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By *urpleflowersXXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I was recognised at work last week by a couple he whispered to her I know her shes from that swinger site were on....I know I have a face pic bound to get recognised. But how do you all handle it...either strangers or previous meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was recognised at work last week by a couple he whispered to her I know her shes from that swinger site were on....I know I have a face pic bound to get recognised. But how do you all handle it...either strangers or previous meets?"

I wouldn't worry, they're on there for the exact same reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all adults, would just laugh it off. It's the chance you take if you put face pics up.

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By *urpleflowersXXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Im not worried.....just hoping they will.message haha oh well

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends. I know there is a guy in my office who is on here but we studiously ignore each other. If I worked with the public I wouldn't even flinch - never going to see them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now only exchange face pics after I've chatted a while as this happened to me and the guys were quite pushy, even though I explained nicely that they "weren't my thing". Was rather uncompfortable to be fair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not worried.....just hoping they will.message haha oh well "

Well in that case you should have winked at them and took things from there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get recognised in bars and on the street a lot from here. Some guys say hi some don't then message me here. Doesn't bother me. I'm happy to tell someone i like/don't like them on here or in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had someone come into my work , not a say a word , leave then message me to say he had seen me it was very very creepy ... Personally I think there was no need to mention it after all we are all intitled to a private life .

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I was recognised at work last week by a couple he whispered to her I know her shes from that swinger site were on....I know I have a face pic bound to get recognised. But how do you all handle it...either strangers or previous meets?"

Once saw someone i knew from vanilla life in a swingers club, just ignored and avoided them all night and they avoided me to, lol. Don't think they would say anything just as i would not "out" them either, and both in the club for the same thing/reasons so i just figured why stress about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get recognised every day at work - whenever I pass a mirror

I'm self employed and work from home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem you do need to be careful though. When we lived in a town in Suffolk we had a single guy who recognised Mrs Us2 from a face pic on here. It worked out that his kid went to the same school as our youngest. He approached her at the school one morning after dropping the kids off!!! She ignored him as she was frightened and rushed off. A few days later he followed her to our car after dropping the kids at school! That's when I got involved, stayed off work the following morning, took my little'n to school with Mrs Us2, see the guy and gave him the "back the fuck off" look as the last thing I wanted to do is assault some guy in a school playground! lol

He duly shit himself and couldn't get to his car quick enough!!!

Not sure what happened but we didn't see him down the school after that!! lol

So, just take care when showing face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Dave)have been recognised by 3 others at work and approached by 2 of them. Doesn't phase me at all as they are on here for the same thing as we are. Also been recognised by a couple of customers now that's funny the look on their faces are oh shit are you going to say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a public face pic so extremely unlikely to be recognised by anyone I haven't spoken to. Those that I have met/chat to are largely not local ...so again...extremely unlikely to bump into. Having said that I have seen someone I met in a local tesco and because I'm very careful about who I meet it was totally painless and nothing was said at the time.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Kim gets recognised a lot when we are out shopping / nights out etc, as I'm just the cameraman i don't have this problem lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely see the public at my work & I honestly think if any of my colleagues were on here, they would say something to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check Fab at work, so I always wonder if I'll get clocked but hey

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By *urpleflowersXXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I would but I dont know what there profile is..I dont live in the area I work so thats a bonus I just said shhh I work here and gestured towards my boss and he just said so..the more the merrier ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have a face pic if you're bothered about being recognised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into someone off here... only ended up in her house! Due to my line of work I do a lot of home visits. I called her by fab name as I was leaving - she was shocked... we had a laugh n joke each swore to keep quiet and left it as that

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By *earl1knit1Couple
over a year ago

east midlands

what about the one...

we're at a house party 10 couples there next couple through the door, a woman from around the corner...

'not with her husband' whose also a friend of mine.....

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By *urpleflowersXXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Why have a face pic if you're bothered about being recognised?"

Im not bothered I just wondered what everyone else would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want my mug shot in the paper or on a tv documentry so any chicks who ask for a face pic quickly can do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt want my mug shot in the paper or on a tv documentry so any chicks who ask for a face pic quickly can do one "

What exactly have you done that your face would be in the paper or on a documentary? Doesn't bode wel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U thick? Any of us could be if someone wanted to run a story on swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U thick? Any of us could be if someone wanted to run a story on swingers "

Hahaha! That is the most ridiculous thing i've heard on here! Lmao! Ok dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but I dont know what there profile is..I dont live in the area I work so thats a bonus I just said shhh I work here and gestured towards my boss and he just said so..the more the merrier ..."

You have very good hearing if he whispered?

Or was it a staged whisper to get your attention?

Have they been in before & this was there plan to get your attention!!!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was recognised at work last week by a couple he whispered to her I know her shes from that swinger site were on....I know I have a face pic bound to get recognised. But how do you all handle it...either strangers or previous meets?

I wouldn't worry, they're on there for the exact same reason x "

well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U thick? Any of us could be if someone wanted to run a story on swingers "

Exactly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have a face pic if you're bothered about being recognised?

Im not bothered I just wondered what everyone else would do."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"U thick? Any of us could be if someone wanted to run a story on swingers

Hahaha! That is the most ridiculous thing i've heard on here! Lmao! Ok dude."

You think? Why do you think people don't advertise locations of socials, dogging sites etc in the forums? A journalist turned up at one social unknown to the guests and it was all over the papers with pictures of people entering and leaving the venue, I think it was in Wales.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened to me a couple times, people are discreet they probably think the same as you.

Once i met a guy, and a couple months later he came into my design agency to talk about posters and silently we were like"oh its you" lol so we emailed each other afterwards and laughed it off.

It was actually quite horny lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get recognised wherever I go and I know of at least 3 people from where I work on this site. 1 of which I guided on here haha. I dont mind as long as no one shouts it from the rooftops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U thick? Any of us could be if someone wanted to run a story on swingers

Hahaha! That is the most ridiculous thing i've heard on here! Lmao! Ok dude.

You think? Why do you think people don't advertise locations of socials, dogging sites etc in the forums? A journalist turned up at one social unknown to the guests and it was all over the papers with pictures of people entering and leaving the venue, I think it was in Wales. "

Broadcasters arent allowed to show your face on an undercover documentary or any documentary for that matter without your express written permission. The only exception is if you were caught comitting a crime and then convicted. I believe sex in a public place is illegal so doggers are fair game but there is NO WAY they can undercover film at a legal club or private residence and show people's faces on the telly. And clubs advertise publicly all the time on here and everywhere else! Dogger have ruined my local park so i really don't care what happens to them. People need to calm down. Your lives aren't that bloody interesting that you'll be getting papped everywhere you get naked. Jesus! Lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here's the Welsh "undercover pics of people leaving and arriving" piece. No pics, no reporters showed up on the night because they know the law doesn't allow it, just a piece about a party at a rental house. Which they advertised heavily online. Panic over.

http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/swingers-descend-brecon-beacons-hoedown-7134131

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I swapped pics with a guy who recognised me (I'd never seen him before) and decided to advertise my work address in his status update because he didn't get a reply to a message.

So that was nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not worried.....just hoping they will.message haha oh well "

great answer!!! x

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