifying sight of a rogue body hair which is a sign I want to marry them and wear flannelette nighties and never have sex again. I thought it was because I'd just forgotten or decided to do something more important like make sure my makeup looked good, but apparently it's a sign I'm a slovenly vanilla prude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I apologise to all men I may have accidentally inflicted with the horrifying sight of a rogue body hair which is a sign I want to marry them and wear flannelette nighties and never have sex again. I thought it was because I'd just forgotten or decided to do something more important like make sure my makeup looked good, but apparently it's a sign I'm a slovenly vanilla prude."

If you were aware the rogue hairs were there , but chose not to do anything about them , that's different to forgetting them or doing something more important like your make up .

It's the attitude of sod it , I am keeping my underwear on so it doesn't matter that sucks a bit , and as I said , from my perspective it's unpleasant , as is sarcasm .

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If a man is put off by the odd hair that I missed then I guess he'll just miss out ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were aware the rogue hairs were there , but chose not to do anything about them , that's different to forgetting them or doing something more important like your make up .

It's the attitude of sod it , I am keeping my underwear on so it doesn't matter that sucks a bit , and as I said , from my perspective it's unpleasant , as is sarcasm .

Yeah sarcasm is a bit unpleasant. I think suggesting a woman who lets a couple of body hairs go is all the things your post suggested is also quite unpleasant though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

And may I add that in 5 years together , nearly three years married , it's never happened here . But it did in both my previous marriages and it's not pleasant . "

I don't shave... can't say that the sex and relationships I have are boring...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shamefully I just counted five hairs around my nipples. Cause you know, I'm 30 and this shit happens as you get older.

Best tell my partner we're getting married and I need my unsexy PJ's. At least then he can decide to leave me now, or shag around behind my back to get some good sex.

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By *inkalottieWoman
over a year ago

BURNLEY

it depends on the personality of the guy. If he's the kind of guy that you could laugh about it with then I wouldn't bother either but if he's someone who would be grossed out by it then it only takes a few seconds with the tweezers. I also have one stray nipple hair and it only gets plucked when I remember it's there and no ones ever commented on it and quite a few men and women have seen the boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shamefully I just counted five hairs around my nipples. Cause you know, I'm 30 and this shit happens as you get older.

Best tell my partner we're getting married and I need my unsexy PJ's. At least then he can decide to leave me now, or shag around behind my back to get some good sex."

Where did anyone say they would shag around ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were aware the rogue hairs were there , but chose not to do anything about them , that's different to forgetting them or doing something more important like your make up .

It's the attitude of sod it , I am keeping my underwear on so it doesn't matter that sucks a bit , and as I said , from my perspective it's unpleasant , as is sarcasm .

Yeah sarcasm is a bit unpleasant. I think suggesting a woman who lets a couple of body hairs go is all the things your post suggested is also quite unpleasant though. "

That's fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man is put off by the odd hair that I missed then I guess he'll just miss out ...

The point is , would you knowingly leave them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't and don't care. It's a bloody hair at the end of the day. We all have them and pretty much always will.

I'd rather just laugh about them if the person is ok to do so, or just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's body hair we all have it if I'm honest I prefer women with a little

Pre pubescent teen look isn't great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

And may I add that in 5 years together , nearly three years married , it's never happened here . But it did in both my previous marriages and it's not pleasant . "

No, I was wearing a chemise and I was expecting something to happen, but I was expecting to keep it on - which I did. The fact that he's one of my best friends probably added to the comfort level too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

And may I add that in 5 years together , nearly three years married , it's never happened here . But it did in both my previous marriages and it's not pleasant .

That's fair enough , and although I seemed critical , I have no idea of a fwb dynamic . Both my wife and myself are very aware of the potential problems associated with ' the comfort zone ' , there was a movie in which the husband is given a cup,of tea by his wife , and he doesn't even acknowledge she made it . Just picked it up and drank it . She says is that what it's come to ..... And perhaps I am being pedantic , but we just never want to get to the point that we don't care any more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we seem to be talking about hair round the nipples , reminds me of the first time I pulled a girl purely cos she had fantastic tits. was about 20, she was 19/20.

Small to medium size but so perky couldn't wait to get in there.

Then when she undressed there were hairs round the nipple. Still great tits though I was a bit surprised.

Nope, no point to this story

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It's a few hairs. We all have them, women and men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how many just looked and checked nipples - no rogues here

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

"how many just looked and checked nipples - no rogues here

Yep just checked with the torch on my phone....bald nipples here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nipples have hairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

Or do hairs have toes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

Or do hairs have toes?"

Now your confusing the masses ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man is put off by the odd hair that I missed then I guess he'll just miss out ...

The point is , would you knowingly leave them ? "

I do.

My partners don't believe i'm some kind of perfect, plastic-skinned sex doll.

If they wanted a perfect, plastic-skinned sex doll then they would have bought one instead of dating a human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

Or do hairs have toes?"

Eek! Which reminds me, I'm thinking about having my wayward eyebrows threaded. Is this OK for a guy, will I loose any man points for this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

Or do hairs have toes?

Eek! Which reminds me, I'm thinking about having my wayward eyebrows threaded. Is this OK for a guy, will I loose any man points for this?? "

No you man points will be fine...just get someone to record you having it done and youtube for us all to see a man in tears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

Or do hairs have toes?

Eek! Which reminds me, I'm thinking about having my wayward eyebrows threaded. Is this OK for a guy, will I loose any man points for this??

No you man points will be fine...just get someone to record you having it done and youtube for us all to see a man in tears

can't be any worse than tweezers... Maybe more comedy value I give you that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, seen this before - so what! As long as the lady doesn't have hairy toes

Toes have hairs

Or do hairs have toes?

Eek! Which reminds me, I'm thinking about having my wayward eyebrows threaded. Is this OK for a guy, will I loose any man points for this??

No you man points will be fine...just get someone to record you having it done and youtube for us all to see a man in tears

can't be any worse than tweezers... Maybe more comedy value I give you that!

You wanna bet

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

And may I add that in 5 years together , nearly three years married , it's never happened here . But it did in both my previous marriages and it's not pleasant . "
I would say you are in the typical boring relationship now. Still preening so not to know what your other half really looks like warts and all. Relax a little a

be yourself let the hair grow or you maybe on a hattrick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

And may I add that in 5 years together , nearly three years married , it's never happened here . But it did in both my previous marriages and it's not pleasant . I would say you are in the typical boring relationship now. Still preening so not to know what your other half really looks like warts and all. Relax a little a

be yourself let the hair grow or you maybe on a hattrick "

I fail to see how preening as you put it , is a sign of a boring marriage . The not being bothered and settling in to warts and all is the sign of being no longer caring . You miss the point totally , but thanks for the advice anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

be yourself let the hair grow or you maybe on a hattrick

What about if appearance isn't something you or your partner cares about particularly?

Are relationships automatically boring and uncaring if you don't think that vanity is important?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Eek! Which reminds me, I'm thinking about having my wayward eyebrows threaded. Is this OK for a guy, will I loose any man points for this?? "

Wtf?

I still put little curlers in mine at night, is the Dennis Healey look out of fashion all of a sudden?

{puffs contemplatively on my pipe....}

Mr ddc

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"What's a few hairs between FWB,

It wouldn't bother me and if it bothered her I would say pluck them"

Although if there was more than on the top of my head, we probably wouldn't meet her again. No-one likes a show-off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not bother me we are who we are hairs or no hairs the person I would be with is all that counts in my book hair is a pain in the butt but we all have hairs we don't like or want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

be yourself let the hair grow or you maybe on a hattrick

What about if appearance isn't something you or your partner cares about particularly?

Are relationships automatically boring and uncaring if you don't think that vanity is important?"

To be absolutely honest we do both care about our aappearance . Perhaps too much , but it's an important part of showing each other that we care .

And for some , including us , the vanity and pride in appearance shows we aren't bored in our relationship . Long may it last i say as slobbing about in joggers and a sweatshirt , unshaven and oblivious to the impression that gives is not what we are about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About the typically boring relationship comment. I'm going to see a newish man tonight and I'm not shaving. I can't because my skin will be too sore after. It won't be boring sex and he won't mind,although I'm going to suggest no oral as he will get a sore tongue. It's just hair and I wouldn't recoil in horror if a man had hair growing out of his nose. Unless it had dried boogers on it,then I would probably be sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About the typically boring relationship comment. I'm going to see a newish man tonight and I'm not shaving. I can't because my skin will be too sore after. It won't be boring sex and he won't mind,although I'm going to suggest no oral as he will get a sore tongue. It's just hair and I wouldn't recoil in horror if a man had hair growing out of his nose. Unless it had dried boogers on it,then I would probably be sick

That's fair enough , but Iif you had a couple of noticeable hairs around your nipple , wouldn't you just pluck them out ?

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

"I guess the fact you had a corset on suggests you may have thought there may be a chance of action ?

This being the case , the fact you didn't bother with the hairs around you nipples suggests the relationship with your fwb is much more than just that .

Why ?

Because only a very comfortable and dare I say typical boring relationship would a woman not bother .... Just my thoughts .

be yourself let the hair grow or you maybe on a hattrick

"
sorry was being arse really. It's not nice picking at others relationships that we know very little about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be absolutely honest we do both care about our aappearance . Perhaps too much , but it's an important part of showing each other that we care .

I think that different people show that they care in different ways.

For instance I show my partners that I care about them by being there when they need me. By thinking of them when I see something that reminds me of them. By dropping them a text to check in on them. By remembering how they like their coffee or what their favourite takeaway is.

Pulling five hairs out around my nipples will never mean as much as those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do men care about pcos type hair? Eg facial hair, hairy tum, hairy bum. I see a lot of men say "so what?" to these type of questions but doubt they'd be so accepting of women with hirsutism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be absolutely honest we do both care about our aappearance . Perhaps too much , but it's an important part of showing each other that we care .

I think that different people show that they care in different ways.

Pulling five hairs out around my nipples will never mean as much as those things."

Very true , but we have all that too and raising a family and running a business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women and body hair is like driving a Ferrari on a 200 mile speed bump road...absolutely ridiculous ??

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I can't always be bothered shaving. Never had any complaints yet.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

pretty impossible to remove every single hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women and body hair is like driving a Ferrari on a 200 mile speed bump road...absolutely ridiculous ??"

And comparing women to objects like cars is an attitude that should really be left in the 1980s...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think that different people show that they care in different ways.

Pulling five hairs out around my nipples will never mean as much as those things."

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If a man is put off by the odd hair that I missed then I guess he'll just miss out ...

The point is , would you knowingly leave them ? "

Yes...

Though to be honest I rarely even think to check if I have hairs around my nipples.

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